Destiny Sx Swingers Club

Our first time here and wow what a night. Very friendly staff and customers. The rooms were immaculate and very cleverly designed. I loved the wet wipes everywhere, nice little dance floor if you want to boogie. All in all couldn't fault it and looking forward to going again!

Hi Karen & Robert
well we had our first experience of a club (sat 1st)
we was made welcome from the moment we walked in
we was put at ease and given a tour of the club
its not a big club , but this makes for a very friendly atmosphere, it was not clicky, and found the other members to be as warm and friendly as Karen & Robert are.

we loved the rooms and had fun watching another sexy couple playing.
in fact we found everyone very respectful friendly and of course horny :)

we did have a minor problem of a lost purse, only to find that it had been handed in still intact and with all the cards and money still in it, a rare thing these days, and a credit to the other members and the hosts, and would like to thank those responsible for the return of the lost purse,

we joined on the night and are looking forward to going again.
and would recomend others to visit

thanks for a great night
L&K
x

Visited Destiny’s last Friday (22/02/08)

This was the first time we've ever been to an adult venue and once getting over our initial fears of stepping through the door.
Once inside our fears slowly dissipated. On entry you'll be in the reception area and asked to complete a registration form and proof of I.D shown, you'll then enter a second door into the club itself. The owners and friends are very hospitable and make you very welcome, again making you feel less nervous straight away.

You'll be given a tour of the club, explaining the rooms and their functions (As if you needed to know). On using some of the rooms and lavatory, everything is very clean and comfortable. The Lavatory was well stocked with deodorants and baby wipes. My wife tells me her lavatory was stocked with even more items? hairspray etc?. So there is no need to take your own.

After a couple of drinks we went upstairs and used the Entertainment room to get a little more comfortable as it provides some very large beanbags and a large TV or Projector showing adult movies. We then move onto the Chinese themed room as we were still a little nervous we wanted a little privacy and this room has an actual door that can be closed. So it’s great for the nervous first timers. All other play areas have a pull across curtain. As well as the actual rooms there are many dark corners and areas for which to just relax or have fun in full view.

The membership, entry and drinks prices are all very reasonable and won’t break the bank should you be on any budget. The bar has a large selection of alcohol and some snack food should you be hungry. The club also sells adult toys, clothing etc should you require this for any of their themed nights and forgot to bring your own.

The actual location of the club is on a security guarded industrial estate, this makes the estate very secure and no passing foot traffic. If you didn’t know where the club actually was then you'd likely not know it was there, which again if you are nervous or trying to be discreet is perfect. So don’t expect a large glowing neon Vegas style sign advertising its location like I was.LOL


Overall we had a very positive experience and will be returning soon for some fun. This is PERFECT FOR THE NERVOUS FIRST TIMERS.

We visited Destiny last Saturday night (27/10/07). This was our first visit ever to a club and we were made to feel very welcome. The club is very clean and well set out with lots of rooms to play in.

We will definitely be going back in the near future. The only setback for us was that people were just a little too polite (understandably!!)and possibly missed out on some fun with us.....but there's always next time!!!!!

Thanks for a great night

Sam & Paul

Hello,we went to Destiny SX last night (31/08/07) for the first time,this by the way was the 1st club we had ever been to. We would highly recommend this club,it is fantastic. It is very clean,tidy,wellkept and fresh.The rooms are wonderful and very exciting. We are only into soft swing,however this was not a problem at this club. We were made to feel very welcome and it was very relaxing. 10 out 10,we will be back here again in the very near future!

In answer to the following:
Quite disappointing. A very small club, which although it advertises that it has 'dungeon' only really has a couple of basic pieces.
We have a dungeon with pieces which if we remember you made lots of use and even made use of our personal items for your pleasure without even asking us.

Also the night which we went, was advertised as going on until midnight, but they closed at 10:45pm.
On the evening you came was advertised as always on our website as a Sunday Service relaxing time BBQ which ended 10-11pmish, this has always been the case and we never open midnight on a Sunday.

Also we missed out on the inclusive BBQ because there was nothing to cater for my companion, a vegetarian.
You was asked several times during the evening if you wanted any BBQ which you stated that “maybe later” several times, you never asked us for vegetarian which we did have, also when you did bother to ask for some BBQ it was at 10:45 just as you were leaving and as by then it was cleaned and turned off, you asked for some crisps which at 50p you made a complain about re:”the free BBQ” and how you missed it and we gave you them for nothing.

On the positive side, it was very friendly and very very clean - immaculate toilets.
Infact its immaculate clean every where.

On the positive side there is always 2 sides to every story if you state your side we should be allowed to reply which I have done here.

We went on the friday , being the first time we have ever been to a club. The owners were excellent showing us round making us feel vewry relaxed and welocome. We were so comfortable we wnt again the next day(saturday). Talked to many couple who were all freindly and again made us feel comfortable and welcome. Would definately recomemd this for a first time club. Thanks again , oh and joined as members

Quite disappointing. A very small club, which although it advertises that it has a 'dungeon' only really has a couple of basic pieces.

Also the night which we went, was advertised as going on until midnight, but they closed at 10:45pm.

Also we missed out on the inclusive BBQ because there was nothing to cater for my companion, a vegetarian.

On the positive side, it was very friendly and very very clean - immaculate toilets.

having been to several clubs this is without doubt the best place to have fun, we have the most fun in the cleanist place, you can see its current review in the swingmag on the destinysx website.
well stocked bar, and as the site says saafe secure secluded and licensed wow even the security were friendly as well.
this place should not be missed

We went first time last sat..28th july 07 Our first club..
Well what can we say...absolutely brill..lovely people..lovely environment.no pressure..comfortable surroundings..well stocked bar..ha ha...very well priced..Well stocked everything...!! and as we girls know...it has to be clean...100% for that to karen x Robert...we had a good time..met some lovely people who we would wish to meet again...on Saturday..cant wait...we would recommend anyone to go..either a newbie or ..well anyone...

We have been regular visitors to Destinys for the last 6 months.... as newbies to the club scene we were terrified at the prospect of going to a club for the first time.... but Destinys as we found is a great place to go... Karen & Rob are excellent hosts... the club itself is warm and friendly, very very clean and comfortable... it has a nice social relaxed bar area, and some fun play rooms upstairs. We would recommend this club to anyone new or otherwise to the scene... D & M xxxxx

Have been to this club several times. Its very friendly club with great playrooms its very discreet.and very very clean

Have been to the club on a Tuesday and Saturday, but not a Friday.love Saturdays
The owners are brill and make you very welcome you feel like you belong Can definately definately recommend this venue, especially for those new to the club scene,this was the second club i tryed and so pleased i did as the 1st was a bit intimidate and being newbies did not like it but hear you wont be disapponeted whatsoever. all the best k and R see you soon

we went to destinys for the first time on saturday night which is always daunting going to a club for the first time but we shouldnt have worried as the regulars made us very welcome and Robert and Karen were the perfect hosts.The club was clean a good atmosphere and we will be going back again soon

We have been visiting Destiny's for just over a year so about time we posted our review.

This was our first experience of visiting a club and K&R are perfect hosts. We have been to many theme nights on a Saturday and also are regular visitors on a Tuesday and Friday there is a very friendly atmosphere on any evening. The club is on 2 levels so if you are just looking for a social thats fine, and up the spiral staircase you will find clean themed playrooms to set the mood. We highly recomend Destiny's and thanks you to K & R for making our visits so enjoyable xxx

We visited the club on the friday, it was a black and white night and very busy, we were made to feel really welcome, so welcome we decided to return on the saturday, mostly couples only on saturday, but again a nice evening.

The club itself offers a clean and fun time for all, a must for all to try.

Robert and Karen are very good hosts and make you feel comfortable if you are newbies such as us to the club scene.

if you only visit one club this year ,make it destiny.sue and i have been three times now,1 friday and 2 saturdays. as newcomers we were a bit dubious at first, but we were made so welcome. the atmosphere is great and we had a realy good time from the start.it is an ideal venue for 'newbies'to the club scene(we think so anyway).the owners,karen n rob,recomended a first visit on a friday-less hectic..good idea.the next time was an SDC theme night..very busy and an eye opener!
well worth a visit,or 2 or more...
we are definately going to be regulars....
all we need is an 'alibi club' for the kids benefit!!!
sue n brian

Have been to this club several times. Its a small, very social and friendly club with ample playrooms, a small dungeon, and a great, secure location for your car and accessing the club, its very discreet as its on an indistrial estate.

Have been to the club on a Tuesday and Saturday, but not a Friday. We prefer the Saturdays, quite often there is a party theme and fancy dress.

The owners are very attentive to the member / guests needs, and really make you feel at home. Can definately recommend this venue, especially for those new to the club scene, as its a far from daunting, in your face type club, and wont intimidate newbies whatsoever.

Its very handy for us too, being 10 minutes from home.

Dear Karen and Rob,

Got to say what a fantastic night we had at Destiny last evening.

We both feel that all your hard work shows through in the way you have laid out the club. Great play rooms, with a very sexy ambience. The attention to detail in the Chinese; Jungle and Starlight rooms is brilliant. And the BIG bed....wow, had we not been so thoroughly entertained in the Jungle Room (many thanks ............YOU know who you guys are!!!) we would certainly have enjoyed ourselves in there. A defo for next visit.

Once the word spreads, we feel that you have a real hit on your hands.

All the very best,

Hi Karen & Robert

Just a Short one to say a very big thank you to you both and your helpers for making our first ever club visit such a good one.

We were put at ease straight away and were made welcome by all

We will be returning again in the near future.

Thanks again

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