We went to Cj's against the odds. We attempted to establish contact through email but still waiting. We phoned and found kinky to be very friendly. We arrived at the CPLS & FEMS PARTY 23rd feb to find ourselves in a rather dull flat. The half a dozen or so cpls were all friendly, and the SINGLE GUYS were also friendly. As the night wore on I was made to feel uncomfortable as the pissed hostess was accusing me of being a journo, because we hadn't joined in at that stage. We did get into the swing of things with 4 ladies peeling off to a room. We were then joined by the 2 SINGLE GUYS who did not hesitate to ingratiate themselves in the action. One of the other men viewing the action further compounded our discomfort by letting out a very audible nasal snigger as one of the single guys was getting in on the action. Had our fun and decided to leave. Kinky then retrieved my valuables from the 2 locked tins. She took them both and was away for a rather long, uncomfortable time with them. Maybe I was getting paranoid by that time but i felt sure she was checking, phone, wallet and camera?
Trust is important at these parties. If the party is advertised as cpls and fems only, then this is what we expect. Not 2 guys sniffing around us and making their moves as soon as we started to have some fun. All in all, a very disappointing initiation into the swinging party scene. We will tread more carefully in the future.