Xtasia Swingers Club

we went saturday the 5th july , it was our first time at any swingers club , but we where put too great ease when we arrived. Very professional and you felt very safe .Everything was clean , the staff where friendly and helpfull,the atmosphere was very relaxed .
The Erection tent...which we will leave to your imagination ...was defo an eye opener fantastic. We only went on the saturday night because we where told fridays is to many single guys so we have only experienced the saturday night which was an amazing night.
We went in not expecting anything to happen ...but it did ....
Reccomend this club defiinatley. There is also a hotel right next door so we will stay there next time as we travelled an hour and half to get there.

We went to Xtasia on 14th June and had a great time, as usual. We go there at least every other week, never had a bad time yet.
We go to other clubs also and find the scene very quiet at the moment, probably due to the smoking ban, Xtasia does have a very comfortable smoking area,
There is always plenty going on there as they have a nice mix of people, and the prices at the bar are remarkably reasonable.

we have been going to this club for about 4 years. the first 2/3 years were great...very busy club, lots of good looking couples and quite a few young couples...but the last year it has gone greatly downhill and we don't know why. on saturday the 14th june the place was deathly quiet...as it had been the last 3/4 times we had been this year. no young couples (we are 28 and 32)...just the old and ugly...of the people that were there, too many of them just sit around the bar and then go home...there was hardly any action at all. it used to start at 9pm and it was crazy! you couldn't get onto the dance floor for naked bodies! but now u have to wait until past midnight before anyone even ventures into the dark room and nothing happens anywhere else...and then you wouldn't want to join them. a great shame because this place used to be brilliant. we have now cut up our membership card. a 200 mile round trip that just isn't worth it, we repeatedly went back for second chances but something has gone wrong here....also the club seems to know they have an attendance issue..the price has gone up a fiver.

we started visiting Xstasia in January and have been about five times since then. We have never yet had a bad night and the club is fantastic. Don't really notice the music as we are too busy enjoying ourselves with other couples. It is great to find a club where people want to play and where everyone makes the effort. The staff are helpful and polite,the drinks are very reasonable and there is good mix of people of all ages and types. We would recommend it very highly and look forward to our next visit

Its hard for me to compare really as this is the only club i have been to being fairly new to the scene. It is first-timer friendly though i will say!!!
Been here several times but as a single-fem prior to meeting my bf, i found it to be clean, safe. relaxed & friendly though there a groups of clicky peopel who have been clearly going for years. The staff are friendly, no waiting at the bar, nice dancefloor (music needs attention though, same cd put on repeat week after week i think!) I have met some lovely couples, some whom i have played with and others who i have just had a laugh with. I went with my bf for first time a few weeks back and he loved it, i will definately visit again though i think they need a new dj.

Went last night 26/04/08 couples and single fems night, been visiting this club for 6 years now. We travel 140 miles to get to the club and well worth visit. I have read reviews and would like to say that some people waffling a load of rubbish, the club does not have any strange smells, well possible when loft room full can smell SEX! but it is a SEX club if you want to smell flowers - VISIT A FLORIST! Members are friendly and approachable, you get the odd ones who got their own heads stuck up arse but plenty of people to find someone else to talk too. The club next door has now had the late night licence revoked, so no problems - although I never felt threatened at all in fact most of the time all you get were compliements as leaving but I do love BMW's ma favourite hee hee. Xtasia has a fantastic dance floor with two dance poles, this is were you will find me most of the time, or sat on ma hubby lol. Nice to see all the women make an effort with appearance and not horrid "sexy" towels. Dont take my word for it - give the club a visit and make your own mind up. The music is sometimes not to everyones taste - but the club does cater the music for all age ranges, DJ's are human ya know ask them for a particular track, rather than just slate them. I have had many nights of sexy fun and I know will have plenty more - the night is what you make it. Have fun and remember those who "play together, stay together". AA (PnP) xx

Nice club, shame about the people.

Too clique, and too many bargain basement couples sat around the dance floor staring into space. The rooms are too dark - you practically fall over yourself trying to get through them.

What makes this club worth avoiding is the attitude of everyone concerned. It's members seem to be mostly from Birmingham for some bizarre reason, and most of them won't chat to anyone except the group they came in with.

Worst of all is the predominantly male staff seem to use glass collection as an excuse to stand next to couples for a full on perv. Made myself and my girlfriend feel really uncomfortable.

Then, to top it all off, you have to run the gauntlet of abuse from the scum that hangs out in the beer garden of the pub next door.

Won't be going back.

We went to xtasia in late Jan after having it recommended to us. We were impressed straight away as a car picked us up from the secure car park and dropped us off at the door of the club. All staff we very friendly and we were shown around the place despite it being busy. We were told it was a quiet night for a Saturday but there must have been at least 50 couples there.

Most of the people there were great looking, very sexily dressed and there was a really good age range. The place is more like a night club and we loved the seted area where you can sit and watch or sit and play. We went in the grope box to see what would happen and soon found ourselves being felt up.

We wish this place was nearer as it is 240 mile round trip but the fact that many had travelled some distance to get there showed how good the place was.

We will be back very soon.

Went for the first time last Saturday!Never done anything like it b4 and wow absolutley fantastic! The staff were great (we were abit nervous at first!) and showed us around. It was the best night that I (we) have had EVER! We met a couple and well that was it 5 hours of pure fun!!!!!!! The place was clean, friendly, cheap drinks, and a great atmoshphere! We intend to visit one a month. Can't stop smiling - thanks S and S!!!

Went to Xstasia on the Fri 8th of December and must say it is a really professionally run club from the way you are greeted on the way in to the attention to detail with ID etc.
We found the idea of a night club as opposed to sauna based clubs a change (althought there is a naturist area) We found the people friendly and the music ok. Bar staff could not have been more helpful.
We found the dress code for some of the single guys appallingly lax though and if they are not going to make even that small effort then they can forget it as far as we were concerned as hygiene and style play a big part in attractiveness.
We found the security staff polite and professional and one of them even escorted us a little outside to make sure we were ok as we were staying in the Hotel Next door.
We would definitely go again and found the buzz of the whole place exhilirating
Brodesword

We visited Xtasia on Friday 28th December 07. It was our first time at the club and the doormen were really friendly.

We had a guided tour of the club and he explained some rules. We really liked the idea that most places have sections.

There are sofas which are near the door; the ones closer to the door are for people who do not want any contact, in the middle is contact if invited, and at the back anything goes. It was not very busy, about 15 couples and 7 single men, and the couples were quite young, which is nice as we are also a young couple.

It smelt fine to me and the facilities and atmosphere were great!

The drinks are really cheap, with a shot of bailey's costing just £1! The barstaff are very friendly and chatty.

We will definately go there again, some time after the new year when it will be busier!

I highly recommend this club!!

wow guys what can we say
visited xxtasia sat 24th nov having only been to one club before which we found to be very dissapointing we decided to try some where else to see if there was anywhere better
we were not dissapointed
we were quite nervouse when we entered the club but were put at ease straight away by the friendly polite door staff as it was our first time we had an unrushed guided tour wich really helped (thanks to the door man who showed us round)
we found the staff behind the bar very friendly also and the price who can complain at 3 pound for 2 bottles of bud cheeper than our local lol
we very quickly got chatting to a cpl who we stayed with all night we explored most of the club excluding the naturist area as thats not for us
we spent a good 2 hours in the loft area which was great maybe a little low as male half of us is 6ft 2 but wow what a fantastic time we had
even when we came to leave the club the door staff walked us to our hotel which is next door
deffinatly going back
many thanks guys and if the couple we met read this a special thanks to you

23rd Nov 2007 went to the club. We had a great night. however it was only due to the fact me met some great couples. exp the ones From Newport (D&D)!! get in touch if you can again. They club was very quiet, it may be because its coming up to Xmas and its just quiet before. Also the single men they let in on Fridays have become scruffy (Where has the dress code gone?). Dont be put off by bad reviews the club is great.

We went to Xtasia on Friday 9th November, the first "Greedy Girls" party we have attended, it was a really lively night with a fabulous turn out of couples and enough singles to keep Jojo happy,she was one of the many greedy girls.
Last night, Saturday 17th November, was a couples "Favorite uniforms" party, we got into the mood dressed as a cop and robber. Another really busy night with lots of atmosphere and action.
We love this art deco style swinging nightclub,and enjoy the naturist floor with its sauna and jacuzzi, and have tried out all of the many play areas around the club. This is the busiest swinging we have visited and feel it is more sociable than others we have tried, their members are really nice, we always have a sexy night out.
It must be very difficult to cater for such a large number of people of different ages and tastes, especially the music, but feel that all-in-all this club is very well run, with efficient and friendly staff.
Jojo/Malc

WOW!!!
just been to the s.d.c. night at the club, our first time as we are a young couple.
we are impressed, great friendly polite staff, the people are lovely too, not pushy at all, if you want a drink on your own no problem or if you want to play there are plenty of attractive couples.
as it was our first time, we didn't play but we are definately going back.....maybe next saturday.
J&R xxx

we went to xtasia for the first time on Friday 9th November, although we have been to other clubs before.The club has an ambience of a 1970's niteclub ( and looks like it was last decorated in 1973).The door staff were curteous and helpfull. The club was very busy but it seems it was busier than usual as SDC had organised a greedy girls party nite. There were an awful lot of single guys there and they didn't seem to opperate any dress code, which was a pity as most of the guys were not particularly well groomed.Entrance fee and drinks prices were very competative and most of the ladies there seemed to dress to please. We had liked the idea of a swinging nite club but th music was a dissapointment, neither cheesey nor trendy, and there were not really many people dancing during the nite. The play areas are very very dark and at times it took a while to get aclimatised to the dark, we didn't go to the naturist/wet area so cant comment on that.Did we play? yes of course we did, not going to drive all that way for nothing!!

went on sat 29th september for the third time...was very quiet this time for some reason,had been very busy the last time...we played around with a lovely couple,fem to fem,was fab...its a very clean club and has loads of little dark places and has a fab bed downstairs,couldnt get off it once i lay down....missed out on another couple who had a lovely fem who stared at my wife alot but we are new and didnt know how to approach them...regrets...if by chance you read this,its for the girl with the black hair and boots,i think from sheffield...all round nice club and great sexy music,friendly...only thing i would say is the doormen are not very polite and they tend to hang around alot watching...NO SINGLE MALES ON A SATURDAY,DOOR MEN XX

Went with my wife on Saturday 22nd of September 2007. The door staff certainly need some training concerning the way they greet and react with customers. Sitting down with your feet on the table is not a great way to meet people. Apart from that club is clean, doesn't smell and the bar prices are very reasonable. However, there weren't many people in the club and the busiest place seemed to be the smoking area at the rear outside of the club. I am not a snob but the Club is becoming very chavvy in it's dress. Jeans, white T shirts and lots of tattoos showing is not really the ideal dress code.

This club could be very welcoming, but at this moment in time it isn't at all.

Our 1st visit, 8 September 07, also 1st time we've been to a swinging club.
Loved it - would advise anyone that's thinking of going for the 1st time though, make sure you've been to a few munchies/ socials 1st as it could be a little over whelming if you haven't.
We went on a Saturday night, couples & single females night. Everyone was dressed very sexy and although not over busy, there was enough people there for a really good atmosphere.
Had a quick look at spa area but hadn't gone for that so didn't really hang around.
Loved the 'Box' - being in it and on the outside!
Loved the 'Wendy House' area - surprised ourselves just how sexy we got! We went with the intention of a look and got so much more lol
The bar prices are very cheap - much better than a standard pub!
The staff are excellent and look after you, have a laugh, really can't express just how good they are, even the lads outside making sure we got back to the hotel ok.
Oh, and the hotel is about 20 footsteps from the club!!

We went April 2007 to a couples Saturday night,and did not enjoy the experience at all.The staff were great and very friendly,but the clubbers were very clicky.The music was awful-not dance music,more like boy and girl band chart stuff.There was a lot of sex going on in the relevant play areas,but it all seemed very seedy.

First visit Xtasia last night (25th Aug 07). Staff were extremely friendly and the drinks are cheap. That's the good stuff said now onto the rest.

We decided to go to Xtasia as it boast a large dance floor which others don't. However the music was really bad ALL night.

The spa is out of the way and needs re-decorating. The themed rooms in the loft don't encourage play as there are too many rules about were you can go and what you want to do. And they are so small that unless you want to full swap you dare not go in.

In other clubs you have to change out of "normal" clothes which I have found puts you in the mood. Here there were people dress as if they were in the pub - I think that this made for a very slow night.

Lots of good looking people but not a lot of action - we won't be going back in a hurry

Well well well,what can i say about this club,im not sure theres been a word invented to describe how great it is.Ive personally been three times now,twice on a friday night,and last saturday,the 21st of july.Each time,ive been with a good friend of mine and we have both had some great fun.The friday nights were very interesting with lots of lots of action going on,perfect if your female and want lots of attention by the guys,most of them being very nice and polite.I really enjoyed last saturday with the club putting on a little wet t-shirt competition,if i was to critizise this,it was only for the fact that they gave out green and blue t-shirts,thus when wet you couldnt really see through them,although number 9 did have a white t-shirt on,and that was very very nice lol!We both met some lovely couples on saturday night and we had some incredible fun in the instant contact area in the lounge in the last half hour.I do like to nip into the feel box from time to time to be groped,very naughty i know but oh so very nice!!The owners are great and very friendly,always having time to chat with you.Overall i have gave this a five star rating,would give it more but it only goes up to five,will be going again as soon as ive recovered from saturday night,go and have fun folks,its guaranteed!!

We only been to the club once we were nervous for the first what 5 mins!!!! once were had been shown around we went to explre by ours selves and boy did we explore we had a fantastic night didn't let our hair down completely. We went to the club on a sat night it was very busy but still we enoyed our night was goin to stay in the hotel next door discoverd that was fully booked but we no have the number to pre book next time and there will be lots of next times i quite enjoyed being a nwty minx

I have visited the club on a number of occasions and thought it about time to leave my review to help people decide whether to visit Xtasia or not …..

This is my feelings on the actual club …. it’s nothing flash, so don’t expect the Ritz, but it’s clean, the staff are more than friendly with enjoyable banter and a v cute barman (who unfortunately doesn’t swing!) The music is not the most recent, but decent and good to dance to. The drinks are v cheap (Malibu and coke £1.80). Parking is great with a secured car park and a taxi service to the door or if staying in a local hotel (I recommend Park Inn) at the end of the night Xtasia will order a taxi for you. All the play areas are great, ranging from the comfortable lounge, the wet area, the dark areas and the lovely cosy loft area which smells of sex (my favourite). Friday night is great especially if your looking for single guys, whether as a couple or a single female, but be aware, there are a lot of single guys looking to get off and if this is not your cup of tea, go on a Saturday as it is mainly couples with a few single females and perfect as you don’t have any single guys hanging around for attention. On both evenings there is lots of action going on, perfect for voyeurs!

I used to go with a boyfriend (who is now the ex), we visited Xtasia on a couple of occasions, Friday and Saturday nights …. both being totally different (as explained above), but very much enjoyable. But now I am a single female member and love it, I last visited Xtasia Friday (8th June) and had a fantastic night, so much attention from those men, which is great being a greedy girl and plan to go this Saturday (16th June) for some action with some sexy couples!

The above is my personal opinion …. and I think if you want to experience a swinging club, Xtasia is perfect, as it has a totally laid back and relaxed atmosphere with no pressure from anyone!

Go … I’m sure you’ll love it

Went 2nd June as our second visit. The staff are great, friendly and helpful and put you at ease as soon as you get in. Lots of horny areas to play in the sofas are great to watch and be watched doing anything as soft or as hard as you like! We went into the instant contact area and wow seriously horny!! Upstairs in the loft is a bit dark and being 5'11" and in my heels i did have to stoop, met a great couple upstairs and had some fun. All laid back and easy going.
Not too sure about the music when the curtain goes down it isnt what we would call erotic!!
IF you are reading this and you are deciding whether or not to try it, we would say go and explore, its great!!

Nick & Jo

Visited the club for the first time 11/5/07. Quite impresssed. First impression very well organised £10 to get in for a couple and professional friendly staff. A night club feel with dark secluded corners,respectful singles and really friendly couples.OBSERVATIONS....
Wow loads of rules with reference to signs you can't see as it's so dark. Play rooms up stairs!like little cubby holes with rules either side of the corridor, but it works so don't knock it. I am 5'10" and even stooped i banged my head coming down the stairs so 6ft and above beware. Pool closed that night so can't comment.

Overall a really good club. Reasonable charges, friendly staff, singles who don't overstep the mark and very clean. Due to the rules for defined smoking areas we didn't come out stinking of cigarettes which is a first so well done. Will return soon despite being two hours drive away.

Have stopped going to the club as it becomes run down. The toilets are far from clean and according to staff are often blocked old and leaking - not a good point for swingers. The play areas - as you come in and to the right are all fabric and are often damp and wet again not very nice. The upstairs loft are small dim and do not offer the possiblilty of contact. I guess the plus side is that the music is good and drinks are cheep - but then who goes their to drink.
The club needs updating and thought and consideration given to the needs of swingers. As other clubs do offer alot better.
One point I would make is that the staff are great and are always near to hand.
Paul

My wife and I have considered visiting a club for some time and finally attended the UK Softies evening on 28 April.

The hosts & hostess were excellent and went out of their way to explain what to expect and to reassure us that our boundaries would be respected.

Once left alone,we were fortunate to meet up with several other couples who were quick to share experiences and put us at ease.

While we didn't enjoy the instant contact areas, we did enjoy and make good use of most other areas of the club.

We would recommend the club to any first timers and will no doubt we will be back soon!

S&K

Went to softies night 28th April I must say a great night This was our 1st time and it was great club was fantastic staff excellent met a couple called mark & lyn a big help and thanks for showing us the ropes will be going back next

mark & carol

We went to Xtasia for the first time on Saturday 17th March 07 and we were both very impressed having previously been to the pits of a club in Essex which nearly put us of for life!

ALL of staff were very helpful and friendly. The club itself was clean, well run and the drinks were cheap. If you like dancing, as we do, there is plenty of good music, a couple of poles and a fun filled atmosphere. We were quite surprised to find so many people indulging in having sex out in the open (there were bodies everywhere in the couples room!)and the Instant Contact rooms were fun, although a bit claustrophobic with the heat.

We didn't make it to the Naturist room so will be going back in a couple of weeks time for a bit more fun since we enjoyed ourselves so much!

Thanks for a great night out!
Rosie and Herman xx

Weird place. Bit like an 80s disco on the inside, and where are the beds? We had fun, but have to say that it wasn't very sexy.

Went to Xtasia for the first time on Saturday the 24th Feb (our first visit to a club) and had a fantastic time. A really nice place with great staff, very cheap drinks and a relaxed, no pressure atmosphere. Thanks very much to the couple that 'held our hand' and put us completely at ease. We'll definitely be going again.

We went to this club on saturday 20th of jan.After high expectations, I was very dissappointed.
The man who was doing the regerstrations this evening, was rude and very unwelcolming, the other staff seemed ok.
I found the club itself dirty and disfunctional, my idea of sexy, is not behind some disused bar. we ended up in the loft........by then I was totally not in the mood.The only good thing about this place was the dancing ...bar the stupid curtain thing.....wet area, again, sorry but no way. Would only go to this club again if in the area, not much chance of that, will stick to LC sheffield. It is a shame, but with the obvious turnover of this place and the size, it could be made very luxurious with lovely rooms, as it is now, didnt even want to take my coat off, let alone anything else.

Went to xtasia for the first time on sat 3rd feb 2007 and found the club to be first class we had a warm welcome by the staff and found them to be very friendly and helpfull.the facilities there were very good indeed with a no-pressure atmosphere gr8 value bar very cheep drinks very nice place to go and unwind with friends and just enjoy the atmosphere.didnt try the jacuzzi this time but will defornatly go again soon. went into the wendy house with 4 of our friends and had a great time very erotic with people watching us through the blinds. overall had a fantastic nite would recomend it to anyone for a great night out.

Visited Xtasia friday 19th January 07 in a group of 6. Hadn't been for a while as been very busy before christmas so our long awaited return was great!.. as usual, everyone here is very friendly and all the play areas are spacious and airy. Love the club atmosphere and the ability to wear whatever we like instead of towels. Bar prices are very reasonable but only one thing I'd change and thats the fact we have to carry our money around with us to use the bar. A pay on exit scheme would be so much easier for the customer as other clubs do. But that aside I still prefer this club to any of the others Ive been to. Looking forward to many happy return visits.
Angellicker n pals x

We have visited the club twice, 29th dec 07 being the last time, found everyone really friendly and nice. My partner had a great time with Neil, and Jayne was very very nice, even though I was a bit nervous as it was my first experience away from Jan. We wil definatly be going again - hopefully neil and jayne would like more of the same...
xxxxx
Andy & Jan

We went weekend of the 8/9th Dec, on both the Friday and the Saturday. No problem with leaving the club at all, the security staff are well organised and actually stand out in the rain and cold to see that guests leave OK. To be honest this club, and all others to be come to that could do with a good hostess, to get people talking to each other etc. All the staff are very friendly which does help.Mind you the DJ needs a kick up the bum,so if you like dancing,we do,give him a list....lol. If you have not been, then go you will not be dissapointed, we had a tahe away on the Fiday, thanks Pete.....

We (Dave and Kate)visited the club on Sat 2nd Dec 06 and had a great time thanks to Jo and James (you know who you are! Please let us know via this review when you are next going). Such a lovely couple and fantastic atmosphere. The staff as always were happy and helpful; the music was great and the bar was really brilliant value with quick service. Lots of attractive couples of mixed ages most dressed smartly and sexily.
Only one small niggle couldn't get away from smokers who were definately in the majority, any possibility in the future of a no smoking area around the disco?
One very big thank you to the minibus drivers and security lads, very impressive service. Although there was no sign of any intimidating people or behaviour when we arrived or left, just a normal Saturday night.

Went to Xtasia Halloween weekend had a fab time ,yet again. The Club was very busy and they looked after us all very well. Must congratulate the many members who made an effort to dress-up. Very impressed with the way they transport us to and from the nearby carpark, which is in walkable distance but nice for the ladies with their high heels. Will be there again this Friday and Saturday.

WELL!! - We have been to the club 6 times now over a period of 1 and half years. It MUST be said that we have always had a really really great time IN the club. The staff are great - the new bar is terrific and the prices beat our local pub!! - the place always seems clean and the staff work hard all night to clear up as glasses etc collect. Both Cpls and Single guys are polite and follow the "rules" - thanks to tos we have chatted to and played with over our times! It IS a top place to have fun - there is no debating that. As an extra - we have stayed at the hotel next door twice - once a while ago when it was the days hotel - and it was PANTS for the money - BUT now it has changed hands to the travel Inn group and of course you get the comfort that you always get in a travel inn type joint - clean, staff are super, smells nice, everything works, and it was warm!.. HOWEVER - We will not be going back - it really is such a shame because we like the club so much. The problem is coming out!! - We now live in a place where we are not made to feel intimidated when we go out at night (before anyone gets on their high horse - we once lived in Brum in an area like this - so we know the score). The pub next door to this club is without doubt dodgy. We came out last night Friday the 29th Sep 06 and there was approx' 50+ Black youths in various states of drunkeness and obvious influence of drugs (believe me we know the difference due to work) - The pub has become far more popular since the last time we went to the club and attracts "gang" members from west brom and beyond (we also know this through contacts). We are white - and they noticed!! - We had to be escorted to our hotel and even this left us feeling more than worried. YES NOTHING HAPPENED - BUT - one day it is going too and we are not prepared to volunteer ourselves to be the first. All it would take is for one or more of the youths to have had a "bad" night and feel the need to vent their frustrations on someone. Bearing in mind the hotel is 100yds away from the club -- we saw 2 assaults on the other side of the road in the 2 mins it took to walk the short distance (one pub go-er on others - one a girl!!!) " If you are in a comfy lifestyle with the trimmings of feeling safe on a night out - we recommend that you do not risk putting yourselves in potential harms way by running the highly charged atmosphere on leaving Xtasia. Sorry Xtasia - it really is a shame that your club is not in a better location - we would happliy pay £150 year membership if it was!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

our fourth visit now, ive been reading the reviews on this site for the club and wished to comment on our experience on this , its been said its in a rough part of the world, well its in west bromwich, not the roughest part of the world of course but what you could call an inner city type area, one of the reviews reads how they got heckled when leaving well i dont know about then but now you are escorted from the club to a free taxi service that takes you to your car ,or you walk the hundred yards to the hotel next door, you do have to walk past late night revellers from a nearby pub but i have to say on the four occasions we have been we have never had as much as a wolf whistle and at times Rose and our friends have certainly been dressed in a fashion that would have bought that kind of attention, im afraid to say, from most late night lads hanging round any night club, yet we had nothing , now im not saying this is always the case as im sure you will always get one likely lad thats going to cat call or more but compared to entering a certain munch not so long back, where Rose was dressed pretty much the same and got whistled and told we were pervs there has been nothing of note to say........yet no mention was made by anyone that this was a bad venue , it wasnt , so dont be put off too much by the one or two bad reviews, we all have bad nights ......

Been to the sdc nites enjoyed ourselves both time were on saturdays, met some nice people in the hotel and in the club.staff friendly only downside the greeting outside on the street on leaving.best club we have been too so far travelled from yorkshire.

We were showed around Xtasia by a really friendly woman who proudly told us that the descending curtain cost £7500 to install. All I can say is they could really have better spent that money on decor or even some BEDS! It's fine if you want to have sex on paisley sofas or in weird little Star Wars-like pods, but there were only two places were you could properly lie down on a mattress.

The signs everywhere were great for entertainment value, but did make us feel that we were at a swingers night organised by a school headmaster. You have to check that where you're sitting or even standing is the correct location, even by the bar (surnames A-M on the left, N-Z on the right). A little too orgnanised for spontaeneous fun.

On the plus side, it was very large and busy, so you're more likely to find someone you fancy. Not much good for people in their twenties, though. We might try again on the couples night as the creepy single men might have spoilt the atmosphere for us.

Weve recently been tto xstasia twice on a saturday (our 1st visit to a club) and i have to say generally we have been really impressed

all of the staff are very nice and welcoming and the club itself is well looked after and not in the least seedy

our 1st trip was a slight disappointment because it was a sat after england had played in the world cup and it was very quiet but the 2nd time we went (24th june) the club was much busier

both nights we have met nice people and played to some extent and N managed to get her 1st bi experience last time and absolutely loved it (and cant wait to get more !!!)

only slight downside for us is that we havent managed to click with a couple who wanted a full swap yet but i guess thats just luck of the draw

We regularly visit Xtasia and always managed to find partners to swing with. The easiest place to make contact is on the smoochy dances held about every half hour, and then all move to one of the bedrooms for more intimate fun. If you like singles go on Wednesday or Friday nights, when they allow a few into the Club.
With regards to the Pub next doors, it is busy and sometimes noisy, but we have always found the crowd friendly and occasionally pop in there for a drink before going into Xtasia.

I found it was full of couples having sex with their own partners. I feel that it is a club for people who liked to be watched. people showing offtheir trophy partners. I have however only been the once and it was on a couples only night. The staff were very friendly and helpful and we felt quite safe and comfortable. Beware the pub next door can be rough. Perhaps if there were more singles there the flavour may have been different.

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I went with my patner to xtasia sat 8th April. This was our second visit to the club.People are made to feel very welcome and any nerves disappear very quickly.The club is very well supervised by a professional team who make sure eveybody is safe and comfortable.If you are new to the scene its a good place to start and there is no pressure to join in.The curtain comes down over the dance floor at set times which is very erotic. The drinks are reasonable And a fab time was had by all.One minus point was the people in the club were held back from leaving due to trouble outside at another pub.On this note the staff and they know who they are must be praised for the way they looked after everyones interest and safety at the end of the night.

dated 17th march 06, last night me and steve had go night ,met this fetish cpl ,very nice ,we had play doing are fetish .alot of people watching .best club to fetish ,,fridays be best for fetish new commers ,learn all aspects of it ..thank you very much to andy for his support looking out for me in club , and all other staff too brillant team .. taxi to from club excellent ..be proud all ..mel and john keep up good work ...lv michelle and steve xx

Attended the club for the first time Saturday March 11th 2006. We went because we like the idea of a nightclub based appraoach where couples keep their clothes on. Other clubs such as Utopia have far too many people wandering around in those awful towels which is a BIG turn off for us.
Our first impressions were good, lots of couples, whether or not they are attractive is not for us to say, we found 2 or 3 couples we liked others may find more or less, plenty of areas to sit and places to play or just watch others. Very friendly staff and excellent prices at the bar. Nice atmosphere, no pressure to join or be part of anything so it would be a good place to visit for couples new to all this.
On the downside we would have preferred a stricter dress code as some of the men looked quite untidy wearing jeans or tshirts. One annoying couple with a bisexual female where the guy was cruising around on his own quite lecherously and coming into the couples sofa areas whilst she spent most of the night on the dancefloor, again the club should be stricter about these things especially as he was also scruffy in jeans and white polo shirt with great big lettering on the back. In the main however everyone is well behaved and even though lots of alcohol is consumed there is a nice atmosphere and no problems.The area the club is based in is VERY rough and as the club is based next to a very rowdy pub this is not at all pleasant when one is entering and in particular leaving the club. We left about 2.30am and there were lots of youths hanging around the streets shouting and swearing which was not pleasant.
Overall we enjoyed the evening and would attend again.

Went to club Sat 4th Oct. It was about our 4th visit and probably the quietest we have seen it. Having drinks licence is good as drinks are very reasonable, £1.50 for a bottle of Bud can't be bad.
Met a great couple there G & R who'm we had never talked to before yet we clicked and we don't normally get involved with anyone we just like being watched and watching others but on this occasion the two women got off together which is a dream cum true and also felt comfortable enough to have some fun all together in the Jacuzi WOW.
Only real complaint of the night was the music was poor and the sound bad, not normally like that. Someone said about the area being rough , well it is but the staff can't do any more for you and thanks to them all. It certainly wasn't rough inside the club.
Love to all especially G & R, you know who you are and thanks J & A

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