Sorry but I hated this party. I went on a Saturday night, a couples night. It just didnt get me in the mood at all and I'd had a very horny day with my buddy so was naturally expecting that to continue into the evening and I am not a shy person and I have a high libido but when at Pleasures I just wanted to hide away, this for me is really unusual as I am exhibitionist and always kick off activities and am always up for it. Was far too seventies for my liking. There were lots of couples but everyone really kept more or less to themselves. It could of been any normal house party as nothing actually occured until about an hour before the place shut!?! I didnt find the combination of food and swinging a good one, I mean, you go to a swinging party to swing, not to eat and yet everyone was busy tucking in? Who wants to snog someone whos just eaten an onion barjee or a prawn cocktail??? I certainly dont. There were a few attractive couples about but half were just really not good at all. I have never felt so turned off at a place in my life as I did at this place and how can one get in the mood when you can hear and see the host doing the washing up? I'm sure the people that run it are very nice but this place wasnt for me, I just wanted to get out of there all night and felt quite depressed. Give me a nice intimate club with single men and couples anyday, I will be avoiding house parties and wont be heading back to Pleasures again or couples only events either, didnt do it for me.