We attended the party advertised on Friday 6th November, when, for the first time in 30 or so visits, we had some terrible problems. In the first place, the huge number of single guys (not a problem in itself as my wife loves the attention) contained a considerable number that were really quite drunk, to the point of staggering and slurring their words quite badly, and all before 11pm!
One guy, who fell into a playroom flat on his face and demanded a condom from my wife (who was in the room with myself and another chap at the time) so that he could (in his words) "give her one", when asked by myself to leave, threatened to " fuck me right up" if I did not give him a condom and " fuck off" straight away! My wife nearly had to have sex with him to get him out of the room, and save me from a beating (which would be technically rape) until a couple of other guys got him out of the room! I went to the office, to report the incident but had to wait while the two women and big burly chap on the door finished arguing with another guy who had been reported by other guests for trying to take photographs! They eventually let the (drunk) guy back into the party with a warning and I reported the incident we had experienced.
I was told that they had just seen the guy I was complaining about (regarding another complaint, I gathered) but in their opinion, despite staggering around the building clutching two beer bottles, and being unable to stand properly, he was not drunk and was causing no trouble!
I returned to the playroom, to find that my wife was getting playful with the two guys who had rescued us earlier (fair enough) but that the guy who the staff were happy to let back into the party after trying to take photos, was watching the action and trying to video it all on his mobile phone! While I escorted this chap from the room ( he was no trouble, just drunk) the violent drunk from earlier, re-entered the playroom waving an unrolled condom (from the floor perhaps) and tried to climb onto my wife while she tried to push him off! This time, three guys who had been watching, pulled him off.
We tidied ourselves and left straight away, again reporting the incident on the way out. On this occasion, we were treated as if we were trouble makers for daring to suggest that anybody within the house were in the least troublesome. Obviously, we have a real problem with the idea of ever returning, and, judging from comments made to us both in your car park after the events, and by email, since the event, there were quite a few witnesses who feel the same way as well as several other people who had also been "harassed" by drunks on the night.