- Location:
- W3, Acton, Greater London
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- Male (41)
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Had a thing for bdsm for as long as I can remember it was a part of me long before I knew it's name.
My tastes tend to be focused on sub/dom situations leading to helplessness for the sub followed playing out the sub's desires as detailed and accurately as we've been able to communicate prior to the event.
The more effort the greater the reward. A simple 'handcuff and spank me' could lead to some great fun. Generally though I prefer to spend time learning how to push your buttons and finding ways to understand your thoughts. Inside your knickers great but inside your head holds the potential for a far deeper connection. I don't necessarily need to get inside your knickers if you're purely here for other things and want to keep this separate. That said I'm as much a red-blooded male as the next guy and wouldn't want to give the impression I've moved so far into the world of bdsm I no longer seek sex.
It's not just about rope and red marks, the phychological aspect is important. It's all about what goes on it your mind as the sub, everyone is different with their own particular tastes and fetishes. My thrill comes from the affect it gives when you realise your fantasies, your thrill/rush/turn-on lends fuel to my own. For me this isn't limited to one channel or direction and might be as simple as the blushing smile and afterglow of a sub recently thrashed, now having a cuppa - a request to know what it's like to be bent over the arm of a sofa and punished fulfilled. Or something far more sexually orientated intense and prolonged, just be careful what you wish for, I can be as dark and twisted as you need me to be. I won't expand too much on this lets just chat about the details. You'll gain a better appreciation of who I am and decide wether you're going to be able to trust me enough for any of this to work. A few useful points might help you though: I don't require you to feed my ego, I won't ask you to call me Sir or Master for my benifit, if it's something you need thats different. I'm not a hater of women, please don't look to me if your thing is to be despised and put down, nothing against anyone this works for I'm just no good at it I get nothing out of it and it wouldn't work. Good manners respect safety trust encouragement and inspiration are available usually in that order.
The internet makes all this possible. Something which once for the most part people had to keep in the back of their minds unsure how many others if any shared their kink is now readily available and easy to access. Had this been the case years ago I think my life choices may have been somewhat different. As things stand I prefer to remain discreet and keep this part of my life separate from the rest. I'm not married but you might be. I'm happy to be discreet in terms of your needs. I make a point of keeping to my word. I've considered posting photos but work life is an obsticle to this. For now I'll stick to emailed photos and web cam unless you really w