Reporting Complaints etc

We are kindly asked by the Ops and admin to report anyone breaking the chat rules/site aup but do you?

I kind of get slightly peed off when people whisper without asking or direct my cam but I'm not in the habit of reporting it.
I do, however, PM an Op if I feel that people are being abusive or offensive - and not just towards me.
I don't take kindly to being told I'm fat/ugly/retarded/stupid/unshaggable etc etc and I do not hesitate in reporting anyone who has the audacity to say that to me. In a real-life situation - pub, shop, street whatever - i'd knock the fecker's teeth down their throat so i'm not gonna take that sort of shite on here am I?

Does that make me a goody-goody? Chat-op arse-licker?
I believe that rules are not there to be broken but to protect us and I'm thankful for them. I don't deny I have been naughty before and I've had my wrists slapped - and that is fair and just.
I don't believe that some people should get away with flounting rules and others dont' just because there isn't an Op available at the time to deal with it instantly. especially when it's abusive behaviour. If the person gets away with it aren't they going to do it all the more to others?
Some people get really upset by the comments made in chatrooms - some of them to the point of questioning why they are even here. that disgusts me. While I think we should all try to rise above it, i certainly don't think the offender should get away with it.

What do you do? Do you report people who have been abusive to you or others? If not, why not?

How do you know I haven't already made a start on that list?

So, Chat Ops ... are you over-whelmed with complaints about people abusing the chatrooms? Do you want mroe people to put in reports of such behaviour? How sick is the feeling in your tummy when you see my name in your inbox?

Lined up, ready and waiting



Seriously, I am sure all of the ops would prefer to have complaints reported - after all, that is what we are here for - aside from perving the cams that is

As Marya correctly stated - it is often the case that a member who is abusive to one person, quite frequently will be so to another. So unless they are dealt with, they will continue with inappropriate behaviour, which may upset a great deal of members over the course of time.

Personally, I am always happy to have pm's submitting complaints even when I am off line. Most of us log in several times a day, so things can be sorted out quickly and effectively.

There will be no come backs on anyone who reports another member because neither op's, nor admin ever divulge who has raised a complaint.

It's confidential, so if you have any complaints, let us know the room title, approx time and server - as well of course, as the names involved and we'll get it sorted for you in no time at all




Now as for the matter of Marya in the pm boxes . . . . . . . . . .








Awwww! She's not that bad . . . . . only on the day's with a *y* in them




TJ

I think I was in the room when you were having a hard time of it with someone Marya.

I would ALWAYS suggest that incidents like this are reported. Admin and the Ops DO take action when it's reported.

Members should not just sit and suffer in silence. Everyone has the right to expect to be treated with consideration whether you are on cam or not.

That concerns me too. Like you, I report abuse whether its to me or someone else and I have found that Admin/Ops do take effective action to keep it in check, so it's always worth doing.

ffs.. I am a bloody extras' member.. I expect...no, demand that you play the subby slut for me. I want wanking, tits, ummm the other stuff... umm you know that thing you do when you adjust yourself on cam.. I like that... oh, and I love it when you smoke... ummmmmm oh yeah, I demand it. I have paid my subscription..so do it.. and do it now.

thanks

yeah, I am leaving.

and you know that I luv ya...

but when you are ready to stick to my demands just pm me.. or text me... or whatever,, I only live a little distance from you. I can be there in 15 mins... and I will bring my own lube.

thanks

splendid

I must admit.. I've had a fair amount of abuse and snide remarks made to me purely because my profile says 'social butterfly'... or 'here socially only'.

The normal retorts I get are..

'then why the hell are you here?'

'you must be a time-waster then'

and others in a similar vein....

Where, I have asked, does it state that you have to be an active swinger to be allowed to use the site?????

The abuse just increases and makes me feel unwelcome... to such a degree there is one room I shan't ever go back to.

Not much tolerance and respect for others shown really... is there???

equi x

When we open a room, there is a lot of banter and occasionally people get carried away and whisper us without asking. I always mention the whispering as a general thing. Very rarely does it become necessary to caution any individual in the room.

The idea that some of the more boisterous people in the room then go on to be rude to others does worry me but I have to say that unless people actually use abusive language I tend to take it all as a joke and I find that in 99% of cases there is no problem.

One or two people reading this will know that I have been going on about some verbal abuse that I received from a chatroom opp. I did not complain about it because I took it to be a joke and all part of an ongoing relationship with the opp that allows us to use abusive language the same as two friends would in a pub.

From the comments that have been made in this thread it appears that some people would have reported the incident even tho it was not directed at them personally.

Frankly, I don`t think this is necessarily a good thing and I hope and trust that neither opps or admin immediately assume that because someone used abusive language they should be penalised in some way. It should definately be up to the person on the receiving end of the abuse to be consulted about any incident.

Hope that all makes sense

Please report ANY abuse in the Chatrooms to the Ops and they will deal with it very quickly!

Don't let the twats bring you or us down.

Yeah , thanks for that !!!