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kazandkevYou looking at me?

Joined:: 14 Jun 2006
Posts:: 91
Location:: Bromsgrove

I thought I would post this topic after a convo I just had with a friend on msn.

Would it put couples off if they thought that the couple they were meeting didn't want full swap?

We have talked about this and cus of a past experience Kev has said he wouldn't want to full swap with anyone. Touching, kissing and oral is all ok but he would prefer the ultimate with his own partner.

How many couples would this put off??????

ChestycplYou looking at me?

Joined:: 8 May 2007
Posts:: 95
Location:: -

wouldnt put us off
xx

Mr-PowersGodlike

Joined:: 7 Aug 2004
Posts:: 6932
Location:: London

just so long as you explain what your bounderies are before you meet...there shouldn't be a problem...not all couples or singles do full swap...but if the do they should tell you before hand!

Benson11Boy, can I type!

Joined:: 12 Dec 2006
Posts:: 195
Location:: mansfield ,notts

hi there,
in answer to your question,i think you'll find there are folks on the site who will swing with you, and who wont.
its up to the individuals to look at your profile and see if they want to swing with you or not.
if thats your choice to only soft swing, then others will respect it.
everyone to their own i say..
good luck though and happy swinging
mrs benson xxxx

Geordiecpl2001Super human rambling

Joined:: 15 Sep 2004
Posts:: 938
Location:: Tyneside

In our experience, many couples are put off by the fact that we do not go all the way.

So you get a reduced number of replies, but no big deal, its just peoples preferences same as saying "prefer bigger girls" or "don't like hairy men".

If thats your boundary, stick to it, just accept that some people want full swap so therefore won't contact you.

However, you will still meet some great people and have fun within softswing limits!!

John & Shel

mdr2000Godlike

Joined:: 13 Dec 2005
Posts:: 2157
Location:: Do you care?

When we first set out we were soft swap only and had no intention to change anything... We met a few nice couples and none ever said they wanted more from us as such.. things were fine.. even with the full swap couples we met.

When we decided we wanted to see if we were ok with more we picked one of the couples and found we both enjoyed.. we were never pushed or expected to do more than we had always said we would if comfortable.

Even now.. soft swap can be very horny, no need to feel bad or feel as though you should do more.. Stick with your boundaries no matter what.. Its a disaster waiting to happen if you don't.

Mike x

kazandkevYou looking at me?

Joined:: 14 Jun 2006
Posts:: 91
Location:: Bromsgrove

Chestycpl wrote:

wouldnt put us off
xx

Awww thanks hunnies

xxxx

jaymarGodlike

Joined:: 1 Oct 2005
Posts:: 5686
Location:: Somewhere between
here and orgasmic
heaven....

Wouldn't put us off either. We prefer full swap (same room only), but the eroticness of soft swap would still be fun!

mdr2000Godlike

Joined:: 13 Dec 2005
Posts:: 2157
Location:: Do you care?

In fact its got to be said theres something very erotic about being a full swap couple in a situation with a soft swap couple... where your looking, seeing, tasting and just that close and wanting soooo badly but just know you can't lol...

jeeze... Wheres the shower...

Mike x

kazandkevYou looking at me?

Joined:: 14 Jun 2006
Posts:: 91
Location:: Bromsgrove

mdr2000 wrote:

In fact its got to be said theres something very erotic about being a full swap couple in a situation with a soft swap couple... where your looking, seeing, tasting and just that close and wanting soooo badly but just know you can't lol...

jeeze... Wheres the shower...

Mike x

Awww Mike I didn't know you cared so much babe....lol

Don't you think though its always the forbidden fruit you want?

naughtynymphos1Godlike

Joined:: 21 Nov 2004
Posts:: 7367
Location:: YamYam land

i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol

splendid_Godlike

Joined:: 8 Apr 2006
Posts:: 3858
Location:: worlass's bed

naughtynymphos1 wrote:

i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol

for goodness sake nympho... of course you are

I dislike that too. It is one of the myriad of reasons why I don't meet couples.

splendid

tyneside4funSuper human rambling

Joined:: 12 Jan 2006
Posts:: 703
Location:: South Shields

In fact its got to be said theres something very erotic about being a full swap couple in a situation with a soft swap couple... where your looking, seeing, tasting and just that close and wanting soooo badly but just know you can't lol... well said mdr 2000. and would not put us off meeting soft swap

janenjohnGetting there

Joined:: 21 Dec 2005
Posts:: 26
Location:: -

we would not be put of by a cpl who want softswap has we do either full swap or soft swap we enjoy both
janenjohn

kazandkevYou looking at me?

Joined:: 14 Jun 2006
Posts:: 91
Location:: Bromsgrove

naughtynymphos1 wrote:

i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol

Yeah I agree with that that everyone should be involved....except the guys touching each other Kev would freak lol

Kez_n_steGodlike

Joined:: 8 Aug 2004
Posts:: 1767
Location:: -

kazandkev wrote:

naughtynymphos1 wrote:

i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol

Yeah I agree with that that everyone should be involved....except the guys touching each other Kev would freak lol

Im the same as Kev on this, but we do love soft swing it's such a turn on. We dont do full swap and that doesn't seem to put full swap couples of us.

Vert2go

dekntanGodlike

Joined:: 7 Aug 2006
Posts:: 2009
Location:: Waiting for the bus

wouldnt put us off, any meet is a bonus

DragonloversI need to get out more

Joined:: 23 Nov 2004
Posts:: 215
Location:: Walsall

wouldn't put us off - and anyway, you can always 'come' in a soft swap situation if all agree beforhand. At end of the day, it's the being with friends that counts more.

blueandpinkGodlike

Joined:: 3 Sep 2006
Posts:: 1347
Location:: Location: Location:
(Down South)

Hi KazandKev

Again it really is down to preference and as long as everyone's clear and happy that's all that matters. We don't on the whole (always exceptions) pursue cpls only wanting soft swap as we much prefer full swap. But tbh we'd be having that conversation soon after initial contact (if not made clear on profile/ad) and before picture swapping.

Having said that we've not had a soft swap exerience since we started full swapping, so can't answer whether it would be erotic or not.

pink x

northeastcoupleukGodlike

Joined:: 26 May 2004
Posts:: 4436
Location:: Northeast were the
sun always shines

we only do soft swap we find it more erotic and aint been tempted to do full but each to there own we do like to watch each other play and tease others and save the ultimate for each other ,think when your in this scene half the chase is finding your boundrys

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