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Post subject: What puts you off?
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:01 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:01 pm
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:06 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:06 pm
Oh yes 
and likewise I can be severely turned ON by a voice too 
Post subject: Re: What puts you off?
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:06 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:06 pm
noladreams30 wrote:
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x
Absolutely
But then we`re a funny pair !!
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:34 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:34 pm
firelizard wrote:
Oh yes and likewise I can be severely turned ON by a voice too
Oh yes
and likewise I can be severely turned ON by a voice too Me too
Voices can be a real turn on for me.... and turn off, or so it would seem! 
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:36 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:36 pm
I hate talking to people on the phone as the Midlands accent can be very off putting
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:40 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:40 pm
I sound horrible on the 'phone 
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:43 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:43 pm
there was a guy i fancied at school for years but never got to speak to. one night there he was in a nightclub so told friend that if there was a chance he was mine. within minutes of talking to him i wondered why i had liked him so much 
i think the voice can be one of the sexiest things about a person.
whips
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:43 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:43 pm
Just for the record, it wasn't actually his accent. It was more the fact that in my head I had imagined he would have quite a deep, gruff, sexy voice....
He doesn't.
And so my mental picture is kinda shattered... and now I'm put off.
I am horribly fickle aren't I???
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:43 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:43 pm
Freckledbird wrote:
I sound horrible on the 'phone
I sound horrible on the 'phone
And your point ??
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:46 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:46 pm
flower411 wrote:
And your point ??
Freckledbird wrote:
I sound horrible on the 'phone
I sound horrible on the 'phone
And your point ??
Anyway, just been told I don't sound horrible!
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:47 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:47 pm
Bet you sound fluffy 
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:48 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:48 pm
Steve wrote:
Bet you sound fluffy
Bet you sound fluffy
I'll bloody fluffy you!
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:49 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:49 pm
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:51 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:51 pm
Freckledbird wrote:
I'll bloody fluff you!
Steve wrote:
Bet you sound fluffy
Bet you sound fluffy
I'll bloody fluff you! 
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to
you!
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:51 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:51 pm
winchwench wrote:
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to you!
Freckledbird wrote:
I'll bloody fluff you!
Steve wrote:
Bet you sound fluffy
Bet you sound fluffy
I'll bloody fluff you!
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to
you!
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:55 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:55 pm
I sound all sweat n innocent 
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:56 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:56 pm
winchwench wrote:
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to you!
Freckledbird wrote:
I'll bloody fluff you!
Steve wrote:
Bet you sound fluffy
Bet you sound fluffy
I'll bloody fluff you!
You're in there Stevie boy! FB want's to
you!I always said I was no good at reading signals....
I read it as she was gonna give me a jolly good
for saying she sounds fluffy 
But a
will do nicely.....
Where can I book some lessons in signal deciphering(sp) ??
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:57 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 9:57 pm
A few lines of text in a chatroom, the wording on a profile or an ad, a few pictures which may or may not show the persons face -- and your mind races off and makes a "complete" person despite the fact that you have never met !!!
And when the reality turns out to be different from the "construct" you tend to reject it !!!
My advice would be to persevere Nola -- whatever turned you on to this person in the first place will probably shine through ..
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:03 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:03 pm
People stating the bleedin obvious, as I found out last week......
Having been for a walk along the beach, we were walking the home stretch through a small seaside town. I had a 6' long piece of driftwood over my shoulder.
A very hunky guy came out of the gift shop we paused outside of, and remarked "Nice wood"
Methinks >"You show me yours...."<
Then he says "Did you find it on the beach?"
Methinks >"Fuck off, you're boring me now"< 
Okay, so I have a very short attention span! 
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:09 pm
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 10:09 pm
winchwench wrote:
People stating the bleedin obvious, as I found out last week......
Having been for a walk along the beach, we were walking the home stretch through a small seaside town. I had a 6' long piece of driftwood over my shoulder.
A very hunky guy came out of the gift shop we paused outside of, and remarked "Nice wood"
Methinks >"You show me yours...."<
Then he says "Did you find it on the beach?"
Methinks >"Fuck off, you're boring me now"<
Okay, so I have a very short attention span!
People stating the bleedin obvious, as I found out last week......
Having been for a walk along the beach, we were walking the home stretch through a small seaside town. I had a 6' long piece of driftwood over my shoulder.
A very hunky guy came out of the gift shop we paused outside of, and remarked "Nice wood"
Methinks >"You show me yours...."<
Then he says "Did you find it on the beach?"
Methinks >"Fuck off, you're boring me now"<
Okay, so I have a very short attention span!
You mean you missed the opportunity to say
" Yeah, I often pop down to the beach looking for wood"
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