Wank Cams

This has perplexed me since I joined - what do guys get out of wanking on cam in chat rooms? As far as I can see they don't get interaction from others in the room, they just sit and tug lol, well unless they are in kinky whisps lol.

Don't get me wrong I love going on cam, showing off a bit etc but more in flirty manner rather than rubbing my pussy at a thousand miles an hour lol.

Personally I don't really like watching wank cams or even couples having sex but maybe that is cause I am not really into visual porn either.

But I do find it extremely sexy watching a guy smile as we flirt in whisp and I love having a wee perv at a fit guys chest lol.

Any thoughts people? Especially from cam wankers lol.

p.s. I did search the cafe and hope this doesn't repeat any previous threads.

Ruth xx

I used to wonder about this but then I had a friend round to my place because she couldn`t get on line at home.

She spent the whole time whispering to the cam wankers, encouraging them etc.

At first I thought she was taking the piss but she was actively enjoying the effect she was having especially when she was directing a bit....you know , faster slower etc.

Good for her flower, diffrent things suit diffrent folk I guess. I just always thought woman didn't like the wank cams, interesting to know there are woman out there who like them.

ty flower

Ruth xx

I have a lady friend who is so addicted to watching men and their dibblers that she not only watches the tuggers on here but invests heavily in gay porn.
Takes all sorts.

It does indeed I love nothing better than seeing a man pleasuring himself but I have to be honest I like to know he's doing it for me. I too can't understand the men who have their cams on randomly tugging to just anyone who may pop by.

I like to be told by the man what's going through his head what he likes and sometimes I like to direct him to his climax. I have to be feeling pretty filthy tho haven't done that for a while... hmmmm now there's a thought

I once rang Jay from being out somewhere and he said he was having a tug (isn't that word just horrible??!! ) himself and it was directly with a woman. I got so turned on I had to get home, I was well and truely ready except he'd gone and finished!

i'm with jaymar, i love to watch a guy wanking. but i do like to be part of it. either him telling me what he'd like to do to me or me telling him.

the only problem i have found is that some guys only want to talk dirty when they want a wank. they won't do it when i want to.

we don't have a cam so i know it's a bit frustrating for someone who wants to see us too. but i really don't mind just the chat either. but then i don't go in the chat rooms, this is in private chat.

whips

Ben so true that it takes all types.

Hey Jaymar - lol about tugging. and mmm sounds sexy you rushing home to Jay. Hey hope I jogged a sexy memory about directing. Glad I am not the only one who feels confused about way random wank cams.

Whips yeah I can kind of get when the guy is actively engaged, so to speak, with you. And to be honest I have tried mutual wanking if that is the right term and can be sexy in person. But not really my top thing lol.

cheers for the comments
Ruth xx

First time i saw a guy wanking was on yah** messenger years ago. I was so
Here was this guy, naked, wanking for me
Then i found out he was showing to anyone who viewed his cam
I did find it a turn on then, but over the years of weird and wonderful things on the net.......im less and less shockable.
We all have different kinks,fantasies and preferences.
So long as its adults with adults, then live and let live.
Life aint a dress rehearsel, if it floats ya boat then enjoy it.

dee

oh and getting back to dicky wavers, i prefer seeing a guys face nowadays