Just out of curiousity, what would you and your partner do if you'd made plans to meet up with another couple from SH......... only to discover the Female of the other couple is employed as an escort???
Would you still go ahead or decline?
If the latter, why?
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Q: If another''s couple female is an Escort would you meet u
3rd Jul 2009 - 5:34pm
No we wouldn't,she's there because she is getting paid to do so,and knowing just that,just takes the fun out if it...
we don't even meet couples who are just fuck buddies either,only couples in relationships,thats our preference!
in edit...think i may have mis-understood the question
if she was being paid by the guy to be there,then no
if they were a couple in a relationship and escorting was just her job,then yes!
and for the record,we have been to clubs where guys have being escorted by working girls.Something we disagree with.
Last edited by on 3rd Jul 2009 - 6:10pm; edited 2 times in total
we don't even meet couples who are just fuck buddies either,only couples in relationships,thats our preference!
in edit...think i may have mis-understood the question
if she was being paid by the guy to be there,then no
if they were a couple in a relationship and escorting was just her job,then yes!
and for the record,we have been to clubs where guys have being escorted by working girls.Something we disagree with.
Last edited by on 3rd Jul 2009 - 6:10pm; edited 2 times in total
Didn't Escorts get superceded by the Focus? 
Seriously though, escourts do have a life outside of work, and not all escourts have sex for money. In fact, some years ago I knew a young lady who topped up her income by escourting, but it didn't stop us having some great times "off the clock"
And if she looks like Billy Piper in Secret Diary of a Call Girl.... then why not??!
Seriously though, escourts do have a life outside of work, and not all escourts have sex for money. In fact, some years ago I knew a young lady who topped up her income by escourting, but it didn't stop us having some great times "off the clock"
And if she looks like Billy Piper in Secret Diary of a Call Girl.... then why not??!
If we knew then no chance. It would feel as though we'd be enjoyed just becausae of the financial incentive/remuneration to the escort, either male or female regardless, rather than enjoyed on a social basis. It really would not sit well.Lets be honest it would just be three people and a prostitute
Not meaning anything negative particularly regarding the fourth person not being a person because of being a prostitute but meaning them being employed in a professional capacity.
Not meaning anything negative particularly regarding the fourth person not being a person because of being a prostitute but meaning them being employed in a professional capacity.
If that is their paid job - I can't see a problem with it personally?
I don't have a clue what most here do as a job, its up to them if they wish to disclose that fact. I do know they are members whose paid work are as escorts but they are here solely for their own enjoyment.
If I met a guy an found out he was a male escort it as long as it is safe protected sex - that's okay. I think for most people its about having that choice?
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
I don't have a clue what most here do as a job, its up to them if they wish to disclose that fact. I do know they are members whose paid work are as escorts but they are here solely for their own enjoyment.
If I met a guy an found out he was a male escort it as long as it is safe protected sex - that's okay. I think for most people its about having that choice?
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
anais wrote:
If that is their paid job - I can't see a problem with it personally?
I don't have a clue what most here do as a job, its up to them if they wish to disclose that fact. I do know they are members whose paid work are as escorts but they are here solely for their own enjoyment.
If I met a guy an found out he was a male escort it as long as it is safe protected sex - that's okay. I think for most people its about having that choice?
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
If that is their paid job - I can't see a problem with it personally?
I don't have a clue what most here do as a job, its up to them if they wish to disclose that fact. I do know they are members whose paid work are as escorts but they are here solely for their own enjoyment.
If I met a guy an found out he was a male escort it as long as it is safe protected sex - that's okay. I think for most people its about having that choice?
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Defunkt
4th Jul 2009 - 1:49pm
Interesting question. I once attended an interview for a managerial position in a transport company. I had already decided they were a bunch of pratts and not worth working for. They asked me a question. "Mr So-and-So, we see you are not married. It is usual for wives to accompany husbands on certain company functions which other companies and organisations may attend. As you do not have a wife..." (The implication being that at these functions everybody was paired off equally male/female). I replied "If that was the case I would take a female friend who would pretend to be my wife or failing that a female friend of a friend or failing that a female friend of a friend of a friend. Failing that I would simply employ a woman to accompany me and pretend to be my wife".
After I said this there was an audible shocked silence and we move on to the next question.
Needless to say this transport company eventually became defunkt.
After I said this there was an audible shocked silence and we move on to the next question.
Needless to say this transport company eventually became defunkt.
anais wrote:
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
Booked Hotel Then No-Show
4th Jul 2009 - 5:56pm
mancunian wrote:
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
anais wrote:
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
No it wouldn't include that Manc, as it doesn't go against the AUP - although I understand what your saying.
I would say that is a private agreement between those your meeting. Personally, I would say no way - why should you as a single person pay (wonder if they'd do that with a female?) for all the meeting costs. It is a members choice to do that even tho I don't agree with it...
If for example, I was meeting someone in a hotel and knew that the person was staying on business and their costs had already been covered. I wouldn't expect to contribute to as its financial gain pure and simple (tho, I would take something to drink perhaps).
Steves, I think that's a dreadful thing to do after someone had paid for hotel costs! I would be really cross!
Thanks goodness I don't meet - I cant be doing with it all
Last edited by on 4th Jul 2009 - 6:56pm; edited 2 times in total
anais wrote:
No it wouldn't include that Manc, as it doesn't go against the AUP - although I understand what your saying.
I would say that is a private agreement between those your meeting. Personally, I would say no way - why should you as a single person pay (wonder if they'd do that with a female?) for all the meeting costs. It is a members choice to do that even tho I don't agree with it...
If for example, I was meeting someone in a hotel and knew that the person was staying on business and their costs had already been covered. I wouldn't expect to contribute to as its financial gain pure and simple (tho, I would take something to drink perhaps).
mancunian wrote:
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
anais wrote:
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
No it wouldn't include that Manc, as it doesn't go against the AUP - although I understand what your saying.
I would say that is a private agreement between those your meeting. Personally, I would say no way - why should you as a single person pay (wonder if they'd do that with a female?) for all the meeting costs. It is a members choice to do that even tho I don't agree with it...
If for example, I was meeting someone in a hotel and knew that the person was staying on business and their costs had already been covered. I wouldn't expect to contribute to as its financial gain pure and simple (tho, I would take something to drink perhaps).
I've also noticed this...espec couples who say they are staying in a hotel and looking for a meet up,and asking the other party to pay half the costs to the hotel room...they're already staying in the hotel for what ever reasons and what to get half the cost out of other people...bloody cheeky!!
Mr-Powers wrote:
I've also noticed this...espec couples who say they are staying in a hotel and looking for a meet up,and asking the other party to pay half the costs to the hotel room...they're already staying in the hotel for what ever reasons and what to get half the cost out of other people...bloody cheeky!!
anais wrote:
No it wouldn't include that Manc, as it doesn't go against the AUP - although I understand what your saying.
I would say that is a private agreement between those your meeting. Personally, I would say no way - why should you as a single person pay (wonder if they'd do that with a female?) for all the meeting costs. It is a members choice to do that even tho I don't agree with it...
If for example, I was meeting someone in a hotel and knew that the person was staying on business and their costs had already been covered. I wouldn't expect to contribute to as its financial gain pure and simple (tho, I would take something to drink perhaps).
mancunian wrote:
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
anais wrote:
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Note: If anyone is meeting a member and your paying or asked to pay for the pleasure during that meet - that's a different story as it shouldn't be happening on SH and should be reported.
Would that include a single male being expected to pay the whole cost of a hotel room. I was once informed that in order to meet I would be expected to bear all the costs. Cancelled that one pronto. £70 or more for sex forget it!
As for meeting an escort as part of couple, providing the escort wasn't working and was there for their own enjoyment and pleasure, then I wouldn't have a problem with it. What people do for a job is their own business unless they wish to tell me.
No it wouldn't include that Manc, as it doesn't go against the AUP - although I understand what your saying.
I would say that is a private agreement between those your meeting. Personally, I would say no way - why should you as a single person pay (wonder if they'd do that with a female?) for all the meeting costs. It is a members choice to do that even tho I don't agree with it...
If for example, I was meeting someone in a hotel and knew that the person was staying on business and their costs had already been covered. I wouldn't expect to contribute to as its financial gain pure and simple (tho, I would take something to drink perhaps).
I've also noticed this...espec couples who say they are staying in a hotel and looking for a meet up,and asking the other party to pay half the costs to the hotel room...they're already staying in the hotel for what ever reasons and what to get half the cost out of other people...bloody cheeky!!
They get away with it because you can,t prove it for certain? And its only half the cost after all
Easy few quid! Crap isn't it?
I would really suggest to people not to do it if you know that - especially the single guys paying the whole lot! I'm afraid there is nothing we can do about it but no-one wants to feel ripped off.
if you pay the full cost after sex ask the couple to pack up and leave 
failing that once you pay your half tell them which side of the bed you prefer to sleep in and do the hotel know its a 3 person room for the breckfast??
xx fem xx
failing that once you pay your half tell them which side of the bed you prefer to sleep in and do the hotel know its a 3 person room for the breckfast??
xx fem xx
I booked a hotel - drove down and the guy not only didn't turn up but didn't even text or call to say he wasn't. It doesn't just apply to guys defaulting.
Having some fun while the room is paid on expenses is fabulous - but I would never expect my guest to pay anything extra.
Having some fun while the room is paid on expenses is fabulous - but I would never expect my guest to pay anything extra.
Theres' nothing wrong with escorts,sex workers, strippers etc also going swinging - it should be legalised as far as I'm concerned.
Though I've never paid for sex personally, I've known a few sex workers and found them to be perfectly decent and interesting ladies.
Though I've never paid for sex personally, I've known a few sex workers and found them to be perfectly decent and interesting ladies.
Riotandantony wrote:
Theres' nothing wrong with escorts,sex workers, strippers etc also going swinging - it should be legalised as far as I'm concerned.Though I've never paid for sex personally, I've known a few sex workers and found them to be perfectly decent and interesting ladies.
Theres' nothing wrong with escorts,sex workers, strippers etc also going swinging - it should be legalised as far as I'm concerned.Though I've never paid for sex personally, I've known a few sex workers and found them to be perfectly decent and interesting ladies.
yes it should be legalised,but its got no place place in the swinging scene.
Re: Booked Hotel Then No-Show
5th Jul 2009 - 4:05pm
steves wrote:
I know there are a lot of men on SH that have paid for hotel rooms and then the other people never showed up...
I know there are a lot of men on SH that have paid for hotel rooms and then the other people never showed up...
Not just men.
I guess the point is not whether she or he is an escort for a living, but whether they have been paid for THAT evening. One situation is acceptable the other is not - someones career - no matter how unappealing - doesnt make them less worthy of being desired (ive seen some traffic wardens and tax inspectors id happily swing with)
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