Blow Jobs

Are you good at them boys and girls ?

How do you know ? because the guy always said it was great, of course we do, how many guys are going to say "hey your really crap at this aren't you" let's be honest guys know that to say that means they are never going to get another one aside from the fact that most of us are actually polite and wouldn't want to offend you.

I am straight so can't reflect much on the gay or bi guys abilities but my experience with women is that almost all of them think they give a great blow job, in reality very few have ever hit the spot to the extent that makes me think "wow" that was fantastic.

I am sure women feel the same about recieving oral but that's for someone else to post a topic about, this is about blow jobs on men.

So why do you all think you give the best ever blow jobs, do you have a trick that tells you exactly how each guy likes it done, like women we differ in our preference, some women like an inserted tongue some like oral only on the clit and so on, well us guys are the same.

For some of us deep throat is the ultimate for others it is manipulation by the tongue on the head for some it is a tongue run along the shaft, I know there are guys who like thier balls sucked during oral and some that don't, the sensative spot between the balls and the anus can drive some guys wild and make some wonder where you went.

So how do you eat yours ? do you try all the methods and gauge the reaction of the guy to see which each partner prefers (that's what I do with new female partners) or do you have a sure and tested method that you think is the only way to go ?

Guys, what do you prefer ?

Is cumming in thier mouth necessary to make it a great blow job or is that a bonus or just something that some do and some don't but doesn't bother you.

Ladies (and guys that give blow jobs) do you like them to cum in your mouth ? tollerate it ? avoid all together ? puke at the thought ? believe it unnecessary ?

If coming is the be all and end all of a BJ then I suppose there can be bad BJ's. Personally I have never failed to enjoy all female oral attention to my member.
The contrast between a good and a mind blowing blow job was once crystalised for me whn being seduced by a newly aquired G/f ...she reclined my car seat(fortunately when we had parked up)and after saying she wouldnt invite me up to her flat as she didnt want to end up in bed with me on the first night then subsequently snogged my face off in a hugely sexual way. Having raised my blood pressure several pounds she slid down and freed my then fully erect cock from my pants and gave me a blow job lastingsome 30 minutes or sp that was hugeley enjoyable to the pint that I never wanted it to end..... but it stopped well short of ever making me come. After 30 minutes she lifted her head and apologised for teasing me all that time.... She then proceeded to take me in her mouth again and give me a bj that literally blew my mind and stopped my legs working for the next hour or so! I was powerless to stop my self from coming and boy how good did that feel.

The best ones are when I say "Okay, you'd really better stop now"....

and she doesn't!

The women are strangely quiet for a change - especially those who profess to "giving the best blow job ever"

it's all in fun boys n girls

Am I good at them? Yes. As it happens I'm damned good at them.

I know that cos people have said so.

I think being good at something is often about really enjoying doing it.

Hiya tis kinks,

I would have to agree with the above quote. I must say i do really enjoy giving blow jobs. I think a good mixture of techniques, deep throat, teasing and general sexy kinkiness make it more fun and more of a turn on to add to the wow factor rather than same old, same old till jobs done, but i would say that.... they are a turn on for me too!! and well apey never complains........... moans yes lol

Blow jobs are, in my opinion, overrated by most guys. I personally couldn't care less whether a woman wants to take my cock in her mouth. I've had too many blowjobs to count, not all of them good, and from guys as well as girls; you would be astounded at the number of guys who want to suck cocks. I enjoy pleasing a woman and I'm always happy to go down on her....really difficult to know how enjoyable this is for the lady as compared to other means of stimulation, but I think that generally speaking it's well received. If we are to make a scientific study on oral sex, giving and or receiving, I'd happily be a guinea pig.

Hmmmmm All im saying is im not the best blow job giver in our house, enuff said lol

The art of being good at blowjobs, I think, is to be able to adapt your technique to pleasure the person that you are with. Every man is different so if I said "I have this one technique that makes me amazing" I would be full of crap. The only consistency that I have found when asking what a man likes, is that they all like you to be obviously enjoying it. The other specifics have been so varied that I couldn't list them all here.

I believe I am good at them as I've been lucky to have some extremely honest partners and I'm a quick learner Also the fact the Mr Payne tries to put his in my mouth at every opportunity is a bit of a giveaway. (either that, or he is very easily pleased)

Is a second opinion needed?

Dave_Notts