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Post subject: Shag me
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:33 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:33 pm
Right folks,
Have been looking at the forums over the last few days, there seem to be more and more shag me type posts.
Now I take no credit what so ever for this, it was writen some time ago by Marcuso as advise to the single guys on this site, and I think it is time it had an airing for the benefit of all the new guys and some of the old ones who have forgotten.
Quote:
Most of you will know me as Marcuso from the chat room.
I'm getting used to seeing lots of posts on here from single guys who are moaning that they don't get a meet.
Without sounding big-headed or conceited, I'd like to offer them a bit of advice on how to improve their chances of becoming accepted onto the swinging scene.
I'm not saying this is the perfect or even the only way to become accepted, but I have found that it works for me.
1. Always be open & honest about what you are looking for. No-one likes making the effort to meet someone only to find out that they are looking for different things.
2. Never say you are gonna meet someone & then not turn up. People hate timewasters.
3. Meet people just for socials if that is all they are offering. If they are impressed with you then the sex will come naturally. As I said….this community isn’t just about sex, it’s about people just meeting up as friends too & having a relaxed meet with no pressure.
4. Be willing to go out of your way to meet people. Don’t forget……you are the one who is wanting to meet people who are already established on the swinging scene & therefore, they will not go out of their way to meet you as they already have a circle of friends who they know are genuine & easy going.
5. And probably most important DON’T EVER SEEM DESPERATE TO MEET PEOPLE. Don’t push someone to meet & if someone says no then that’s what they mean. A lot of people get put off by someone being overkeen & see it as a kind of stalking.
6. Have a look in the message boards & see what people have put into those. This will give you some sort of idea as to the kind of ad to post. And always post in every board that applies to you as this will give you more chance. (Don’t forget to keep checking them regularly too as a lot of people forget to check & miss out)
7. Try going to one of the various clubs that are available all over the country or go to an open party invitation or munch thats been posted. This will show people that you are genuine.
8. When filling in a section on your ad to what your looking for the more information you give about your self the more your profile will stand out more people will read it and take you more seriously as you have taken more time & effort over what your looking for .
Not a lot else that I can add really apart from BE PATIENT If you keep trying and are patient then it will happen eventually. Don’t be put off by a few negative replies. I must have had hundreds of negative replies before I got my first meet. But once I got my first meet I have found it a lot easier to meet people.
Most of you will know me as Marcuso from the chat room.
I'm getting used to seeing lots of posts on here from single guys who are moaning that they don't get a meet.
Without sounding big-headed or conceited, I'd like to offer them a bit of advice on how to improve their chances of becoming accepted onto the swinging scene.
I'm not saying this is the perfect or even the only way to become accepted, but I have found that it works for me.
1. Always be open & honest about what you are looking for. No-one likes making the effort to meet someone only to find out that they are looking for different things.
2. Never say you are gonna meet someone & then not turn up. People hate timewasters.
3. Meet people just for socials if that is all they are offering. If they are impressed with you then the sex will come naturally. As I said….this community isn’t just about sex, it’s about people just meeting up as friends too & having a relaxed meet with no pressure.
4. Be willing to go out of your way to meet people. Don’t forget……you are the one who is wanting to meet people who are already established on the swinging scene & therefore, they will not go out of their way to meet you as they already have a circle of friends who they know are genuine & easy going.
5. And probably most important DON’T EVER SEEM DESPERATE TO MEET PEOPLE. Don’t push someone to meet & if someone says no then that’s what they mean. A lot of people get put off by someone being overkeen & see it as a kind of stalking.
6. Have a look in the message boards & see what people have put into those. This will give you some sort of idea as to the kind of ad to post. And always post in every board that applies to you as this will give you more chance. (Don’t forget to keep checking them regularly too as a lot of people forget to check & miss out)
7. Try going to one of the various clubs that are available all over the country or go to an open party invitation or munch thats been posted. This will show people that you are genuine.
8. When filling in a section on your ad to what your looking for the more information you give about your self the more your profile will stand out more people will read it and take you more seriously as you have taken more time & effort over what your looking for .
Not a lot else that I can add really apart from BE PATIENT If you keep trying and are patient then it will happen eventually. Don’t be put off by a few negative replies. I must have had hundreds of negative replies before I got my first meet. But once I got my first meet I have found it a lot easier to meet people.
The rest of the above thread is:- http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Last edited by on Thu Jun 09, 2005 7:18 am; edited 2 times in total
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:35 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:35 pm
...tuts ...
and there I was thinking it was a request
C x
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:38 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:38 pm
But whats wrong with the "shag me" threads? 
That's what the LMU is for after all.... I know they can be a tad annoying but you can always just leave the thread and move on to another one...
Shireen
Post subject: Re: Shag me
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:39 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:39 pm
What a shame. I thought you were asking!!!!
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:40 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:40 pm
Shireen_Mids wrote:
But whats wrong with the "shag me" threads?
Shireen
But whats wrong with the "shag me" threads?
Shireen
In that case - PLEEEEZE --- Shag me!
M
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:41 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:41 pm
Shireen_Mids wrote:
But whats wrong with the "shag me" threads?
That's what the LMU is for after all.... I know they can be a tad annoying but you can always just leave the thread and move on to another one...
Shireen
But whats wrong with the "shag me" threads?
That's what the LMU is for after all.... I know they can be a tad annoying but you can always just leave the thread and move on to another one...
Shireen
Thank you for your comments, it is ment as advise for the new guys as to how to write a shag me type thread,
IMO there is nothing wrong what so ever with the shag me threads, but a lot of guys are wondering how to improve them, and I thoguht IMO it would help the newbies who may not have seen that thread.
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:53 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 5:53 pm
Never written a "shag me " thread.
Never had to 
Well at least not yet 
BTW sarah1448,
Do you think I could be in the running for the best bum avatar???
Bell
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 6:06 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 6:06 pm
Don't shag them, SHAG ME INSTEAD.
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 6:06 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 6:06 pm
and there was me thinking it was someone's lucky day
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 8:30 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 8:30 pm
shag me written by sarah - i thought I'd died and gone to heaven, fingers iching to reply and..............................................
everything comes to he who waits...........lol
gorgeous butt sarah!
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 10:04 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 10:04 pm
Sarah, you're a saint! 
But I think I preferred my initial interpretation when I saw the title of this thread! 
Oh well..................... 
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 10:35 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 10:35 pm
Oi, what about me????? 
SHAG ME .................somebody ffs 
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:29 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:29 pm
Calista wrote:
...tuts ...
and there I was thinking it was a request
C x
...tuts ...
and there I was thinking it was a request
C x
I thought the same.
and only 329 views as well. This isn't going to do Sarahs ego any good at all.
I'm feeling generous at the mo, so I'm gonna start a "Shag someone else!" thread.
Post subject: Re: Shag me
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:32 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:32 pm
Sarah1448 wrote:
Right folks,
. . . . . . more and more shag me . . . . . .
Right folks,
. . . . . . more and more shag me . . . . . .
What ??
From HERE ???????
Post subject:
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:32 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:32 pm
easy wrote:
I'm feeling generous at the mo, so I'm gonna start a "Shag someone else!" thread.
I'm feeling generous at the mo, so I'm gonna start a "Shag someone else!" thread.
Post subject: Re: Shag me
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:47 pm
Posted: Wed Jun 8, 2005 11:47 pm
dambuster wrote:
What ??
From HERE ???????
Sarah1448 wrote:
Right folks,
. . . . . . more and more shag me . . . . . .
Right folks,
. . . . . . more and more shag me . . . . . .
What ??
From HERE ???????
You missed your chance this evening,
Get your car fixed, I even offered to come and pick you up, what more could a bloke want
apart from ' shag me' !!!!!
And you missed a lovely dinner with certain people off this site
Post subject:
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 6:29 am
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 6:29 am
Eagerslut9 wrote:
Sarah, you're a saint!
But I think I preferred my initial interpretation when I saw the title of this thread!
Oh well.....................
Sarah, you're a saint!
But I think I preferred my initial interpretation when I saw the title of this thread!
Oh well.....................
ooh, can I be a Swingingheaven Saint
Post subject:
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 6:34 am
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 6:34 am
bell412 wrote:
Never written a "shag me " thread.
Never had to Well at least not yet
BTW sarah1448,
Do you think I could be in the running for the best bum avatar???
Bell
Never written a "shag me " thread.
Never had to
Well at least not yet
BTW sarah1448,
Do you think I could be in the running for the best bum avatar???
Bell
you were in with a chance bell, right up to the moment you emulsioned it white, bad choice, it doesn't go with your skin tone, magnolia would have been so much better.
Post subject:
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 7:54 am
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 7:54 am
Sarah,
An excellent choice of title... definitely makes sure that people read it.... you should be in PR!!!
Some very good advice offered by Marcuso ... single guys.... read it and learn from it.
equi-princess xxx
Post subject:
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 10:20 am
Posted: Thu Jun 9, 2005 10:20 am
Sarah1448 wrote:
ooh, can I be a Swingingheaven Saint
ooh, can I be a Swingingheaven Saint
Saint Sarah1448 - come up and see my relics!
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