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Due to the increase in reports about boy racers, muggings, and nutters at dogging locations lately, we are discouraging people who are posting information about dogging meets from stating the exact time and location of the meet.

We are advising that if you want to post info about a meet put only vague details on the public forum and then discuss more specific details, such as the exact time and location, by PM. That way, only the people you WANT to turn up, actually turn up!

For example, if you are in the Bolton, North West area and want to arrange a meet at a particular place tomorrow night, only put in the post that you are arranging a meet in Bolton - the exact time and location should be sorted by PM.

The moderators will be carefully reading all posts and will edit those that do include exact times and locations. Swinging Heaven wants you to stay safe and enjoy dogging, please help us out here, and abide by this policy.

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Hear hear bluexxx! Some of the warnings/reports are getting a bit scary, so let's try to be a bit safer and responsible with our naughtiness from now on please.

This new policy is in everyone's interests, apart from the very people you <i>don't</i> want turning up! icon_smile.gif


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Well at least there are some sensible people out there, me included If EVERYONE adhered to the policy then i'm sure it will benefit US ALL but we all know there are unsavoury characters that ALWAYS spoil it for the good natured (Bless us) people who are just intent on having FUN not HASSLE.

There has been a lot of POLICE attending dogging sites but there are also those POLICE OFFICERS who are equally tolerant and good Natured but who do not TOLERATE offensive language and clever S***S, you have been warned take HEED !!!!!


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At last some action. Hopefully that will help people to avoid some trouble makers atleast. As i have said before i will be looking at he board for the policy braker and remind them of policy as blue suggested to help the site's moderators and admin.


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We are in total agreement.

We have been saying all along that to post locations was not a good idea.

Another thing to consider, not too sure if this can be addressed, are the ads that are posted which also give out locations.

Anyway, three cheers for the new policy.


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I totally disagree, I think it is quite right that full details are published to ensure that Her Majesties Constabulary can drive out this disgusting Act...(if they stay a while does that mean there will be more Bobbies on the Beat???)

And while they are out there all the burglers in the area can make the most of our empty houses..!!


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have been away from the forum for a few days, good to see a hint of sanity on Blues part icon_razz.gif
Nice one,

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Yeap great idea Bluexxx, been echoing the same thing myself in the past so I look forward to more PMs from you guys & girls!! icon_twisted.gif

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well done . all the sites near us have been ruined for a while now by these morons


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Think its a great idea and should stop a lot of unwanted attention.
just hope these people read your comments.
keep up the good work.


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It seems to me after recent press developments that we need to be more careful than ever not to post exact times and locations of meets on the forum. Most regulars are supporting and abiding by this rule and up to now it has been working well, so thanks for that icon_lol.gif . However, with the amount of new people logging on to SH lately, we need to be extra careful. Only discuss details of meets by PM, and if you are planning a meet only give the details to people you are sure are genuine - you don't want to appear in your local rag now, do you? icon_eek.gif

Sorry, Essex Newbies I just deleted one of your posts. Although no times were mentioned you gave very very detailed directions, which I felt were just asking for trouble icon_confused.gif

Be careful out there guys...


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hi blue

sorry to cause u to delete my post icon_cry.gif

i had'nt looked at it like that..but arent the directions in dogging locations?

admittedly they are a bit vague, which may be the reason that we've not had a lot of success with our trips out. the problem with our area, and many others i am sure, is that there are few dogging sites and many opportunities to get it wrong in the location.
i was only trying to be helpfull to a fellow newbie icon_confused.gif i'll pm in future 8)

if anyone knows of a good site in s. essex please pm us...with good directions,i get lost in the dark, sue cant mapread icon_biggrin.gif


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Hi Essex Newbies

Yes, there are locations of some major dogging locations on the forum - these are there so that people know where some of the major sites are. However, your post was deleted as you gave very clear directions exactly to somewhere. Although you only meant to tell one person, every dickhead on the forum at the time also read it (and there are a lot of dickheads around at the mo). Use the PM system and dickheads won't get a look in icon_wink.gif

Have fun

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NEWBIES.....

PLEASE ABIDE BY THIS POLICY.

THE MODS ARE GETTING SICK OF EDITING POSTS THAT ARE CLEARLY NOT ABIDING BY THE SITE POLICY. DO NOT INCLUDE EXACT TIMES AND LOCATIONS OF MEETS ON THE FORUM. DO THIS BY PM. WE ARE GOING TO START DELETING POSTS THAT DO NOT ABIDE BY THE SITE RULES.


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Well i can understand where ur cuming from keeping the exact times and places quite, but then its harder to find out about where these are happening!


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Can I laugh now Blue?

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Damn I forgot, I have to wait until tomorrow.

Happy Posting by the way.
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1. Use the PM system or the email system - DO IT!

2. STOP using capital letters cos it's considered as shouting.

That's all folks!


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Can I just add a few more banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif emoticons to the ones Jags posted....

As Jags says, it's easy.... arrange meets by PM - OMG, is that really so difficult to understand....? doh.gif


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Known dogging locations are given in the DOGGING SITES folder on the LEFT SCREEN MENU.
The REALITY is that EVERY car park is a prospective site.
Those attached to leisure or nature parks are better.
If you doubt that every car park has at least one dogger, then start kissing and cuddling and have a sly look about for an unassuming guy who blends in, or one or more cars parked with guys in doing nothing (sleeping with an eye on the mirror/s)

Saying "Hi, I'm Simon and me and my slut wife Andrea will be at ansons bank car park at 23.00z on Friday the 19th March taking-on all-cummers" will GUARANTEE you a large audience and probably a full-page spread in either the sun or sleaze of the world, and also, probably, you will have your day in court. Or, in a real bad day, a hospital.

So, instead of the date, time and place as above just say: "Hi, I'm Simon and me and my slut wife want to take-on all-cummers around Manchester/Birmingham/Luton or Hampstead Heath sometime in the next week. PM us for a time/date/place with a photo (not a cock shot preferably although you decide !)"

If you're a single guy, then try the ads system with a gentle ad...and wait. Or just wait in a car park and see what happens (as if)

Single guys are available on any street corner in pairs, so don't expect to get inundated with replies. But you never know.

It ain't dangerous out there, but it is busy and it DOES get crowded at well known sites.

Friday, Saturday and also Sunday nights (mornings) are busiest.

If you're a couple wanting another couple, you'll get no peace at a dogging site, and any woman/woman action will draw a crowd faster than a Ferrari.

Hope this is some help, but this advice HAS been given MANY times before.

** AND ** if you're a single guy and get an invite ** DON'T ** tell any of your mates because they'll tell some of theirs and before you know it you'll have a large social group and no action.


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I feel another quick reminder is in order!

PLEASE NOT NOT POST EXACT TIMES AND LOCATIONS ON THE PUBLIC FORUM!!!!!!!!!!!
Newbies.... there is no real excuse, you shoudl abide by the site policy whether you are new or not!

Only post approximate times and non specific locations in public and ask for people to PM you if they want more info.

We are not telling you this in an attempt to piss you off or to rule the forum with irons fists, this policy is to keep everyone safe!

Not everyone who logs on here is a genuine dogger. The press and nutters have access to this forum too. By nutters I mean people going to locations just to cause trouble - things like damaging your car, beating you up, robbing you, and even rape are all within their capabilities. Lets help each other out here, and not give the nutters an easy ride (bloody hell, I sound like one of those public service adverts icon_redface.gif - time to shut up icon_redface.gif icon_wink.gif )