Are You New? Not Sure What To Do? Need Some Help?

Just joined? Not sure what to do? Don't know your way around the Site and Chatroom? Nervous about posting? Don't know the best way of contacting anyone?
Then perhaps having a Mentor may help you.
A mentor will guide you through the Do's and Don'ts of the site, helping you make the best of it. They will be your first point of contact for any queries you have, so you don't feel embarrassed asking in the public forums.

Can I choose who I want to be my mentor?
No, a mentor will be allocated for you. There is no bias, it matters not whether you are married, single, a couple, bi, gay, or straight. Everyone will be treated equally.

Will they help me get a shag?
No. They will help you become integrated into the forum and explain the best ways of getting yourself known. This isn't a ˜quick shag' site. People want to get to know you and your personality before they consider anything else.

Will they explain how to get invites to all the Socials and Munches?
Yes, they will also tell you the difference between a Munch and a Social and any other questions you might have about them.

How much does it cost to have a Mentor?
Absolutely nothing. They are ordinary members of the Site who have volunteered to give something back, to help you find your feet. They were newbies once and are aware of how apprehensive you may feel about joining in.

Ok, how do I get myself a mentor?
Just Click here for a Mentor

Have fun!!


Mal

Added advice thread info here to cut down on the number of stickies.

Here are some links to helpful threads to help you use the features of the site, we will be adding to the list and ideas are welcomed by pm.

Single guys

Can I offer the single guys a piece of advice by Marcuso

Heather's advice for single guys written to assist single guys - especially helpful in the photo ads section

Roger's help for single guys

Avatar Posting

Click Here

Placing pics in replies

Sexylondonguys Easy Tutorial

Postcodes

If you don't want to display your postcode, go into My Account > Account Settings

Put in a your postcode or the one you wish to be associated with and make sure you select a location from the box underneath, then check the option to decide if you want to display the postcode, town, County or nothing.

Look up a postcode

UK post codes map
Thanks to McrM4M-pvtOK


Retrieving Old Ads

HELP TO RETRIEVE PRE-SITE UPDATED ADS