Two Faced? / Bullies?

Someone once said to me "there is no such thing as a friend on Swinging Heaven, trust nobody" Now i wouldnt exactly go along with that entirely but they may have had a point. Giving out personal e-mail addresses can be a risky business and its one that i have to think hard about before doing so...

Its sad that there are a minority of people using the site that find rejection hard to take and feel the need to attack people with verbal and written abuse. But its a sad reflection on those that do it and not on the ones that are unfortunately receiving the abuse.

However, speaking as a single male, those of us that are genuine and adult enough to be able to take a no as a no and not hound anyone whether they be couples, single women or even single males (if thats your persuasion) will prevail in the long run.

Sometimes i think there should be a name and shame board within the site to post such items, however, i appreciate that this would not be feasible as it would no doubt be abused again by the minority who get a kick out of trying to destroy other peoples integrity and reputations.

I hope your problem has now been resolved Angel & H and the advice given by the others is the best on offer..... just banish the buggers into the junk folder for eternity and ignore them in the rooms you frequent and carry on enjoying this site for the purpose for which it was first established...

Good luck

Graham