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KitKat wrote:

With MMF threesomes, there is also a question of the ... motivation?

When a single bloke talks about a MMF threesome, we are not interested in seeing comments such as "I am OK if your partner wants to join in with us"


Interestingly, one of the reasons I started out on sites like this was because I had a very strong fantasy to be involved in a threesome. A loving couple sharing this intimate act with a third party was something I found to be very erotic... However, largely as a result of reading adverts from couples looking for threesomes, I've gone completely off the idea. I guess sometimes fantasy is better than reality.


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roger743 wrote:

A loving couple sharing this intimate act with a third party was something I found to be very erotic...

Okay I am not a single bloke - but I just wanted to second what you said there Roger. 'tis the main (and perhaps only?) reason I joined this site. People have asked me why I am not interested in "makeshift" couples. "After all", they say, " we are a man and a bi woman". But there is something more for me in sharing in the intimacy of a "proper" couple. Hard to explain - but I guess you know just what I mean. kiss.gif


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marky49 wrote:

Again a grerat article Roger, you spent a lot of time on this one. This really should become a STICKY so as to stop so much frustration. At least then the facts are known


Cheers mate.

I am surprised that this thread has endured - at the time I figured it as a stop-gap until someone else wrote a more complete, enduring and (uh) well-researched guide. It's nice to know people are still finding this useful.


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Fantastic post Roger,

I've sent the link to it to a lot of men we've met. icon_wink.gif icon_wink.gif

Unfortunately they all seem to have read and behave more like this one! icon_rolleyes.gif

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/10408.html dunno.gif dunno.gif


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Rainbows wrote:

roger743 wrote:

A loving couple sharing this intimate act with a third party was something I found to be very erotic...

Okay I am not a single bloke - but I just wanted to second what you said there Roger. 'tis the main (and perhaps only?) reason I joined this site. People have asked me why I am not interested in "makeshift" couples. "After all", they say, " we are a man and a bi woman". But there is something more for me in sharing in the intimacy of a "proper" couple. Hard to explain - but I guess you know just what I mean. kiss.gif


yes 'bows! absolutely!

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