
Having had limited success myself, I can only agree that PATIENCE is the name of the game!
Andy
lol i thought it was snap or rummy or poker
sorry childish i know
but agree with what marcuso says ![]()
Time for an airing, its been hiding in the basement for a while. ![]()
Its all rubbish i tell you, just take plenty of pics of your dangly bits, (no face pics) and send em to couples looking for couples or couples looking for fems, lie loads in your replys. im telling you. Marcuso ha what does he know

well i am new single and male thanks for the advice will do my best to follow it
i am a single female and I am pleased someone has taken the time and effort to advise single men on sh. all i would add is please read the profile as a lot of men dont even read them. i also dislike The men who say our profiles look like a shopping list as you have said the more we say the less time is wasted on people not compatable.
I agree with all the points that have been made and someone may have added the points that I am going to make, but there was too much to read back on and I lost the will to live lol.
I have noticed that some 'single' guys only put up pictures of women? Why? It's almost like they are attempting to catch the attention of a women through female bate. This may get initial interest with bi women (no interest at all for straight women) but if you are looking to meet 1 on 1, how is that going to promote meeting you?
Then there are the thousands of single guys who email single women asking to meet and don't offer any picture at all. I don't care how handsome you think you are, how important your job is etc, if I can't see what you look like or at least have a body shot I'm not going to meet you. Trust is very important and the fact you don't trust me with your picture, indicates that I can't trust you.
It is understandable that not everyone is able or happy to put face pics on here, but there is no reason why you can't add one to your private gallery and show those pics to the people you are geniunely interested in meeting. No one else can see those pics.
Also, read profiles before replying to them or sending a cutnpaste. I have had zillions of people tell me that they have a gorgeous female buddy who is very bi curious and they would love to meet me etc. I'M STRAIGHT!!! Stop looking at the pretty pics and read! I find intelligence attractive.
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