Is it right to report false claims?

just a thought , if a couple want to advertise on here as a couple wouldnt it pay for the site to put an option on there profile saying that they have been verifed as a couple , it could go along the line of that the female part of the couple has to phone admin to verify that they are a couple and if they cant it must state on their profile that they arent verified . dont know hard it would be to step up. just a thought ,

A tongue in cheek response .... I hope

But to make a rather more serious point, lets say only a hnadful of more experienced / well known / more vocal members report at the moment if this increased by 2 or 3 times the number would we be creating a problem for the ops?

Just a thought?

I really hope you have reported this profile so that we/Admin can check it out and do something about it?

A superb idea but think it is long down the road of starting this now with so many members. I have always advocated a system where people can leave feedback. Even if only positive feedback could be given, it would at least let others know that they..meet and turn up, and are genuine nice people. Negative feedback could not be given though, I feel that would work well.

That is a true comment for you. But you could always ask whoever you met not to leave any feedback. Those who want to can.

I have always said whilst it will not eradicate the timewasters on here at least if people have something written, you know they are genuine. There is nothing worse than a timewaster. We belong to another site that has always had feedback and it does work really well. As I have also said, only being able to leave positive things, as to leave anything negative would not work.

I feel if SH were to have something like that in place, once it had been running for a while I feel people, thats the genuine people out there, would love it.

This subject has just reminded me of an occasion when I questioned the profile of a 'member'.

Without naming names he was professing to own a weapon of a certain size and this was part of his profile name.

Just being curious, you understand, I asked the young man if he indeed was carrying that much of his person in his trousers..........

Yes he said.

Ok I said, give us a look then............being a cheeky woman and kind of taking advantage of the young lad and the MILF fantasy You show me yours and I will show you mine

Oh he said, then owned up to only having a man hood of considerably smaller proportions but would you still like to see it? Obviously I declined as that would have been taking advantage of him in a time of emotional crisis

People use profile names and descriptions in many ways. I thought this young man was honourable but just misguided in his use of quoted inches........disappointment will no doubt shadow his time here, but you never know do you.

I didnt report him under the Trade Descriptions Act (this bit is a joke obviously!!)

Why doesnt the site then, allow the single guy who aren't in a couple anymore to change their profile to single for free? That will stop them using the excuse that they wont pay to change it... the site can then make their money with a higher charge to upgrade to a couples account.

And me....