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Post subject: Re: What puts you off?
Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 9:47 pm
Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 9:47 pm
noladreams30 wrote:
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x
I have just chatted to someone on the phone for the first time after chatting online for a while. Unfortunately, they sound nothing like I imagined them to. This has kinda put me off meeting them...
Is that silly? Can a voice be a turn-off?
Have you been in a similar situation with a potential meet only to be turned off by something?
Nola x
There have been lots of times when I've met people (guys and gals) who look seriously hot and then they open their mouths and you wish they hadnt! Guess it all depends on what you're after - if you want someone to have a conversation with and you cant stand their voice you probably wont get far... if you want them for other things then maybe you can persuade them not to be too talkative!
Seriously though, buckets of personality and charm can usually make up for someones less attractive traits so persevere!
Mrs Classy
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 9:59 am
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 9:59 am
Dizzy_DonnaCouple wrote:
I read this thread and it made me giggle I remember when I was meeting Rich for the first time we had only spoken on line and didn't speak on the phone until the day we were meeting, when he phoned I was gutted he sounded very posh and english I was all set to cancelle
So glad I didn't.
Love you Rich xxxxxxxxxxxx
I read this thread and it made me giggle I remember when I was meeting Rich for the first time we had only spoken on line and didn't speak on the phone until the day we were meeting, when he phoned I was gutted he sounded very posh and english I was all set to cancelle
So glad I didn't.
Love you Rich xxxxxxxxxxxx
What's wrong with posh and English?
You've given me a complex now
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:10 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:10 pm
I'm Welsh theres lots wrong with posh english 
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:22 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:22 pm
Dizzy_DonnaCouple wrote:
I'm Welsh theres lots wrong with posh english
I'm Welsh theres lots wrong with posh english Any exceptions?
H.x
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:25 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:25 pm
Ye lots H-x and your one of the sexy things to come from there 
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:00 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:00 pm
Aw bless you.
Maybe I should wear my England Rugby shirt to the social
H.x
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:07 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:07 pm
what i cant stand is when they are all nice and normal in the chat room and on msn and as soon as they speak to you on the phone their first words are
so what you like doing then
immediate put off for me
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 10:38 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 10:38 pm
earthchild wrote:
what i cant stand is when they are all nice and normal in the chat room and on msn and as soon as they speak to you on the phone their first words are
so what you like doing then
immediate put off for me
what i cant stand is when they are all nice and normal in the chat room and on msn and as soon as they speak to you on the phone their first words are
so what you like doing then
immediate put off for me
Yep, me too!
Post subject: Re: What puts you off?
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 10:42 pm
Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 10:42 pm
Classysxycpl wrote:
Seriously though, buckets of personality and charm can usually make up for someones less attractive traits so persevere!
Mrs Classy
Seriously though, buckets of personality and charm can usually make up for someones less attractive traits so persevere!
Mrs Classy
Thing is though, am not looking for any kind of long term 'thing' with this person. If I was, I would probably see the benefit of persevering and understand that personality is key etc etc. I am really only looking for a one off, or very infrequent, type of meet. So for me, that means that the chemistry has got to be spot on - and, alas, the voice thing is just not doing it for me... I have been irreparably put off.
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