A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
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Think closed shop for a Munch Res- a venue which on that night caters only to members. They can discuss Felching and only have to worry about being overheard by bemused bar staff.
A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
you're more than a felcher in my little black book...
its very distasteful.
ther was a couple on here who used the chat room and did meet other swingers, seemed genuine at first then once they seemed establised started hosting parties but charging,this went into a full buissness, but were never upfront at first, had people talking about the parties,and guys would want to go, but told not to let site know they were charging.
some guys admitted they were paying, but said it was ok they were going to get to fuck *****.
then they buddied up with another couple and would tease guys on cam,then say hey were going to such and such party, the guys would pay £45 to get in as they thought they were on to a promice, but it was these couples who were raking in the cash, it was realy their buissness.
it soured the southwest scene,
they were and basically and still are prostitutes.
they still advertise on here, and get their mates to slate other clubs in the reviews.
its happening all over the net, making out house parties, but its money con.
xx fem xx
ther was a couple on here who used the chat room and did meet other swingers, seemed genuine at first then once they seemed establised started hosting parties but charging,this went into a full buissness, but were never upfront at first, had people talking about the parties,and guys would want to go, but told not to let site know they were charging.
some guys admitted they were paying, but said it was ok they were going to get to fuck *****.
then they buddied up with another couple and would tease guys on cam,then say hey were going to such and such party, the guys would pay £45 to get in as they thought they were on to a promice, but it was these couples who were raking in the cash, it was realy their buissness.
it soured the southwest scene,
they were and basically and still are prostitutes.
they still advertise on here, and get their mates to slate other clubs in the reviews.
its happening all over the net, making out house parties, but its money con.
xx fem xx
Witchy wrote:
Think closed shop for a Munch Res- a venue which on that night caters only to members. They can discuss Felching and only have to worry about being overheard by bemused bar staff.
A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
Think closed shop for a Munch Res- a venue which on that night caters only to members. They can discuss Felching and only have to worry about being overheard by bemused bar staff.
A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
Suck ma GoolyGoolyGooly Wotsits, suck em too, suck em too...
Shall I bring my woggle?
On a more sensible note, thanks for that Witchy... so a Social means General Public may be present. Munch means the Generally Pubic. I follow now...
Its nowt new, we all know what sells. We date way back to a site many moons ago called Dirty Davids . We knew the fellas personally and he started the site originally to meet swinging girls and get laid, but as it grew popular he eventually sold out as has been the case with quite a large number of the sites started by amateurs and the parties they host. We had so much trouble at one point because we used to post pictures just to share with friends and fellow swingers and then some git would close the site and ask people for money to see them, without even asking. We even started our own personal site as a payback, with the intention of linking up with similar folk on the net. Then we found that real genuinely amateur exhibitionists are so rare that we couldnt be arsed.
When Mammon raises his head he is hard to resist, and yet he always fucks things up - I suppose thats why we reacted so dramatically at first when the new owners took over here. However we have been pleasantly surprised, and although they have obviously used some aspects of it to generate traffic and money they have largely been fair and not greedy and very importantly they have always strictly policed the rules on professional 'services' being advertised which is always the beginning of the end for an amateur site. On the whole though everything is subject to greedy folk, I reckon we are quite lucky here
When Mammon raises his head he is hard to resist, and yet he always fucks things up - I suppose thats why we reacted so dramatically at first when the new owners took over here. However we have been pleasantly surprised, and although they have obviously used some aspects of it to generate traffic and money they have largely been fair and not greedy and very importantly they have always strictly policed the rules on professional 'services' being advertised which is always the beginning of the end for an amateur site. On the whole though everything is subject to greedy folk, I reckon we are quite lucky here
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On a more sensible note, thanks for that Witchy... so a Social means General Public may be present. Munch means the Generally Pubic. I follow now...
On a more sensible note, thanks for that Witchy... so a Social means General Public may be present. Munch means the Generally Pubic. I follow now...
Not always - some socials have members of other sites attending but are held in closed venues... hence a social and not a munch.
anais wrote:
Not always - some socials have members of other sites attending but are held in closed venues... hence a social and not a munch.
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On a more sensible note, thanks for that Witchy... so a Social means General Public may be present. Munch means the Generally Pubic. I follow now...
On a more sensible note, thanks for that Witchy... so a Social means General Public may be present. Munch means the Generally Pubic. I follow now...
Not always - some socials have members of other sites attending but are held in closed venues... hence a social and not a munch.
And banned members ...surely
Can`t have them naughties at a munch !!! oooohhh nooooo !! 
i would just like to defend those that are organising "socials" at clubs i myself organise the BBW ones at chams but do not call it a "social" as i felt it wasn't actually a social as play went on there so i called it the "BBW bash" but i think others call them socials as they didn't have any idea wat else to call them not to mislead any one
we originally decided to do them as we had many bbw friends expressing an interest to attend chams and wanted hands holding but we struggled to find dates where we could suit everyone so as we had attended other gatherings there that a friend organises we decided it would be a good idea to do the bbw bash there too as it would give other bbw's that were self concious for watever reason the chance to relax and enjoy thier first experience of a club in the company of like bodied women and men that lust after those wobbly bits without worrying if they would be the only wobbly one in the place
it was meant as a one off but it was so popular that many others that were unable to attend asked for another then another and now yet another
i would like to make it very very clear i do not get paid a single penny for the night and it does take quite a bit of organsing admitedly only sendin invites out answering pm's and generating guest lists but this does take up a fair bit of time but our only perk is we get to enter the club on that night only for free and everyone else gets a reduction it is not done to promote the club it is purely done for the enjoyment of the BBW's that attend with thier partners and any single guy that enjoys the company of BBW's
there is plenty of peeps that do go to just socialise and do not join in with the play which is all good there is no pressure for anyone to join in with the play which might be the reason as to why others call thiers a social maybe a "social with perks if you wish" might be more apt any other suggestions will be gratefully considered
yes the club does benefit from having a night that is busier than a normal thursday night but then they do give a very generous discount for entry so i feel it is a win win all round
sorry if these nights offend anyones sensibilities but your not having a gun to your head and being forced to attend they are there if your interested if not the trot on by
these nights that we and others organise are a great chance for those that wish to mix socialising and playing altogether on one place which i for one think is great and lookin at the numbers we get attending these nights so do many others
so long may they continue
we originally decided to do them as we had many bbw friends expressing an interest to attend chams and wanted hands holding but we struggled to find dates where we could suit everyone so as we had attended other gatherings there that a friend organises we decided it would be a good idea to do the bbw bash there too as it would give other bbw's that were self concious for watever reason the chance to relax and enjoy thier first experience of a club in the company of like bodied women and men that lust after those wobbly bits without worrying if they would be the only wobbly one in the place
it was meant as a one off but it was so popular that many others that were unable to attend asked for another then another and now yet another
i would like to make it very very clear i do not get paid a single penny for the night and it does take quite a bit of organsing admitedly only sendin invites out answering pm's and generating guest lists but this does take up a fair bit of time but our only perk is we get to enter the club on that night only for free and everyone else gets a reduction it is not done to promote the club it is purely done for the enjoyment of the BBW's that attend with thier partners and any single guy that enjoys the company of BBW's
there is plenty of peeps that do go to just socialise and do not join in with the play which is all good there is no pressure for anyone to join in with the play which might be the reason as to why others call thiers a social maybe a "social with perks if you wish" might be more apt any other suggestions will be gratefully considered
yes the club does benefit from having a night that is busier than a normal thursday night but then they do give a very generous discount for entry so i feel it is a win win all round
sorry if these nights offend anyones sensibilities but your not having a gun to your head and being forced to attend they are there if your interested if not the trot on by
these nights that we and others organise are a great chance for those that wish to mix socialising and playing altogether on one place which i for one think is great and lookin at the numbers we get attending these nights so do many others
so long may they continue
bouncy332 wrote:
not us but then we never been invited to a free one either
think they may b worried i'll break the furniture
Mr-Powers wrote:
so has anyone been invited to a house party...and been asked to pay up on the door?
so has anyone been invited to a house party...and been asked to pay up on the door?
not us but then we never been invited to a free one either
think they may b worried i'll break the furniture
So funny Bouncy!
Well typed!
first off we dont charge when we have a party...
to the point in question...as long as its made clear that charges are being made whether it be to cover costs or make a few quid or a fucking fortune i couldnt give a hoot... you dont have to attend.
to the point in question...as long as its made clear that charges are being made whether it be to cover costs or make a few quid or a fucking fortune i couldnt give a hoot... you dont have to attend.
Witchy wrote:
Think closed shop for a Munch Res- a venue which on that night caters only to members. They can discuss Felching and only have to worry about being overheard by bemused bar staff.
A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
Think closed shop for a Munch Res- a venue which on that night caters only to members. They can discuss Felching and only have to worry about being overheard by bemused bar staff.
A social could be a bunch of reprobates trying not to be overheard talking Felching in a corner of Weatherspoons on a Saturday night.
or
something like a camping social- a bunch of reprobates singing songs about Felching round a firepit in a field.
not so, many of the socials we have been to have been just like munches in many respects ..just without the restrictions of no play or who you can invite .. bar staff at both kinds of events have always been able to over hear whats been said..and both events have been other than that closed rooms to vanillas.
btw not many munches ive been to and ive been to shedloads have been play free..another myth busted ,
staggy and rose
hi
17th Apr 2009 - 3:33pm
when the host of derby social books the room they have to pay for the venue so we are very willing to contribute , thanks for all your hard work cock slut xx
if we go to a social its norm a pub n see what happens later...
if we want to go to a club , we go but not for a social ... being that newbees would be put off....
its nice to meet up with peeps yr spoken too n put a name to a face we have had a few parties here with rules,,,, bring condoms that fit,,,,,,,bring a bottle of booze,,,,n be polite to all....they have been very good n when we wake up in morning the place was so tidy u would of never known, any one that makes money out of cpls n single fems should be banned
thats what i think any way
if we want to go to a club , we go but not for a social ... being that newbees would be put off....
its nice to meet up with peeps yr spoken too n put a name to a face we have had a few parties here with rules,,,, bring condoms that fit,,,,,,,bring a bottle of booze,,,,n be polite to all....they have been very good n when we wake up in morning the place was so tidy u would of never known, any one that makes money out of cpls n single fems should be banned
thats what i think any way
Mr-Powers wrote:
The original idea of socials and munches,was for people to meet in a neutral/vanilla enviroment usually a pub to get to know other swingers with no pressure to play,and yes someone was making money,the landlord...
The original idea of socials and munches,was for people to meet in a neutral/vanilla enviroment usually a pub to get to know other swingers with no pressure to play,and yes someone was making money,the landlord...
Indeed... but if you were too new, then you could not get on the list, and often the music would be so loud that unless you could sign, you didnt stand a chance of getting to know anybody
Mr-Powers wrote:
but its now being twisted as Fabio says...every other week,its someone's birthday and they happen to be holding a social at a swingers club for every tom,dick and harry,which seems like a veiled attempt to just get people into their venues.
but its now being twisted as Fabio says...every other week,its someone's birthday and they happen to be holding a social at a swingers club for every tom,dick and harry,which seems like a veiled attempt to just get people into their venues.
I have been to around a dozen "socials" that have been advertised on this site and held at Chams in Darlaston.
The vast majority of them have been held on nights when the club is dead, and they offer reduced entrance fees for couples, single fems and single guys.
Most importantly, they will often allow single guys into the club without being members. I personally sat on the waiting list for 8 months at chams before I gained my single membership there. Several of them have also provided a buffet at no extra cost to the people attending.
I think you will find that its the party organisers approaching the club, rather than the club approaching the party organiser.
Finally, having spoken to a number of people at Chams who are not members of SH, they often read the LMU forum and if the socials look like they will be well attended, they turn up anyway and join in the fun.
Again we have been in contact with another couple who was having a private party,now only to be told,there will be a £30.00 charge...this really is beginning to piss us off,they say this was for the cost of the apartment the party is being held in,right the apartment they are renting because they have other business(non swinging) in the area and hell why not get other people to pay for it!! 
Mr-Powers wrote:
Again we have been in contact with another couple who was having a private party,now only to be told,there will be a £30.00 charge...this really is beginning to piss us off,they say this was for the cost of the apartment the party is being held in,right the apartment they are renting because they have other business(non swinging) in the area and hell why not get other people to pay for it!!
Again we have been in contact with another couple who was having a private party,now only to be told,there will be a £30.00 charge...this really is beginning to piss us off,they say this was for the cost of the apartment the party is being held in,right the apartment they are renting because they have other business(non swinging) in the area and hell why not get other people to pay for it!!
Mr P, if you think people are on the make then report them and, if the site can do anything about it, am sure they will.
noladreams wrote:
Mr P, if you think people are on the make then report them and, if the site can do anything about it, am sure they will.
Mr-Powers wrote:
Again we have been in contact with another couple who was having a private party,now only to be told,there will be a £30.00 charge...this really is beginning to piss us off,they say this was for the cost of the apartment the party is being held in,right the apartment they are renting because they have other business(non swinging) in the area and hell why not get other people to pay for it!!
Again we have been in contact with another couple who was having a private party,now only to be told,there will be a £30.00 charge...this really is beginning to piss us off,they say this was for the cost of the apartment the party is being held in,right the apartment they are renting because they have other business(non swinging) in the area and hell why not get other people to pay for it!!
Mr P, if you think people are on the make then report them and, if the site can do anything about it, am sure they will.
Thanks Noladreams,thats the first thing i did this morning...if we wanted to pay £30.00 we would have just gone to one of our clubs...one with an outdoor swimming pool,jacussi,sauna,themed playrooms...not some private house with a couple of bedrooms.
