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21st Apr 2009 - 7:33am
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Perhaps I was being a bit over-sensitive. I don't criticise anybody else's life choices - if I don't like them, I don't join in. So I get concerned when someone appears to be making fun of our choices.

 

21st Apr 2009 - 11:48am
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I don't think Varca was making fun really, she just said it wasn't for her. She even said she could see the appeal but for her, the overriding concern was one of sexual health and safety.

If you are referring to my post, the bit that made me laugh (entirely through amusement) was the repeated mis-spelling of the word "Cuckold" and the implications of it. That's all. What you choose to do is your business alone my friend. I don't have to agree with it and as I made clear, there are certain aspects of it which I personally don't find altogether appealling, but that is the nature of a forum and when a point is made and opinions and comments sought.

Nobody's said what Cuckold's do is wrong or making fun of your choices. I made fun of a spelling mistake and Varca and I made our opinions on the matter known.

What you choose to do is entirely your choice, so don't end the thread, keep posting as I am sure there are a great many people who would like to hear the other side of the story.

 

21st Apr 2009 - 5:39pm
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Hi Resonance. No, it wasn't your post - I appreciated the humour and it was something to laugh about, not at, if you see what I mean. But I do enjoy the very positive tone of the postings in all these forums. I, for one, would rather keep quiet than to change that tone.
I don't think cuckoldry is something one makes a conscious decision to go into, it just happened and I found it enjoyable. And, most importantly, so does the wife!

 

21st Apr 2009 - 7:14pm
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sarmic wrote:

Hi Resonance. No, it wasn't your post - I appreciated the humour and it was something to laugh about, not at, if you see what I mean. But I do enjoy the very positive tone of the postings in all these forums. I, for one, would rather keep quiet than to change that tone.
I don't think cuckoldry is something one makes a conscious decision to go into, it just happened and I found it enjoyable. And, most importantly, so does the wife!


YAY !

I have a convert!

Can I quote you endlessly on that?! icon_wink.gif

Thanks for the reply!

I must admit, I don't know if I am half a cuckold or not. I do enjoy seeing the wife with another man a great deal... However I have no inclination to be humiliated in any way or be a submissive, inactive part of it. I always feel I am part of it, even if I am not doing something at one time or another...

I have no desire to play with the man in question, I'm happy to play with my wife with him, or with his wife/girlfriend with him in a MMF situation, but it wouldn't be as a cuckold, but an equal...

So I don't know what that classes me as... Got me thinking though...

 

21st Apr 2009 - 7:23pm
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Hi Sarmic, Im sure Varca will be along to explain her post at some point, but I read it to mean she would know who to avoid because of the bareback element not the cuckhold side of things. icon_wink.gif

And dont you dare keep quite icon_biggrin.gif your posts have made some really interesting reading icon_lol.gif

It is not something we have tried (well, not the humiliation side of things) and have to say that I dont have an interest in that side of it, but being watched by my hubby when I am playing is one of the most exciting, erotic things I have ever experienced (but then again, it came very close to watching him play which was also very exicting) icon_wink.gif

 

21st Apr 2009 - 8:06pm
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A variation of cuckolding is something I would like to try.

I would like to be forced to watch my 'partner' have sex with another man, I wouldn't be humiliated by her, but taunted, teased, the constant looks across at me, the constant comments of how she is enjoying it, how he is giving her pleasure, how he is fucking her, and I am forced to watch, I am forced to listen, I am forced to be the good boy she wants me to be.

It all ends with him leaving the room (in this instance a hotel room) and now she turns her attentions on me, touching me, stroking me, talking into my ear, going over in very graphic detail what he did to her, what the sex did to her, and how I couldn't be part of it, and pushing me, trying to break me, trying to get me to beg for the pleasure that she gave him, that he gave her, how much I want her, how much I want to please her.....

Not given it much thought really.

 

21st Apr 2009 - 10:20pm
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Essex, that's interesting. More than one of my female partners over the years has mentioned the fantasy of being forced to have sex with someone and ending up enjoying it. I've thought long and hard about how one could build this into a mutually satisfying session but there are so many boundaries to respect. Even now, the wife responds to having one arm pinned to the bed. To the outsider, it's a bit distasteful and you would need people you can trust. I think I could enjoy the same scenario but how?

 

22nd Apr 2009 - 1:03am
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I don't see why humiliation seems to be assumed, though I know that aspect exists. I don't feel the least bit humiliated...in fact I think a big turn on for me is the fact that other men find MY wife sexy.

It's made an incredible difference to our sex life since we started exploring that side of things.

In fact, she's been out all afternoon/evening with another guy, while I've been out for a drink with my mates, and I can't wait for her to get home and tell me all the details of what she's been up to!

 

22nd Apr 2009 - 4:41am
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You've got me going now Geoff! Where are you going to publish the full story!? What an excellent relationship you must have with your wife.

 

22nd Apr 2009 - 6:32am
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essex34m wrote:

A variation of cuckolding is something I would like to try.

I would like to be forced to watch my 'partner' have sex with another man, I wouldn't be humiliated by her, but taunted, teased, the constant looks across at me, the constant comments of how she is enjoying it, how he is giving her pleasure, how he is fucking her, and I am forced to watch, I am forced to listen, I am forced to be the good boy she wants me to be.

It all ends with him leaving the room (in this instance a hotel room) and now she turns her attentions on me, touching me, stroking me, talking into my ear, going over in very graphic detail what he did to her, what the sex did to her, and how I couldn't be part of it, and pushing me, trying to break me, trying to get me to beg for the pleasure that she gave him, that he gave her, how much I want her, how much I want to please her.....

Not given it much thought really.
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22nd Apr 2009 - 10:26am
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I have to say - found this conversation interesting - esp from the husbands pt of view. I dont have much experience - but speaking from the other mans point of view (the third man in the MMF) - there is something very horny about being with a hotwife while her hubby watches - its the forbidden thrill of it all. The fact that her husband allows her to take other lovers - makes it even mroe exciting. What cuckolding is - just depends on the couple. One couple i know, her husband never got involved at all - for all intents and purposes i was his wife's boyfriend, we used to go out for meals - before going back to my place. he was just happy to hear the details later - but for another couple - husband was really into watching/participating. Either way, it was all good!

 

23rd Apr 2009 - 6:32am
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westman wrote:

I have to say - found this conversation interesting - esp from the husbands pt of view. I dont have much experience - but speaking from the other mans point of view (the third man in the MMF) - there is something very horny about being with a hotwife while her hubby watches - its the forbidden thrill of it all. The fact that her husband allows her to take other lovers - makes it even mroe exciting. What cuckolding is - just depends on the couple. One couple i know, her husband never got involved at all - for all intents and purposes i was his wife's boyfriend, we used to go out for meals - before going back to my place. he was just happy to hear the details later - but for another couple - husband was really into watching/participating. Either way, it was all good!


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23rd Apr 2009 - 11:06am
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wow - for three years you were a married womans boyfriend. the bit i love is that you went on hols with them - how did you manage that? Did other people suspect what was going on? Did you all hang out together? I have to say thats part of the turn-on of the whole scenario

 

23rd Apr 2009 - 5:05pm
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westman wrote:

wow - for three years you were a married womans boyfriend. the bit i love is that you went on hols with them - how did you manage that? Did other people suspect what was going on? Did you all hang out together? I have to say thats part of the turn-on of the whole scenario


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23rd Apr 2009 - 5:32pm
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u lucky guy!

 

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Why am I thinking of an episode of Benidorm Travlinmanukok?? icon_biggrin.gif lol2.gif

And no I was not making fun at all of those who like to engage icon_smile.gif I was just curious about a few things that's all. And no, it is not my cup of tea but that does not mean that it is wrong in any way. It would be very boring if we were all the same icon_smile.gif

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25th Apr 2009 - 7:01am
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Benidorm007 wrote:

is there anybody out there,who wants to talk about there cuckholding experiances, either being the bull, the cuck, or the wife,,would love to her your stories,thoughts,if you like it,love it,or loathe it,but are to far down the road to change things.


Serious suggestion. Try clicking on Groups at the top of the page and type in 'Cuckold' in the search engine. You'll find two groups there that like talking and participating.

Make sure you spell it right! icon_wink.gif

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4th Jul 2009 - 1:34pm
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My wife and I met a black guy in a hotel last saturday (pics on prof if interested!). It was a long standing fantasy for me to watch her with another guy, pref a bbc. We were really nervous but both had the best time. She had mucho sex with him with me watching and sometimes joining in and it was really enjoyable for all concerned. I even left the room for 20 mins at one point and let them get on with it! My observations from the evening were:

1. It doesn't necsassarily have to be a black guy for the experience to be a good one.
2. Getting the right guy is essential (I can thoroughly recommend our guy if anyone wants to pm me).
3. I'm not a "cuck" in the sense of wanting to be humiliated or for wife to take a b/f (was flirting with this idea beforehand but not now) but LOVE watching her act like a slut.
4. Swinging in the way that we do makes our relationship as strong as it has ever been- or should I say confirms to us how strong it is.

 

5th Jul 2009 - 12:41pm
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Obviously there are many forms of cuckolding.

From the humiliation point of view to just watching her get fucked, or the thought of the hubbie not being there, and then being told all about it when he comes home.

I get a big thrill seeing mrs777 shagged silly, and we have met single guys and couples. With couples obviously I miss out on that side of things to a degree as am playing with the other lady. But when we meet a single guy there is no pressure on me at all. I can either join in or watch for a while, all of which are horny.

We did meet a regular guy where I left them alone for a little while which at the time was very horny indeed.


Does that make me a cuckold in any way? Maybe it does but it is just a word with it seems many variations. I sometimes like the idea of trying it, not the humiliation side of it, but just watching a bit more. Yes for us we always try and choose a guy who is vwe, as that seems to heighten the senses. Nothing better than seeing a woman play with a big cock. icon_redface.gif

Anyway I can see both sides and good luck to those that choose that lifestyle. I can see that all parties can get a real buzz from it. The wife as she gets to get shagged silly, the hubbie bacuase that is what he wants to see, and obviously the " bull ", as for him he gets a lot of pleasure....everyones a winner as far as I can see.

 

5th Jul 2009 - 11:03pm
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Right heres my pennys worth, I always believed the cuckold thing to be a sort of roleplay thing where one partner usually the male is treated as not enough by the female part of the couple and she therefore takes lovers and it's a case of him having to put up with it. These lovers are quite often taken in front of the cuckold partner in a sort of humiliation game. I'm sure it's not really humiliating to the male otherwise it wouldn't be much of a fun game to play there has obviously got to be some sort of turn on for it to work.

Thats my basic idea of it anyway but it got me wondering if there was a more in depth explanation available so as google is my friend I asked him. It appears Shakespeare used the cuckold idea in many of his plots as a good basis for murder and revenge.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/8133615.stm
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