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17th Feb 2010 - 10:08pm
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awayman wrote:

kentswingers777 wrote:

awayman wrote:

kentswingers777 wrote:

A strange one....This was in the Mail today...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1251201/Young-woman-cried-rape-sex-public-toilet-escapes-jail.html


Certainly does not help matters!


I know you'll think I'm being antagonistic, but in what way does this thoughtful and carefully reasoned decision to impose a community sentence not help matters?


Never entered my head for a second.whistling.gif


neither did an answer to the question, apparently...


I am not going to even bother to give an answer to a completely ridiculous Question.
 

 

23rd Feb 2010 - 12:49pm
corrie2010's Avatarcorrie2010I need to get out more
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Ms_Whips wrote:

rape, be it of a woman or a man is wrong. no means no no matter at what point the word is said.

it's true that the person who has been raped is responsible for their own actions to an extent but they can not be at fault for any part of a rape. however, it is also the responsibility of the other person to assess the situation and have enough about them to leave it well alone. it is not the responsibility of the victim to have to dress a certain way or not drink just so as to stop someone elses actions.

whips


Gosh Whips I was going to say something really similiar and you said it so well!
 

 

8th Mar 2010 - 2:54pm
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No means NO, be it a woman or man saying NO
 

 

9th Mar 2010 - 11:28am
Suffolk-cpl's AvatarSuffolk-cplI need to get out more
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I agree No means No. And Rape is wrong.

However, when I leave my house I lock the door, lock my windows and set my alarm. I lock my car when I leave it... If I left my house and left the doors and windows open, would I be surprised to come home to find everything gone? No!

Did I deserve to be robbed? Well no. No one deserves it, but it DOES happen, and i'm sure everyone would say, well I have little or no sympathy for you, as you were stupid to leave everything open.

Rape is the same in the respect that no one deserves it, but some women do nothing to help prevent it! It does happen, so taking precautions is sensible. Just relying on "I said NO" is like just relying on a sign on your door saying "Please do not rob me, as this property does not belong to you"!

The act of rape is wrong, and lives are ruined by it, but how BOTH parties ended up in the position where a rape could take place is the crux of my despair. The trouble is it is one word used to cover a multitude of situations. And I'm sorry (and I know I'll be hated for saying this) but sometimes the victim has done nothing but play with fire, then complains when she gets burnt! And it is these victims that do nothing for the plight of rape victims that have found themselves in a situation totally not of their making.
 
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