Are Promiscious People Attractive?

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awayman wrote:

Kaznkev wrote:

awayman wrote:

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awayman wrote:

I am, by some people's definition, promiscuous. I am less promiscuous now than when I was younger, when I was, to be honest, a total slut.

Am I attractive? Fuck knows.

However, I have self respect, and a clear understanding of why I do, what I do. That'll do for me, and other people seem to be at ease with that.

I think this describes me perfectly.

When I was younger, I was to quote awayman - a total slut. I wouldn't say I had all that much self respect to be honest, I think I was looking for validation. Now i'm older, I guess I would still consider myself promiscuous. Why else would I be on a swingers website when I am happily married? I do have self respect now, and although would say I am promiscuous (for the reason above) I am still quite choosy. Confused yet? lol.

To answer the question, I don't find overly promiscuous people attractive myself. As others have said above, it's quite nice to feel a bit special, knowing the people who have approached you are quite choosy themselves.

*Her*

Yes, when I get old, I shall less promiscuous also

I swear, I chose to be less promiscuous before other people made the choice for me

Like cutting my pony tail off before people mistook me for a Status Quo fan....

pony tail!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pony tail - a full on, down to the middle of my back, fluffier than a fox's brush when washed, pony tail.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-2EDraQ9fk

mind you long hair on a man,that is sexy,

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Kaznkev wrote:

awayman wrote:

Kaznkev wrote:

awayman wrote:

Bluefish2009 wrote:

couplefunuk wrote:

Yes, when I get old, I shall less promiscuous also

I swear, I chose to be less promiscuous before other people made the choice for me

Like cutting my pony tail off before people mistook me for a Status Quo fan....

pony tail!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pony tail - a full on, down to the middle of my back, fluffier than a fox's brush when washed, pony tail.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-2EDraQ9fk

mind you long hair on a man,that is sexy,

Fill yer boots http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpJ9k3WXgt0

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I swear, I chose to be less promiscuous before other people made the choice for me

Like cutting my pony tail off before people mistook me for a Status Quo fan....[/quote]

pony tail!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Pony tail - a full on, down to the middle of my back, fluffier than a fox's brush when washed, pony tail.[/quote]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-2EDraQ9fk

mind you long hair on a man,that is sexy,

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Fill yer boots http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpJ9k3WXgt0[/quote]

Ahhhhhhhhh Guitar Soloes!!!!!!!!!!

You cruel sadist you

i was more thinking,

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northwest-cpl wrote:

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its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

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brucie wrote:

northwest-cpl wrote:

brucie wrote:

its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

I wouldn`t of thought that was possible

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mrs-bmw wrote:

brucie wrote:

northwest-cpl wrote:

brucie wrote:

its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

I wouldn`t of thought that was possible

everything is possible sweetie

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brucie wrote:

northwest-cpl wrote:

brucie wrote:

its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

I'm sure you need all the positive reassurance you can fantasise about.

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brucie wrote:

mrs-bmw wrote:

brucie wrote:

northwest-cpl wrote:

brucie wrote:

its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

I wouldn`t of thought that was possible

everything is possible sweetie

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kentswingers777 wrote:

brucie wrote:

mrs-bmw wrote:

brucie wrote:

northwest-cpl wrote:

brucie wrote:

its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

I wouldn`t of thought that was possible

everything is possible sweetie

Just so the wrong people got fucked off out it dontcha reckon 777

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Losty??

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kentswingers777 wrote:

brucie wrote:

mrs-bmw wrote:

brucie wrote:

northwest-cpl wrote:

brucie wrote:

its just if im in a club and a girl is getting fucked by what i call the bottom dwellers then she may look like j-lo but im still not attracted.

I'm amazed that you constantly go to a club where you seem to find so many unattractive people. Have some respect for yourself and try somewhere else.

nah, all the fuglies make me feel even better about myself

I wouldn`t of thought that was possible

everything is possible sweetie

"sweetie"

He`s obviously not looked at my pics, I thought such terms of endearment would be reserved for the slim ones

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Are these promiscuous people saying yes or no??.....it makes a huge difference don't you know

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Staggerlee_BB wrote:

Are these promiscuous people saying yes or no??.....it makes a huge difference don't you know

Well who are you asking

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Yes, definitely. I am massively turned-on by [the idea of] women who love fucking and love fucking lots of different guys. With the caveat that Duncanlondon and Kaznkev mentioned, if it seems like it's more about validation than sex, then that kind of worries/saddens me a bit; it can feel like you're taking advantage of a vulnerable person. So given that, if we're honest, that is the motivation for a lot of highly promiscuous people, the fantasy always comes into reality flavoured a bit.

But then, if I'm even more honest, there is a definite kink to being evil...

Definitely though, someone who is in control of herself, in command of her sexuality, and loves fucking lots of different men because she gets off on it... is like the ultimate sexual Ferrari to me. Would I take her home to meet my mum? Well... depends if she was nice or not.

I don't need to be "chosen" to feel special; I feel special already, I'm fucking awesome.

(Am I promiscuous myself? I haven't had many one-night stands, a few; I've had a few long relationships including my current one, and a fair few short ones; I've been to a few swinging clubs and parties and fucked a few people whose names I don't know; I've never cheated on anyone, and usually have sex within a relationship. Not really, then.)

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tomu wrote:

Yes, definitely. I am massively turned-on by [the idea of] women who love fucking and love fucking lots of different guys. With the caveat that Duncanlondon and Kaznkev mentioned, if it seems like it's more about validation than sex, then that kind of worries/saddens me a bit; it can feel like you're taking advantage of a vulnerable person. So given that, if we're honest, that is the motivation for a lot of highly promiscuous people, the fantasy always comes into reality flavoured a bit.

But then, if I'm even more honest, there is a definite kink to being evil...

Definitely though, someone who is in control of herself, in command of her sexuality, and loves fucking lots of different men because she gets off on it... is like the ultimate sexual Ferrari to me. Would I take her home to meet my mum? Well... depends if she was nice or not.

I don't need to be "chosen" to feel special; I feel special already, I'm fucking awesome.

(Am I promiscuous myself? I haven't had many one-night stands, a few; I've had a few long relationships including my current one, and a fair few short ones; I've been to a few swinging clubs and parties and fucked a few people whose names I don't know; I've never cheated on anyone, and usually have sex within a relationship. Not really, then.)

<<<<<<<<<waves,and points out i can be very nice when taken to meet peoples mums

You just described how i am when i get in the horny mood,not sure in im a ferrai,more a bently perhaps given my age,i am sub,but when i just go for sex,i feel in control and definatly get off on that aspect of it.

Aint sexuality complex

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tomu wrote:

... someone who is in control of herself, in command of her sexuality, and loves fucking lots of different men because she gets off on it... is like the ultimate sexual Ferrari to me....

Really well put

I like men like that too, especially ones that play with men and women without a thought about what label gets placed on them but just because (to quote one playmate) they are 'just fucking greedy and love sex!'

Hmmm, so, does that now make me a hypocrite because of what I posted earlier...