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5th Jul 2010 - 11:29pm
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foxylady2209 wrote:

Dirtygirly wrote:

Dave__Notts wrote:

Dirtygirly wrote:

Dave__Notts wrote:

Staggerlee_BB wrote:

Can I arrange a meet with all of you please....we probably wont turn up but we'd like to arrange it anyway....oh and could you pass this invitation on to everyone you know


This is the first invite I have had..............I am fecking holding you to it now icon_twisted.gif

Dave_Notts


Awwww... Dave I'd meet you... I'm fairly sure there'd never be a dull moment!! icon_lol.gif


In that case......pack a bag.

Toys?

Nah, crash helmet, cricket pads, riot shield and first aid kit icon_lol.gif

Dave_Notts


Should I bring an orange?! giggle.gif


Best start small just in case - take a Kumquat. icon_biggrin.gif


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Re: TIME WASTERS

6th Jul 2010 - 10:53am
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Suaveone wrote:

Like a number of your contributors, who I must agree with, why are there so many time wasters on this site. I cannot understand the point of all the chat and promisses of arranging a meet and then NOTHING!!!!. I joined this site to meet like minded people and have some genuine "fun". Okay, there have been a few really nice, genuine people, but most are just messers. Why do they do it? If your not interested, why starty soemthing you do not intyend seeing tbhrough??? I too am in another site which does not suffer from this problem.


speaking of timewasters. why have you got straight male on your profile if youre looking for bi couples?
 

Re: TIME WASTERS

6th Jul 2010 - 11:49am
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brucie wrote:

Suaveone wrote:

Like a number of your contributors, who I must agree with, why are there so many time wasters on this site. I cannot understand the point of all the chat and promisses of arranging a meet and then NOTHING!!!!. I joined this site to meet like minded people and have some genuine "fun". Okay, there have been a few really nice, genuine people, but most are just messers. Why do they do it? If your not interested, why starty soemthing you do not intyend seeing tbhrough??? I too am in another site which does not suffer from this problem.


speaking of timewasters. why have you got straight male on your profile if youre looking for bi couples?



Bruce that does bring up a very good point .. Why do lots of couples and single profiles having looking for males or couples and then when you message you get a reply saying not looking for single males? Is that them being timewasting? Because of there poorly written profile am I not having my time wasted?
 

 

6th Jul 2010 - 11:54am
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bouncy332 wrote:

Kaznkev wrote:

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i got called a timewaster because i wanted to chat and get to know someone first n not just meet n fuck ffs he was rather rude and insulting so as it was i was rather glad i decided to waste his time before we met icon_eek.gif


i have to agree with bouncy here,everyone has their own ideas about how much contact is needed.Personally i am not a fan of pre meet meets,lets move on the fucking already!But i do not call those who want to do this timewasters.




oh don't get me wrong i do rather like the no talk just fuck kinda meets but this was when i was trying to arrange a gang bang and i actually wanted to chat a bit and make sure he understood what i was looking for and that he was the kinda guy that was right for it

he is the only guy i have ever put on my block list in 5 years he was that bloody rude


ya very right though kaz every one has very diff ideas as to what timewasting actually is


I agree with Bouncy, of course it depends on your perspective, and how you like to play. I personally like to get to know people a bit before I agree to do anything further and some people might think that was time wasting if I decided not to pursue things further ( as bouncy did ) but I think determining whether or not you want to play is not time-wasting but part of the "dating" process. There's no call to be rude just because you don't click if you're playing you should be grown up enough to realise you aren't gonna "do it" for everyone.

My definition of a time waster is someone who make promises or commitments which they don't keep. My play-time is limited so to be let down by someone who is thoughtless is annoying. I can handle folk having doubts or nerves or just plain bottling out as long as they're honest with me.
 

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6th Jul 2010 - 2:39pm
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brucie wrote:

Suaveone wrote:

Like a number of your contributors, who I must agree with, why are there so many time wasters on this site. I cannot understand the point of all the chat and promisses of arranging a meet and then NOTHING!!!!. I joined this site to meet like minded people and have some genuine "fun". Okay, there have been a few really nice, genuine people, but most are just messers. Why do they do it? If your not interested, why starty soemthing you do not intyend seeing tbhrough??? I too am in another site which does not suffer from this problem.


speaking of timewasters. why have you got straight male on your profile if youre looking for bi couples?


Maybe the woman being bi does not matter to him and he doesnt much care if the male is bi either. So would be compatible with a bi couple with single males on their profile.
 

 

6th Jul 2010 - 3:09pm
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motorcyclerob wrote:

bouncy332 wrote:

Kaznkev wrote:

bouncy332 wrote:

i got called a timewaster because i wanted to chat and get to know someone first n not just meet n fuck ffs he was rather rude and insulting so as it was i was rather glad i decided to waste his time before we met icon_eek.gif


i have to agree with bouncy here,everyone has their own ideas about how much contact is needed.Personally i am not a fan of pre meet meets,lets move on the fucking already!But i do not call those who want to do this timewasters.




oh don't get me wrong i do rather like the no talk just fuck kinda meets but this was when i was trying to arrange a gang bang and i actually wanted to chat a bit and make sure he understood what i was looking for and that he was the kinda guy that was right for it

he is the only guy i have ever put on my block list in 5 years he was that bloody rude


ya very right though kaz every one has very diff ideas as to what timewasting actually is


I agree with Bouncy, of course it depends on your perspective, and how you like to play. I personally like to get to know people a bit before I agree to do anything further and some people might think that was time wasting if I decided not to pursue things further ( as bouncy did ) but I think determining whether or not you want to play is not time-wasting but part of the "dating" process. There's no call to be rude just because you don't click if you're playing you should be grown up enough to realise you aren't gonna "do it" for everyone.

My definition of a time waster is someone who make promises or commitments which they don't keep. My play-time is limited so to be let down by someone who is thoughtless is annoying. I can handle folk having doubts or nerves or just plain bottling out as long as they're honest with me.


oh i am not saying every meet should be an anonymous fuck,just that one persons getting to know you might be anothers timewaster.

People who commit and dont show are not timewasters,there are far worse words for them!
 

Re: TIME WASTERS

6th Jul 2010 - 3:12pm
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tweeky wrote:

brucie wrote:

Suaveone wrote:

Like a number of your contributors, who I must agree with, why are there so many time wasters on this site. I cannot understand the point of all the chat and promisses of arranging a meet and then NOTHING!!!!. I joined this site to meet like minded people and have some genuine "fun". Okay, there have been a few really nice, genuine people, but most are just messers. Why do they do it? If your not interested, why starty soemthing you do not intyend seeing tbhrough??? I too am in another site which does not suffer from this problem.


speaking of timewasters. why have you got straight male on your profile if youre looking for bi couples?


Maybe the woman being bi does not matter to him and he doesnt much care if the male is bi either. So would be compatible with a bi couple with single males on their profile.


chinny reckon. i bet he loves a big cock shoved down his throat.
 

 

6th Jul 2010 - 6:24pm
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So just Dave then..I'm sick of this site ....full of timewasters....I may have to storm off in a huff
 

DELETE THE FORUMS

7th Jul 2010 - 5:03am
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Did I read that repeating threads is a waase of time ?

I guess it is time to shut down the forums then because everything has been discussed over the years.

Or maybe people new to the site would like to discuss things that were discussed months or years ago

Maybe people's views have changed about certain topics as they have gained more experience in the scene

Maybe people who have already had enough of discussing a subject should not open the repeat subjects and move on to something that does interest them.

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Re: DELETE THE FORUMS

8th Jul 2010 - 12:03pm
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MidsCouple24 wrote:

Did I read that repeating threads is a waase of time ?

I guess it is time to shut down the forums then because everything has been discussed over the years.

Or maybe people new to the site would like to discuss things that were discussed months or years ago

Maybe people's views have changed about certain topics as they have gained more experience in the scene

Maybe people who have already had enough of discussing a subject should not open the repeat subjects and move on to something that does interest them.

Just a thought icon_lol.gif


thumbup.gif Agree with your comments 100% .... bolt.gif
 

 

8th Jul 2010 - 4:50pm
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Was discussing this very subject at lunchtime - what is a time waster ?

To me it is someone that doesn't turn up for a meet and doesn't let me know or text 10 mins before we are due to meet and I'm on the way - grrrr annoying that !

I am always happy to chat - but not always happy to meet - is it considered wasting peoples time just chatting?
 

Re: DELETE THE FORUMS

8th Jul 2010 - 5:28pm
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MidsCouple24 wrote:

Did I read that repeating threads is a waase of time ?

I guess it is time to shut down the forums then because everything has been discussed over the years.

Or maybe people new to the site would like to discuss things that were discussed months or years ago

Maybe people's views have changed about certain topics as they have gained more experience in the scene

Maybe people who have already had enough of discussing a subject should not open the repeat subjects and move on to something that does interest them.

Just a thought icon_lol.gif


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8th Jul 2010 - 5:30pm
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Choochie wrote:

Was discussing this very subject at lunchtime - what is a time waster ?

To me it is someone that doesn't turn up for a meet and doesn't let me know or text 10 mins before we are due to meet and I'm on the way - grrrr annoying that !

I am always happy to chat - but not always happy to meet - is it considered wasting peoples time just chatting?


I would reply to that, but then again I might just be wasting my time.. lol
 

 

8th Jul 2010 - 7:02pm
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i tend to think that its a bit pointless looking for blame. it seems like the moment for a connection has passed with some people and they didn't see it. thereafter they are both wasting their own time really.
 
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