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I will look out for you on BBC2 around midnight - Blue.. icon_lol.gif


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Erm, right....OK..... but I promise you I won't be there.... I think icon_confused.gif icon_eek.gif


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errmmm am i missing something??


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Please take note of this thread:

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/66759.html#66759

All the more reason not to give exact times and locations on the forum eeek.gif .


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Why is it everwere u go the are morons in the car parks such as boy racers and the other type.Is there no were that cpls can go with out feeling intemdated by the boy racers or the gays, we thou we try a new place last nite and every were we went to it was full of gays. Yes we understand the still want to have fun but they could at least be more considrate about the cpls doggers.



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I agree with you about the boy racers, but what's the problem with gay men sharing dogging sites with heterosexuals? The ony reason I can think why people have a problem with it is prejudice. Gay men will do their own thing and will leave couples to do their's. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I've never been hassled by a gay man in my life. Remember that this site is used by gay and straight alike. We do not allow prejudice on this forum.


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Well done Blue, though this would have been plainly obvious, after all, you wouldnt post yr full name and address in here if u were getting together at home now would you?? You would only do it though pm, email or phone. DOH! icon_confused.gif doh.gif


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You would be suprised about how stupid some preople really are! icon_rolleyes.gif icon_wink.gif


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HELL BUE YOUR DOING A GREAT JOB KEEP ALL GUNS BLAZING AND THE FLAG FYING LETS ALL GET THE RIGHT MESSAGE ACROSS AND HEED THE WARNINGS icon_evil.gif


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hi blue .Good warning that .i was at attenborough the other nite and boy racers driving around wheel spinning and spraying car with shale and grit.this was a ploy without daubt to scare and bully doggers .keep up the good work .garth derby

bluexxx wrote:

Due to the increase in reports about boy racers, muggings, and nutters at dogging locations lately, we are discouraging people who are posting information about dogging meets from stating the exact time and location of the meet.

We are advising that if you want to post info about a meet put only vague details on the public forum and then discuss more specific details, such as the exact time and location, by PM. That way, only the people you WANT to turn up, actually turn up!

For example, if you are in the Bolton, North West area and want to arrange a meet at a particular place tomorrow night, only put in the post that you are arranging a meet in Bolton - the exact time and location should be sorted by PM.

The moderators will be carefully reading all posts and will edit those that do include exact times and locations. Swinging Heaven wants you to stay safe and enjoy dogging, please help us out here, and abide by this policy.

Thanks!


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Looking at Jomus current posts and considering the law which appears to outlaw Dogging isnt it time to shut down the Dogging Forum?


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Dogging is not "outlawed" as you so dramatically put it. There are laws against non consenting behaviour and about offending public decency, but none of these outlaw sex in public where no-one is offended. Get real.

Jomu has made some valid points in his posts, but the upshot is dogging in some places is suffereing.... but dogging is still alive and well in many parts of the country.

The dogging forum is a useful place for info and to meet others. If everyone uses the forum correctly, and does not post exact times and locations, swinging heaven is not contributing to the problem - it is in fact trying to help - just consider the warnings posts!

If you don't like this forum, you do not have to stay!

If you would like to dicuss this further, please do it on another thread. Don't hijak this one.


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essex newbies wrote:

hi blue

sorry to cause u to delete my post icon_cry.gif

i had'nt looked at it like that..but arent the directions in dogging locations?

admittedly they are a bit vague, which may be the reason that we've not had a lot of success with our trips out. the problem with our area, and many others i am sure, is that there are few dogging sites and many opportunities to get it wrong in the location.
i was only trying to be helpfull to a fellow newbie icon_confused.gif i'll pm in future 8)

if anyone knows of a good site in s. essex please pm us...with good directions,i get lost in the dark, sue cant mapread icon_biggrin.gif


I['m more than happy to sit in the back and navigate icon_smile.gif


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bluexxx wrote:

Due to the increase in reports about boy racers, muggings, and nutters at dogging locations lately, we are discouraging people who are posting information about dogging meets from stating the exact time and location of the meet.


Dam

And there was me hoping to have my end away with some boy racers, whilst mugging the odd nutter.

TS


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tayiandave wrote:

Why is it everwere u go the are morons in the car parks such as boy racers and the other type.Is there no were that cpls can go with out feeling intemdated by the boy racers or the gays, we thou we try a new place last nite and every were we went to it was full of gays. Yes we understand the still want to have fun but they could at least be more considrate about the cpls doggers.



tayiandave


But do doggers have more right to car parks than boy-racers?

Would'nt it be nice if we could alllll get along.


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[quote="APC"]

tayiandave wrote:

Would'nt it be nice if we could alllll get along.


someone said that about 2000 years ago and got nailed to a tree!

My how times how changed. I bet they didn't have boy racers on donkeys.

We could always feed the nutters the wrong information and send them all to the wrong places.

But i will try and keep my posts vague guys and gals. happy dogging!!

BBx


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Sorry if its been mentioned elsewhere but whilst is mainly common sense not to post excate location and times in public is there a list or something of people who are none to be erm "not trusted" as a newbie it could be pretty easy for me to PM details of my meet to a boyracer or someone who is looking to take advantage?



*dont mean to be a pain! just dont want to be took advantage of by the 1% or less who are on here to take the mick!*


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as a new member and novice I am struggling to get toether any info - any suggestions please?


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spireman wrote:

as a new member and novice I am struggling to get toether any info - any suggestions please?


What info is it your after?

Im a newbie on here, and only recently been getting into the whole scene, but most of the information is easily found on here...

If your looking for locations then just keep an eye out for someone in your area looking for a meet, and then ask them to share the information with you...

If you have a location yourself, then dont post it publicly, as im sure you know from this thread, just give a general location like.. "its just on the edge of derby" or something similiar, then when people PM you, you can be more specific


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thanx for advice