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  • (30) I do not think the SH changing hands will have any benefit to the community
  • (15) I do think the SH changing hands will be beneficial to the community
  • (80) Im sitting on the fence and waiting.
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18th Nov 2005 - 6:04pm
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davej wrote:

Elliot wrote:




I know there are going to be a million and one questions flying about, please feel free to post below. However, please try to limit your post to one per person for the first day, I will answer as quickly and as clearly as I can,

Elliot. icon_biggrin.gif


Elliot just a quickie whilst there is a bit of a lull,

I'm looking to make a lemon meringue pie this evening, but have always failed in the past. The meringue never seems to come out light, stiff and crisp, it generally ends up very thin and still a bit wet. Do you think the problem is in the preperation of the egg whites alone, or do you think that there might also be a problem with cooking temperature? dunno.gif



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only you davej kiss.gif

C x

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:11pm
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Well to say I am disgusted is an understatement!!!!!

Steve phoned me this morning to tell me what had happened and I specifically asked that this announcement NOT be made until after all the OP's had had a chance to ask questions so that we were prepared to answer questions from the chatters....

I sincerely hope that this is not a sign of how it's going to be.... icon_rolleyes.gif

Shireen

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:12pm
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Phoenix wrote:

Sexysteph wrote:

Steveg_nw please spank Blonde for me ohhhhhh and then shag her senseless.

I am sure Martin and St3v3 (sorry but silly bloody name that one icon_wink.gif ) will say hello when they are ready icon_wink.gif

Steph


St3v3 is "artistic text" for Steve icon_wink.gif



Yeah Phoenix but one can shag a Steve but can you imagine it at that critical moment ................." Ohhhhhhhhhhhh st.......3......v.....3 I'mmmmmmmmmmm a cummin '" giggle.gif sorry just don't work for me icon_wink.gif


Sorry but still say silly bloody name


Steph

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:17pm
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18th Nov 2005 - 6:17pm
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I've not been around too much lately so I can't speak on behalf of anyone.

None of us have any rights here at all so indignant questions about anything are just dispersed vapour. We pay for nothing so we are entitled to nothing. Geddit?

I have often wondered how 'Mark' ever managed to keep the place going for nothing - especially when, on occasions, we behaved like a bunch of juvenile prats. It must have been a real chore and we owe him a lot of thanks for doing it as long as he did. My guess is that the secrecy thing was a condition of the prospective owners - understandable.

Change is always uncomfortable but, as we have no rights, then we have to accept it. The test of success will be the quality of the product. The rub is that the definition of success may very well be different now to what it was before - it will after all be the new owners vision of success not necessarily the one we have grown to accept over the last 2-3 years. This, again we have to accept.

The sad thing here is that there are real friendships at stake. So many friends made and possibly new ones in prospect - now at risk to some degree. But then - if the new owners don't value that - and why should they - then it could be very sad indeed. But - we have no rights so.............

Grin and bear it folks. For those who feel seriously at risk with photographic material posted, which is of (commercial?) value - I say get it off quick.

Me - I want me poems back from the SH Poetry thread - which I can't retrieve 'cos 'Mark' re-posted 'em and I want me impersonation of Calist back from Davej's Avatar thread icon_lol.gif

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:18pm
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davej wrote:


Elliot just a quickie whilst there is a bit of a lull,

I'm looking to make a lemon meringue pie this evening, but have always failed in the past. The meringue never seems to come out light, stiff and crisp, it generally ends up very thin and still a bit wet. Do you think the problem is in the preperation of the egg whites alone, or do you think that there might also be a problem with cooking temperature? dunno.gif


Davej

the meringue bit of lemon meringue pie : you must set your oven at 150c. Then when you're going to put the meringue in, reduce the temp. to 140c. Simple way to get a nice thin wafery, crisp meringue with a marshmallowy toffee-like inside. I think definitely cooking remp. that needs adjusting. Trust me, I make lemon meringue pies and strawberry pavlovas on a regular basis. icon_biggrin.gif icon_biggrin.gif

Welcome Elliot and co. So far you've shown to have some sense of humour. If Postie can't f*** your wife, how about me fiddling with your joystick? You webdesigners still use them things, don't you?
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18th Nov 2005 - 6:22pm
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Osmosis - we also other dating and personals sites, ringtones is our primary businness, but not our only icon_smile.gif

Calista - You have my word we will listen and respect everyones input, we are not looking to change the essence of the site at all, after all as you state, we would not risk out invetsement at all, its just something we will have to proove in time - theres nothing i want more than to build up a good trust with the SH community.

Morbius - i know you meant a social event, but if i came to derby, i would have to drive, and that involves NOT drinking, and i reallllllly need a drink icon_biggrin.gif

davej - i don't think you are whisking the egg whites enough, and possibly a high temp, it needs to cook through, just not on the outside otherwise it won't bulk up icon_smile.gif

Tim and Lene - It would be up to Martin or Steve to say that, i am not allowed icon_smile.gif To be perfectly honest it wouln't make the slightest difference to you as you won't know it, and the only stuff you can find on the web is mobile phone related stuff icon_smile.gif But as i say, its up to the gaffers.


Off to get beer, ill be back to answer the next round in 10 mins icon_biggrin.gif

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:30pm
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Why thankyou Maia and elliot, we will give your suggestions a try, personally they make far more sense than mrs davej's idea of taking our chickens off of thier corn feed and switching them to a strict diet of flumps and marshmallows, in an effort to make them lay lighter fluffier eggs.

I will now bugger orf, whisk in hand and leave this thread to its original purpose.

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:31pm
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Elliot wrote:


Off to get beer, ill be back to answer the next round in 10 mins icon_biggrin.gif


Elliot,

One word of advice - don't try and answer this lot when yer pissed - it's an occupational health hazard. Believe me! icon_wink.gif Speaking from experience here!

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:32pm
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Oh Elliott, you are no fun. Be warned, Lene has ways of making men talk!

I used to be very involved in your sector (ringtones - as a regulator), which is why I am so so curious. If you whispher it very quietly I won't tell anyone.. Promise!!

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18th Nov 2005 - 6:34pm
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Reese wrote:


Apology accepted, but I still need to know what you're doing about USC, Title 18, Section 2257? It's a rather critical issue for those of us who have sexually-explicit photos posted here.

Cheers,
~Reese



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Does this mean I have to cover me bum up now

DD

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18th Nov 2005 - 6:36pm
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Elliott - hope the beer is good.

Were you expecting this onslaught?

Seems to me that once everyone, including me earlier, have voiced there concerns over this weekend then you need to keep us regularly updated on what you are doing and what effect it will have. Perphaps even start threads about your plans and see if any of the regulars have ideas in which they can help.

Not much anyone can do but say hope you get to understand this 'community' before you make any big changes and keep us informed.
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There are some very sensible views among the replies to this thread, optimistic, intelligent, practical, welcoming. But as usual some very naive and simply agressive responses. The positively cold and selfish comments originate from the hardcore members, SOME of who are unknowingly suffering from delusion based in their institutionalisation. There exists between you an agression towards newbies.Certain moderators misunderstand and kick members without giving any opportunity for explanation. While allowing oldies to pretty much do as they please.

I believe this can only be a good thing, shaking this community by its roots, clearing out the deadwood. Breaking down your insular boundaries.

Have you thought this take over may even actually stop the nuisances that visit this free site on a regular basis. That you spend an awful lot of time discussing.

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:48pm
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ooo ooo ooooooooo

I have a question!!!! icon_eek.gif

What is a Distance Display????

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:49pm
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westerross wrote:


Me - I want me poems back from the SH Poetry thread - which I can't retrieve 'cos 'Mark' re-posted 'em and I want me impersonation of Calist back from Davej's Avatar thread icon_lol.gif


erm can i have mine back too please icon_razz.gif havnt looked to see if i can delete them yet but if i can delete them for us please any mod out there who is able to think straight today , i only hold copywrights for 3/4 of my poems and i aint gonna have them on any kind of paysite untill i know ,
a) more about the company ,
b) more about the ppl in the company (ps if you fancy a weekender then i dont mind getting to know you in person in glasgow icon_wink.gif)
and
C) welll there isnt a c but a &b were lonly

heaysy and ck

[[edit := whoops forgot to say hello and welcome , and as others ill wait and see but then again who knows what ck will say when she gets home icon_wink.gif]]

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18th Nov 2005 - 6:50pm
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well cum Elliott............ icon_wink.gif
well one thing i like about you ............and its a start............ and .thatis you are bad at spelling rotflmao.gif

love it icon_biggrin.gif


But i want you to do this for me................ please in what every way you can......... keep the mods on! worship.gif

you see its not just the peeps in here that make this site its the mods too........if they go ................i will warn you now........... the site will go to pot! HONIST!


I have to admit i have had a few tears..............like a lot of us........... we will give you a chance..............but you mess things up and you will have a strike on ya hands............And i am not shitting here...........we are as one in here..... and i am sorry to here that you did not spend time sitting back and taking notice on how us peeps that make this site what it is............and that wasent the first thing you looked at!............thats shocks me ...................i am a bussness women too........and its successful !............ and thats only because my partner and i spent loads of time ..........on the shop floor first!

I wish you all the luck in the world.....yes as a bussness women i am after making money too .........but not with out sacriffices.......... good luck yo you!


and i will hold my glass up to you....when and if it works out!.. hope so!!.and i mean that from the bottom of my heart and others!

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:52pm
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I'm in the wait and see camp on the changes to the site, but if you do decide at some time you want my money in future then I will expect the staff of Company X to be out and about scouting dogging locations for us! icon_lol.gif

Three serious points though:
Elliot wrote:

On the issue regarding privicy etc etc.

We are governd by data protection, all details are confidential, and will not be used, sold or let out what so ever. You have my gaurntee on that.

With regards to popups, no, we will not be having any popups, at all, no more ads than there currently are on the site, thats not the way we do things.



1.
Use of Data

That's fine, but will our details be shared with the companies within your group - forgive my suspicion but I see the word "ringtone" and can't help associating that with negative business practice. You say you won't be spamming, but if we remain on SH are we unknowingly agreeing to "hearing about other products from carefully selected companies that you feel we may be interested in" i.e. your other businesses.

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Moderators

As you are now running SH as a commercial, profit making (you hope) business do you really intend to use voluntary staff on the site with no offer of any compensation for their time? This is hugely naive imho and I'm not sure if it's legal to do so unless you are a charity - but legal or not, it's certainly not appropriate.

3.
Failure to turn SH into a profitable business quickly enough

If you fail to make SH commercially successful, what will happen? Will the community be offered first refusal to take over the site? what is the timescale you've set in your business plan to break even/show profit? If you fail, will you take a community view and look for someone to keep it going even if you lose out financially or will you take a business view and simply close the site?

Hopefully this won't be the case but it would good to know what your plans are.

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:55pm
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westerross wrote:


None of us have any rights here at all so indignant questions about anything are just dispersed vapour. We pay for nothing so we are entitled to nothing. Geddit?
[...]
Change is always uncomfortable but, as we have no rights, then we have to accept it. The test of success will be the quality of the product. The rub is that the definition of success may very well be different now to what it was before - it will after all be the new owners vision of success not necessarily the one we have grown to accept over the last 2-3 years. This, again we have to accept.

Grin and bear it folks.


I agree with Tune - this is the way the internet has been for the ten years I've been participating in various net communities, forums and chat sites. You never know from one day to the next whether any site is going to be the same or undergo drastic changes, or even be there at all. I have been part of communities that virtually broke up overnight, mainly thanks to the vagaries of MSN and Yahoo, so I never expect anything to stay the same for long. I think we've been incredibly lucky that this community has been so successful for as long as it has been: two and a half years.

All we can do is keep sticking together here, letting the owners know what we think, and see what actually happens. Owners' ideas can change from one day to the next.

Mike.

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:56pm
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cybershine wrote:




and i will hold my glass up to you


But I bet she won't hold it up fer long - down yer neck gel. So speaks one of the diamonds of SH!!

She hasn't shagged me yet by the way!!

 

18th Nov 2005 - 6:58pm
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NOW LOOK HERE YOU LOT!!!..............TOOK ME BLOODY HOURS TO POST WHAT I DID


I NO FOOKING REPLEY...................... well thats the last bloody time i try ! flipa.gif