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Good runner? Can it be saved??
Fred,
Why the vitreol??
You have absolutely no idea about the reasons behind this. Like me you've been using this site for over three years and you've had a lot of good times out of it ....... does that count for absolutely nothing??
I've spoken to Mark and believe me the guy did a helluva lot of soul searching before he finally agreed to hand the site over. It wasn't a decision made lightly and after the countless hours of effort he put into making this site what it is today it was a wrench for him to let it go.
He certainly doesn't deserve the comments you're making and to be honest they're quite distasteful under the circumstances.
Steve
Blow up Ewes ???????
Foot pumps ?????
Noooooo - get the real thing.
Anybody see the family resemblance ?????????
Btw - don't forget the bunjy straps - much more fun than just wellies
blonde, you've just reminded me of something else wth the L or R on footwear.
I once cried when my mum told me I'd got my new shoes on the wrong feet.
Me - through floods of tears "But Mum, these are the only feets I've got"
Can I play????
Yep ...........
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
EagerSlutGodlike
You'll have to take 'em off me if you want 'em hunni!!
Postie - I haven't caught up on the rest of the thread yet as I've been in Glasgow all weekend since seeing this thread go up on Friday... so there may be things I've missed.. BUT
I think that type of comment is TOTALLY out of order and you've got what's coming to you... what type of perception do you expect people to have of our community when that's your introduction? 
Some people on here are beving like animals right now... talk about pack mentality!
yep very unfortunate, that post and another that was vitriolic in the extreme (rightly removed)were about as low as I've seen and were a surprise to me given the names of those that posted em, I would guess that they were heat of the moment and hope not a reflection of a truer character.
We don't kick here Martin
Mr Ben, you go start your own site and we'll all be right behind you
- (30) I do not think the SH changing hands will have any benefit to the community
- (15) I do think the SH changing hands will be beneficial to the community
- (80) Im sitting on the fence and waiting.
I think this is planned, but divisions in the categories by location, something like South East, Midlands etc. (I think they plan to do something with post codes).
Alternatively we are both soft swingers, so a category for couples that just like to soft swing would be great for us.
Alternatively we are both soft swingers, so a category for couples that just like to soft swing would be great for us.
Fred aka Medic 1 wrote:
I can see it now :-
FOR SALE = A Soul = One owner only, no longer needed as I do not use SH anymore.
phredd
I can see it now :-
FOR SALE = A Soul = One owner only, no longer needed as I do not use SH anymore.
phredd
Good runner? Can it be saved??
Fred aka Medic 1 wrote:
I can see it now :-
FOR SALE = A Soul = One owner only, no longer needed as I do not use SH anymore.
phredd
I can see it now :-
FOR SALE = A Soul = One owner only, no longer needed as I do not use SH anymore.
phredd
Fred,
Why the vitreol??
You have absolutely no idea about the reasons behind this. Like me you've been using this site for over three years and you've had a lot of good times out of it ....... does that count for absolutely nothing??
I've spoken to Mark and believe me the guy did a helluva lot of soul searching before he finally agreed to hand the site over. It wasn't a decision made lightly and after the countless hours of effort he put into making this site what it is today it was a wrench for him to let it go.
He certainly doesn't deserve the comments you're making and to be honest they're quite distasteful under the circumstances.
Steve
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Now davej .......... about the wellies ........................................
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Now davej .......... about the wellies ........................................
westerross wrote:
Sam,
If he gets 'em on the wrong feet all you've got to do is cross his legs and yer OK. I've had it from Mrs Davej - it doesn't make any difference!!
davej wrote:
They are unmarked and rely on some decision making by the wearer, I appreciate that for a number of posters this could be a problem, although even they still have a 50% chance of getting it right. I will happily throw in the foot pump which I had to purchase after I found the effort required to blow it up left me too bolloxed to use it.
I also have a plaster mould of my own penis that I'm willing to swop for an egg timer or a mothers tongue pot plant.
blonde wrote:
Do they also come complete with a L and R on them ? and what size are they ?
Openning bid of £10 ........... £7 for the Ewe and £3 for the wellies !
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
davej wrote:
blonde its a deal and for your information the wellies are the very best Barbour, I would hate to have suffered the embarrassment of being caught in the act and have some one discover me wearing cheap boots, I'd never live it down.
blonde wrote:
Davej ..................... I want your Ewe but only if you have the matching wellies
Pans for me.............................. Ewe and wellies for him !!!!! roll on Christmas
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Davej ..................... I want your Ewe but only if you have the matching wellies
Pans for me.............................. Ewe and wellies for him !!!!! roll on Christmas
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
blonde its a deal and for your information the wellies are the very best Barbour, I would hate to have suffered the embarrassment of being caught in the act and have some one discover me wearing cheap boots, I'd never live it down.
Do they also come complete with a L and R on them ? and what size are they ?
Openning bid of £10 ........... £7 for the Ewe and £3 for the wellies !
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
They are unmarked and rely on some decision making by the wearer, I appreciate that for a number of posters this could be a problem, although even they still have a 50% chance of getting it right. I will happily throw in the foot pump which I had to purchase after I found the effort required to blow it up left me too bolloxed to use it.
I also have a plaster mould of my own penis that I'm willing to swop for an egg timer or a mothers tongue pot plant.
Sam,
If he gets 'em on the wrong feet all you've got to do is cross his legs and yer OK. I've had it from Mrs Davej - it doesn't make any difference!!
Blow up Ewes ???????
Foot pumps ?????
Noooooo - get the real thing.
Anybody see the family resemblance ?????????
Btw - don't forget the bunjy straps - much more fun than just wellies
blonde, you've just reminded me of something else wth the L or R on footwear.
I once cried when my mum told me I'd got my new shoes on the wrong feet.
Me - through floods of tears "But Mum, these are the only feets I've got"
blonde wrote:
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
davej wrote:
blonde wrote:
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
Him'nHer wrote:
davej wrote:
blonde wrote:
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
davej wrote:
Him'nHer wrote:
davej wrote:
blonde wrote:
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
Can I play????
Alexandra wrote:
Can I play????
davej wrote:
Him'nHer wrote:
davej wrote:
blonde wrote:
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
We went to the Derby social on the day of the change and it was brill ............. just as brill as any other social I have been to !
We are all still here ................. my PC still works (or not) exactly the same as it did when Mark owned the site !
Its sunday .......... its sunny .......... so can we lighten up bit ?
Just my humble opinion .............. but I am sick of the whinges and attacks ............. didnt we all join for fun ? So can we have some please ?
If it turns out to be a site we no longer want to bother with then I am sure we will be allowed out the door !!!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
........................................
Can I play????
Yep ...........
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
EagerSlutGodlike- Joined:
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- Location:
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table probably.
Eeeek!
kazswallows wrote:
I'll bid on ES sparkly ones
davej wrote:
from what I can make out blonde there's only about 30 pairs in total amongst all the posters and Eager owns most of them.
blonde wrote:
Used unwashed knickers ??????? NO
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Used unwashed knickers ??????? NO
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
from what I can make out blonde there's only about 30 pairs in total amongst all the posters and Eager owns most of them.
I'll bid on ES sparkly ones
You'll have to take 'em off me if you want 'em hunni!!
postie wrote:
OK
there ya go!
Elliot wrote:
oops! bound to miss a few, can you re-iterate and ill answer now
postie wrote:
By the way, you didn't answer my question from about 3pm this afternoon....
By the way, you didn't answer my question from about 3pm this afternoon....
oops! bound to miss a few, can you re-iterate and ill answer now
OK
postie wrote:
Would you mind if I fucked your partner? ( I am going to guess you would...
)
Haven't the time to read all the replies, back to work in 2 secs, but I am guessing you aren't a swinger.......
Elliot wrote:
Hello all,
My name is Elliot,
Hello all,
My name is Elliot,
Would you mind if I fucked your partner? ( I am going to guess you would...
)
Haven't the time to read all the replies, back to work in 2 secs, but I am guessing you aren't a swinger.......
there ya go!
Postie - I haven't caught up on the rest of the thread yet as I've been in Glasgow all weekend since seeing this thread go up on Friday... so there may be things I've missed.. BUT
I think that type of comment is TOTALLY out of order and you've got what's coming to you... what type of perception do you expect people to have of our community when that's your introduction?
Some people on here are beving like animals right now... talk about pack mentality!
Bloke2005 wrote:
Postie - I haven't caught up on the rest of the thread yet as I've been in Glasgow all weekend since seeing this thread go up on Friday... so there may be things I've missed.. BUT
I think that type of comment is TOTALLY out of order and you've got what's coming to you... what type of perception do you expect people to have of our community when that's your introduction?
Some people on here are beving like animals right now... talk about pack mentality!
postie wrote:
OK
there ya go!
Elliot wrote:
oops! bound to miss a few, can you re-iterate and ill answer now
postie wrote:
By the way, you didn't answer my question from about 3pm this afternoon....
By the way, you didn't answer my question from about 3pm this afternoon....
oops! bound to miss a few, can you re-iterate and ill answer now
OK
postie wrote:
Would you mind if I fucked your partner? ( I am going to guess you would... )
Haven't the time to read all the replies, back to work in 2 secs, but I am guessing you aren't a swinger.......
Elliot wrote:
Hello all,
My name is Elliot,
Hello all,
My name is Elliot,
Would you mind if I fucked your partner? ( I am going to guess you would...
)
Haven't the time to read all the replies, back to work in 2 secs, but I am guessing you aren't a swinger.......
there ya go!
Postie - I haven't caught up on the rest of the thread yet as I've been in Glasgow all weekend since seeing this thread go up on Friday... so there may be things I've missed.. BUT
I think that type of comment is TOTALLY out of order and you've got what's coming to you... what type of perception do you expect people to have of our community when that's your introduction?
Some people on here are beving like animals right now... talk about pack mentality!
yep very unfortunate, that post and another that was vitriolic in the extreme (rightly removed)were about as low as I've seen and were a surprise to me given the names of those that posted em, I would guess that they were heat of the moment and hope not a reflection of a truer character.
Martin_M wrote:
Dear Mr Ben
Thanks for your input, we already know that some people resist change on all accounts.
The only things I can say on this note is as follows
1. Kick us when you have a reason to, when we do not deliver what we promise then feel free to kick me hard and fast from behind!. Until then it seems a little unfair unless there is something else behind it?.
2. Without improvement to things we would all still be driving around in Ford Modal T s. Live in huts in a forest somewhere and certainly would not be using the web or own a computer.
Its ok to resist change, it really is but good improvements to something that is good?
Martin
Dear Mr Ben
Thanks for your input, we already know that some people resist change on all accounts.
The only things I can say on this note is as follows
1. Kick us when you have a reason to, when we do not deliver what we promise then feel free to kick me hard and fast from behind!. Until then it seems a little unfair unless there is something else behind it?.
2. Without improvement to things we would all still be driving around in Ford Modal T s. Live in huts in a forest somewhere and certainly would not be using the web or own a computer.
Its ok to resist change, it really is but good improvements to something that is good?
Martin
We don't kick here Martin
Mr Ben, you go start your own site and we'll all be right behind you
I've posted elsewhere saying how much I appreciate the effort Mark put into this site.
Personally I have my doubts that the new owners will manage to keep the spirit unchanged in the long run - part of what made this site so attractive was that it was "for swingers, and by swingers" and I fear that however hard they try, at some point things will begin to go wrong. Not by design, but by accident.
But I don't know that for sure, and I feel we have to at least give the new owners a chance. Nothing's going to change overnight, so let's give them the benefit of the doubt.
But equally we have to accept that some people are in shock and grief at the moment, at what they see as a threat to something that's a huge part of their life. I don't think we should judge anyone who gets upset at this stage - give them some time to get over it.
M.
Personally I have my doubts that the new owners will manage to keep the spirit unchanged in the long run - part of what made this site so attractive was that it was "for swingers, and by swingers" and I fear that however hard they try, at some point things will begin to go wrong. Not by design, but by accident.
But I don't know that for sure, and I feel we have to at least give the new owners a chance. Nothing's going to change overnight, so let's give them the benefit of the doubt.
But equally we have to accept that some people are in shock and grief at the moment, at what they see as a threat to something that's a huge part of their life. I don't think we should judge anyone who gets upset at this stage - give them some time to get over it.
M.
