Can we come please!
Please please please please!!
We are a genuine couple you know!! lol
hugs n all
funin and mike
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Well as its the NW Munch we have to go.
Hopefully see ytou all there!!!!!!
hugs
funin and mike
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Hi hun and welcome to the site.
I am an avid user of the chatroom so here is some advice.
Start chatting to just a few people regularly.
Join in with the chat but concentrate on just a few peoples names.
Always be polite and say hi on entering.
Don't sound too desperate and get annoyed if people don't speak to you.
Understand that a lot of people take the attitude that Swinging is not just a quick shag and it often offends people by thinking that way.
Patience nearly always pays off even for single males.
I know a lot of single males that have a great time swinging and who are great mates.
Enjoy yourself and get your nickname known.
If you are unsure about things ask in the room.
1 final tip is ENSURE YOU HAVE READ ALL THE RULES.
The chatroom is a fab place and you soon get used to the speed of it.
Have fun and say hi when you pop in.
Funin and Mike
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Hi all,
Mike and I just had to ad to this posting.
All the best to you Wishmaster and Leedslass.
As a lot of you are aware Mike and I met on this site.
When I first started swinging I was that rarity of a single fem.
I was looking for fun with no strings.
I n that time I met so many really lovely genuine people as well as having a lot of fun along the way.
Some people who have known me all that time also know that I have had a lot to deal with both in life and health issues.
Then I met Mike.
At first he was just a "shag buddy" but very soon we both grew to be very close.
At first I didn't want to admit my feelings due to past relationships but I am so glad I did.
Mike is the best thing that has happened to me and he says the same about me.
10 days after we officially became an item I was in hospital for 6 weeks.
I know a lot of people would not have bothered but Mike came in every day without fail
He stayed there for hours and went through hell and back watching me learn to walk and finally get to where I am today.
It takes a very special person to do that.
We are still together and stronger than ever.
As a lot of you are aware Mike andI have a very chaotic life with many "bad" things happening regularly.
We are there for each other without conditions.
We have seen each others good and bad sides and we are still together.
We have been together for 15 months now and neither of us have been so happy.
We also feel that our friends on here have helped us through our tough times as well.
This is what makes this site so special to us.
We know we are soulmates, bestfriends as well as lovers.
Thank you too you all.
Mike I love you so much.
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Hi Tatty can we say a provisional yes or is it too late?
Thought it might do us good to get out xx
Understyand if its a no hun xx
Once again the support and kindness is overwelmiong from so many peeps on this site xx
Thank you Olive and all for your kind words in this posting xx
People can not imagine the help it has been knowing treasured friends are here whenever we have needed to just chat and take our mind off of the reality of the harsh world we all live in xx
Many thanks especially to a certain male on here who has endlessly texted me to ensure I was ok and safe xx You are 1 special guy xx
Some people are so quick to condem the single male folk within the swinging scene but I can assure you it is only a select few that ruin all the reputation and so many of them are sincere and genuine xx
Hopefully things will start getting sorted out in our lives now and we can look for positives out of all the negatives xx
Again thank you to everyone xx
Hi all,
This is just a quick posting.
As some of you are aware if you were in the chatroom earlier today we made an announcement.
Just to verify this with all we know.
Mike and I are taking a break from the actual swinging scene.
For how long we do not know.
I have had some devasting news today with the death of the father to my children.
He was only 49.
As you can imagine this is extremely hard on my children loosing their Dad at such a young age.
My children are only 16 and 17.
To see their hearts breaking as they watched him die is something I never want to experience ever again.
It has made me think differently about my life and it will have a dramatic change to our future.
We are finding it hard to cope at the moment but the pain will get easier I am sure.
I have come to realise that although he was my ex I never hated him and still had love towards him in a special way.
I think if we were all honest this is true with a lot of people.
Life can be so cruel at times with no answers why.
We will still pop into the chatroom and seek comfort from all of our many friends.
One thing I have learnt with my time swinging is the importance of the friendship side,
I suggest to all that read this to put the friendship side of swinging at the foremost as at times like this you find you need their support.
I am sorry I said this would be a quick post.
Everyone please enjoy your lives as it can be taken away so suddenly and cruelly.
Take Care and hugs to everyone.
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Hiyas,
It was definately good to see peeps old and new.
See you all at the notts munch xx
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Hiyas Chards hun,
Can we ad our names to the list.
Its not 100% certain as yet but will most probable be. xx
And no I am not bring egg sarnies xx lol
Hiyas and welcome to the site.
As I have said in my previous post.
Peeps that know me off of here know I am disabled.
It has never got in the way.
You will find you will, on the whole, meet really genuine peeps xx
I use a wheelchair at times and have gone to a large munch in it.
I definately found out who my true friends were.
In the case of the others well they really weren't bothering with in my opinion. xx
Have fun on this site the pair of you xx
Hi Woodsy and welcome to the site.
As a lot of the site is aware that I (funin) am disabled.
I am known to use a wheelchair at times.
None of this has ever stopped me from enjoying myself on here.
I also find that the peeps i do meet are the most genuine peeps here.
I feel this makes it a lot more favourable ihn the end run.
We all have issues in life but we learn to get on with life.
My advice is go ut there make friends, get to parties.
Any small minded peeps that are judgemental are not worth knowing anyway xx
Hiyas peeps
Just to say al last wee met Wishmaster hun.
It was really great meeting friends old and new.
We had a fab time.
Heres to everyone
Hugs and Kisses
Funin and Mike
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hiyas peeps xx
long time since we posted xx
We will try to get to W3inchester xx
1 thing we ask is that it is "funin friendly" xx