Usually on first I embrace a woman in greeting and her on the upper neck. aftyer that then if the face is offered up then kis on the mouth gently but firmly finding out how that is thats as far as it gets which is however the kiss on the mouth is responded too with passion I place my hand on gently on the back of the neck,grabbing hair gentlt but forcfully if she has enough to grab hold of. pulling her into a harder kiss.
I dunno if we got shrep enabled or not nor do i know how to enable, disable, disenenable, coffee table, tower of babel, cable, label, or fable it neither am I bothered about finding out. However we do meet and we do chat in chatrooms with people we may well meet but neither of us wank on cam or ask questions or say statements to the effect of we're very close or whisper "can I whisper" or ask whether someone does anal instead of a hello as an introduction so I dont know if we're time wasters or not
Hey anyone who remembers the Somers from 2 years back and further. cool couple who used to arrange the Bristol Munches? Well we bumped into her last night and its hard to believe its 2 years since Mr Somers passed away but it was brilliant to see Mrs Somers looking so well and back swinging along with her new has asked us to remember her in here to all that know her and to give all her very best.
The way its going in this country there won't be many pubs left let alone grey pubs
Has anyone else found the same problem as I?
When it comes to swinging etc I can be quite dominant and over the years, although I don't actually physically play as in shagging with anyone other than My Mrs, I have indulged in some domination and mild slave master scenarios with others. Got to say I rather enjoyed the experiences and have been told I'm not bad at being a 'Dom' male.
Weird thing is I cannot for the life of me be this way with My Mrs. We've both tried on numerous occasions but each time its failed. She cant be 'domme' with me either. It all just feels so false between us two whilst its great fun if it is with someone else.
I got a red flaggy thing been up on friend for ages now but nothing pending but it wont peep I know got the same on mailbox - anyone know owt about whether there's a glitch?
Yup - Totally agree with you Star some great sites on TV and what a credit toour nation :thumbup: God bless the Queen
I cant see it working myself as there are going to be times where at least one is going to compromise themselves to the needs of the others and I don't really mean in the same way as in a traditional one to one relationship whereby each can and do accommodate each other.
Polygamists or the more acceptable word of polybloodyamorist are all going to hell you know
It's a perfectly good valid opening post and topic and the antogonists are picking at straws with this one.
If a guy has a problem with the state of his place due to it needing renovation or the like then surely it wouldn't be too great a job too explain this and maybe meet up in said place for coffee and then suggest a hotel or something else to goon to for any durrrty deeds to be done.
As for single women meeting up with guys at their place? Come on the answers pretty obvious there. Fair it may not be but I'd feel safer in the knowledge that any single swinger* lady friend I knew wasn't meeting casually at her own home with anyone at least to start with. we maybe swingers but surely it doesn't preclude us from the usual safety protocols.
Of course it's a shame that legitimate single guys have to work so hard in Swingworld but that's just the way it is unfortunately. As for the cheaters and liars? Well they should be ashamed and disgusted with themselves whether male female or undecided and they should know that they are all going to straight to jell with no get out of jail free card.
*Facilitator
What goes red red red white blue..... Auto asphyxiation gone bad?
I'll get my coat.
Found the same problems, MissVery,it's a big pet of ours, so we won't meet singles who can't accommodate even if they offer to shell out for a hotel. Probably means some really nice guys with legit excuses are getting passed over but you have to go with what you know is the usual reasons.
Judgements are opinions so in giving an opinion we have ourselves made a judgement.
It's one of the reasons in any post of mine I really try not to put "Blah blah blah well thats in my opinion" As if using those words is shielding me from others judgements thus making my statements acceptable and not debateable to all regardless.
Earlier on in the thread someone mentioned about things being morally acceptable for you individually. what was failed to be mentioned is that in most scenarios I can think of there is a national morality, albeit it may be underlying, into which the populace in general abide by. If it wasn't for this then there would be chaos and we probably would not of evolved much from our origins.
Of course things do change as our acceptance or non acceptance of different issues arise, When these things do then it usually with the acceptance of what is right or wrong changing for an increasing amount of people until a point is reached at which the overwhelming majority view has changed and so what was wrong becomes right or vice versa.
At this point in time, swinging is socially unacceptable, as is cheating, so we swingers stand accused, as do cheaters, of being in the social wrong. There may well become a time when swinging becomes acceptable, I hope not, as then it wouldn't feel so deliciously naughty for Lost, The fact that swinging for my wife and I between us is an accepted practice, and hurts no one, and allows us to partake with other couples in the same situation or with singles (who are facilitators not swingers)that have no obligation to an unknowing another is what makes it slightly different from cheating. Cheating is by definition dishonest whereas swinging isn't and because of this dishonesty cheating will always be wrong and, to a lesser or greater degree, alien to the national morality
Weird thing was the mother obviously saw us but walked straight through the room into the kitchen and at which point I threw the gf off dressed and got out the door in less than 45 seconds flat - talk about cowardice eh :thumbup: 
