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Lost
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 52
Straight Male, 59
0 miles · Gloucestershire
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Sex God
Lost like single males. We meet up with them now and again too. In fact Lostman was a single guy once and liked enough not to be single now 
Unless your a well known character within the chat rooms known for being able to host a room with charisma and animation it is always going to be difficult. Add that to the fact that that a lot of people are drawn to area or activity driven rooms, apart from the entry rooms, its going to take a lot of patience to sit hosting a room to get people to stat coming in regularly.
We'd be quite happy if there was a "couples who like single guys looking to hook up in Gloucestershire room" It would be quite handy when we're looking for a meet. Let's be honest though that ain't going to happen especially to coincide with the times we're available to get out and meet and to sit in a room talking with the same one or two people all the time, well, it would just become hard work to be honest.
A room needs a good diverse cross section of people to jkeep the blood flowing in it. Chat rooms are what they are and that is for chatting. A great by product of the chat room is that it also allows people to weigh up the possibilities of meeting up in real life occasionally and this is usually done, in the meeting up for sex stakes, in a more discreet fashion through the whisper facility or through mails to each etc.
Such a specific room is always going to find it hard to get going. Unless of course its called 'Single female with really wet spread pussy close up oam looking to meet any male within 300 miles anytime over the next 12 hours whispers and directing welcome room ' not enough space to open a room with that title obviously but you get the point. lol
Unless your a well known character within the chat rooms known for being able to host a room with charisma and animation it is always going to be difficult. Add that to the fact that that a lot of people are drawn to area or activity driven rooms, apart from the entry rooms, its going to take a lot of patience to sit hosting a room to get people to stat coming in regularly.
We'd be quite happy if there was a "couples who like single guys looking to hook up in Gloucestershire room" It would be quite handy when we're looking for a meet. Let's be honest though that ain't going to happen especially to coincide with the times we're available to get out and meet and to sit in a room talking with the same one or two people all the time, well, it would just become hard work to be honest.
A room needs a good diverse cross section of people to jkeep the blood flowing in it. Chat rooms are what they are and that is for chatting. A great by product of the chat room is that it also allows people to weigh up the possibilities of meeting up in real life occasionally and this is usually done, in the meeting up for sex stakes, in a more discreet fashion through the whisper facility or through mails to each etc.
Such a specific room is always going to find it hard to get going. Unless of course its called 'Single female with really wet spread pussy close up oam looking to meet any male within 300 miles anytime over the next 12 hours whispers and directing welcome room ' not enough space to open a room with that title obviously but you get the point. lol
Sex God
yes we do, well some do, and some dont, same as some men do and some men dont 
Have to say that in a real life situation, a few times I have picked up on colleagues who are gay/bi where it has not been openly obvious, but a friend/colleague also picked up on me being bi, and she does not even know we swing
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Blimey a Bidar as well - Holy shamoly I must of missed out big time in the intuition stakes. In saying that Mrs Lost tends to attract bi/gay women without knowing how herself, even though I have told her that she flirts far more with women than she does men even though she loves men. I reckon its possible because she doesn't have to flirt with men as much to get the same attention as with a woman.
Awww bugger I dunnon but I'm still sceptical :lol:
Have to say that in a real life situation, a few times I have picked up on colleagues who are gay/bi where it has not been openly obvious, but a friend/colleague also picked up on me being bi, and she does not even know we swing
[/quot)Blimey a Bidar as well - Holy shamoly I must of missed out big time in the intuition stakes. In saying that Mrs Lost tends to attract bi/gay women without knowing how herself, even though I have told her that she flirts far more with women than she does men even though she loves men. I reckon its possible because she doesn't have to flirt with men as much to get the same attention as with a woman.
Awww bugger I dunnon but I'm still sceptical :lol:
Sex God
'Gaydar'?
I'm a bit sceptical about this really. No, in fact I am more than sceptical. I don't think they do. but according to the Telegraph ...
I'm a bloke and I know I cant unless a guys mincing around in drag shouting "I'm gay I'm gay I'm gay" but that ain't happened as yet.
I'm a bit sceptical about this really. No, in fact I am more than sceptical. I don't think they do. but according to the Telegraph ...
I'm a bloke and I know I cant unless a guys mincing around in drag shouting "I'm gay I'm gay I'm gay" but that ain't happened as yet.
Sex God
OK so you've been in contact with prospective durrrrty do'er(s) and things seem to be on the up and there's been some light chat bit of discussion even a social meet that sort of thing. Then you get a mail through your slot or on your phone saying "thanks but your not for me/us. Don't or wouldn't you want to know why? I know we're all grown ups in the swinging world, apparently, and we should be able to move on without a second thought but still.
We've had one or two knock backs when all seemed to be going good and we've given out a knock back or two ourselves. Well we gave a knock back the other day and the other party mailed just asking why. So dutifully we mailed back just saying that we didn't think that the meet to swing was suitable for us and that things didn't really click in that way.
OK, so maybe we shouldn't of even answered said mail but we did, just being poilte, as you do sort of thing. Lo and behold another mail, and yes I could of binned it straight away without reading, but hell I'm nosy. The mail asked why it was we thought that way and if it was anything we could think of that he/they could do that would A) change our mind, and he/they were OK about it if we didn't change our mind and B) How could we suggest that he/they change their approach to help out on future introductions etc.
We haven't mailed back yet.... lol
We've had one or two knock backs when all seemed to be going good and we've given out a knock back or two ourselves. Well we gave a knock back the other day and the other party mailed just asking why. So dutifully we mailed back just saying that we didn't think that the meet to swing was suitable for us and that things didn't really click in that way.
OK, so maybe we shouldn't of even answered said mail but we did, just being poilte, as you do sort of thing. Lo and behold another mail, and yes I could of binned it straight away without reading, but hell I'm nosy. The mail asked why it was we thought that way and if it was anything we could think of that he/they could do that would A) change our mind, and he/they were OK about it if we didn't change our mind and B) How could we suggest that he/they change their approach to help out on future introductions etc.
We haven't mailed back yet.... lol
Sex God
Quote by alaninuk
Has anyone else seemed to notice in their areas that recently there seem to be a lot of new clubs opening up? I reckon within 50 miles of us at least five have opened that I know of, there's bound to be more too I bet.
5 Clubs ?? - do tell - i can think of 1 but am fascinated as to the others !!
The Lodge - Gloucester
Angels - Melksham
The Office - Bristol
Bath Swingers Club - Bath
Club O - Bristol
Romeos - Bristol
Gems - Yeovil(ish)
Libertease - Bristol
There you go Alan. Eight to be going on with .....
Sex God
Definitely here, we have made friends, fine friends. Really good as the whole friendship thing can be more open in how you can express yourself and what you can talk about.
There can be a little dubiousness when involving your or their families in the friendship and its always a consideration initially but there are some friends that we now are happy to have about us and our families primarily because that's what they are is mates.
One couple we go see whenever we get chance to we call our therapists because its such a chilled time we spend with them that when we come away it feels as if the worlds a better place and we love them dearly. In fact we have quite a few special mates.
A lady who is a surrogate aunt to our kids and who has come to our aid on at least one really quite traumatic time. Another cpl who, when we lost the use of our car for a while immediately stepped in and said "We have one you can use for as long as you need too" How cool we're they, even though the guy of the couple has the sense of humour of a four year old and a sweet tooth to match. Not much I wouldn't do for these guys. These people are dear to us and along with others have made some of the most special times and memories we'll ever have.
Certainly didn't expect these friendships when we started our swinging adventures but what a bonus!
There can be a little dubiousness when involving your or their families in the friendship and its always a consideration initially but there are some friends that we now are happy to have about us and our families primarily because that's what they are is mates.
One couple we go see whenever we get chance to we call our therapists because its such a chilled time we spend with them that when we come away it feels as if the worlds a better place and we love them dearly. In fact we have quite a few special mates.
A lady who is a surrogate aunt to our kids and who has come to our aid on at least one really quite traumatic time. Another cpl who, when we lost the use of our car for a while immediately stepped in and said "We have one you can use for as long as you need too" How cool we're they, even though the guy of the couple has the sense of humour of a four year old and a sweet tooth to match. Not much I wouldn't do for these guys. These people are dear to us and along with others have made some of the most special times and memories we'll ever have.
Certainly didn't expect these friendships when we started our swinging adventures but what a bonus!
Sex God
Has anyone else seemed to notice in their areas that recently there seem to be a lot of new clubs opening up? I reckon within 50 miles of us at least five have opened that I know of, there's bound to be more too I bet.
On that theme does any one also notice that some profiles state that they always like to meet up for a drink and chat on a no play basis initially. Sounds fair enough until you find out they go clubbing and its away with the first meet no play and in with the wayyy heyyyy get down n dirty with people they've not previously met. Bit of a contradiction aint it.
On that theme does any one also notice that some profiles state that they always like to meet up for a drink and chat on a no play basis initially. Sounds fair enough until you find out they go clubbing and its away with the first meet no play and in with the wayyy heyyyy get down n dirty with people they've not previously met. Bit of a contradiction aint it.
Sex God
Yup flower its true i admit
As for the home owning thread? Hilarious, although I should of bought a hard hat! One of the many times body language was sadly not available to my detriment lol.
Might try and find that thread and read it for the cringeworthyiness - Mind you I might not as I cant do the search thing on here never have been able to. I try to search and end up with every post from 2006 to now to look through and there probably aint enough daylight left in my life to accomplish it.
As for the home owning thread? Hilarious, although I should of bought a hard hat! One of the many times body language was sadly not available to my detriment lol.
Might try and find that thread and read it for the cringeworthyiness - Mind you I might not as I cant do the search thing on here never have been able to. I try to search and end up with every post from 2006 to now to look through and there probably aint enough daylight left in my life to accomplish it.
Sex God
Apart from being on TV the Olympics means less than f*ck all to most of the millions who live in GB in my opinion. Let's be honest you had to be at a certain financial level to even think about bidding for the tickets for crying out loud. Mind you it seems from the amount of corporate tickets being given out as prizes for this or that competition (for the cost of a £1 phone call of course)that the companies were the first thought by the organisers when it came to ticket sales.
I really admire the Olympians for what they do. its extraordinary, but the Olympics? I don't give a flying f*ck for the self serving big business ideal it has become.
I really admire the Olympians for what they do. its extraordinary, but the Olympics? I don't give a flying f*ck for the self serving big business ideal it has become.
Sex God
Cool post mids Ican totally get what your saying :thumbup:
I am a voyeur to my wife swinging with others, I love it, although I really dont get much from joining in so I don't. Luckily J (my partner)gets off on swinging with others AND especially with me watching her. Luck set of circumstances really as she can't cope watching me with others which has happened on the rare occasion in the past.
Oddly we have found it quite a task to get to meet others who don't mind me just watching. possibly makes them very self conscious, especially when I get out the football rattle out and start chanting and singing when things are going really well
I am a voyeur to my wife swinging with others, I love it, although I really dont get much from joining in so I don't. Luckily J (my partner)gets off on swinging with others AND especially with me watching her. Luck set of circumstances really as she can't cope watching me with others which has happened on the rare occasion in the past.
Oddly we have found it quite a task to get to meet others who don't mind me just watching. possibly makes them very self conscious, especially when I get out the football rattle out and start chanting and singing when things are going really well
Sex God
I sleep around 4 hours in 24 with the occasional marathon of a 10 hour kip once every blue moon, I hate those as I end up in a shite mood with a headache. Mind you I did at one point suffer very severe sleep apnoea and that was hell for years but that was sorted under surgery and what a blessing that was and still is.
I think that I'm pretty bad for staying up past when I should of gone to bed but hey your a long time dead so enjoy the times when your pushing your awake moment envelopes
I think that I'm pretty bad for staying up past when I should of gone to bed but hey your a long time dead so enjoy the times when your pushing your awake moment envelopes
Sex God
Thanks for some lovely comments guys, that's kind. I do enjoy posting when I do and I do really enjoy reading posts that you lot in here make too. Think some might just be getting the wrong end of the stick a little. I 'used' to, when I first started posting, think that the forums were a bear pit but after a while I learned to just get on with it.
As for posts just being words on a screen? Well I've never really subscribed to that idea. Reason being is that what you read can have a profound effect on your mood so even though they maybe just words by anonymous people they can have a real life/time effect on people. Especially if your on the end of some vitriol and most of us have been I'm sure at some point or another. Conversely seeing good things that entertain you and make you smile or think and enjoy can have a positive effect on your mood directly affecting how your day goes.
I sort of wish the forums were integrated once again though as I found the diversity of posts enjoyable and a positive thing whereas with them being sectioned off into there appropriate pigeon holes it tends to polarise the posters into those areas. Seems to me that someone who posts primarily in the C&A section might just post on cafe topics in they were not distinct from each other as they are now. I enjoyed the melting pot of mixed forum as the diversity between one thread and the next in itself was interesting and enjoyable.
Maybe it would be worth mixing up the C&A threads with the Cafe threads just for the hell o fit. I'm sure the moderators wouldn't really mind
I guess this posts proves I can type bollox for Britain still too lol
As for posts just being words on a screen? Well I've never really subscribed to that idea. Reason being is that what you read can have a profound effect on your mood so even though they maybe just words by anonymous people they can have a real life/time effect on people. Especially if your on the end of some vitriol and most of us have been I'm sure at some point or another. Conversely seeing good things that entertain you and make you smile or think and enjoy can have a positive effect on your mood directly affecting how your day goes.
I sort of wish the forums were integrated once again though as I found the diversity of posts enjoyable and a positive thing whereas with them being sectioned off into there appropriate pigeon holes it tends to polarise the posters into those areas. Seems to me that someone who posts primarily in the C&A section might just post on cafe topics in they were not distinct from each other as they are now. I enjoyed the melting pot of mixed forum as the diversity between one thread and the next in itself was interesting and enjoyable.
Maybe it would be worth mixing up the C&A threads with the Cafe threads just for the hell o fit. I'm sure the moderators wouldn't really mind
I guess this posts proves I can type bollox for Britain still too lol
Sex God
Why do I find it so hard to post nowadays? I want to and I get halfway through a response and then sort of freeze and end up giving up. strange really as when I first started posting I felt really intimidated for some reason, dont really know why but I guess if you didn't quite get your posts right the forum could come across as a bear pit. Then, when I got my posting confidence up I multiple posted regularly every day. Now I just freeze. Frustrating.
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Quote by neilinleeds
I had the very same idea Funlovers and was every bit as pissed off when I discovered the increased cost. It's worse than you suggest. The £2500 is for a module worth 60 credits. An honours degree requires you study modules worth 360 credits, so if you wanted to really apply yourself and do it quick over three years as with a full-time degree it's £5000 a year. I don't quite understand how the fees can be justified given the O.U. must have massively lower costs than even a small red-brick given they've no campus to maintain.
You seen their HQ? Its Palatial - like walking into another world. That's where half the freaking money goes.
hwoar: you just never know! (lives in hope) Sex God
I think its crap to be so rude about putting No single males in such a way as a lot of people do on there profiles. Its easy to just put - we are not looking for single guys so please don't inquire if you are one. - Then if they do inquire just delete and ignore it. How hard can that be.
