Blue has been backed into a corner I think although any discussion on religion is going to be fraught with arguement.
Maybe if the question was based more on 'Should schools be allowed to teach hatred and intolerance between peoples of different religions' then maybe that would be better, I don't know.
It does seem to me that any teachings of intolerance shouldn't be taught at school and that includes the Bible of which I have no love for, however remarkable a document it is. I also believe that schools should be a place to learn about secular issues taught in a secular way and that hypothetical subjects, however real to some, should be a choice made away from school. How that would be achieved i can't even speculate.
Religion in all its choices should be a choice made by an individual searching for their individual needs. As with racism, no one can stop peoples thoughts and ideas about what is right or wrong for them, but it can be made wrong to extol its virtues by ways and means public.
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Sex God
I think you probably think along the same lines as we do Bouncy. I'm almost sure as the guy in our relationship I'd find it incredibly difficult to accommodate another guy fathering an unasked for child in J and I's relationship. Though, as a rule, I'm anti termination in all but extreme cases I'd probably think selfish;y and offer up that solution.
Sex God
Would you take the offer of surgery on your sex bits, if it was at no cost to you. if you had the opportunity? You know the sort of thing. As a bloke you could get your love hammer increased in legth or girth or both, would you go for it? Or if as a woman would you ave your fanny reshaped and or tightened, would you?
I'm not unhappy with what i've got as its served me well in the past and continues to do so thankfully but I'm not sure curiosity and the idea that bigger than you got naturally is better. I think I might be tempted. It would be interesting to try out owning and using something like a really thick 11" man bat.
I'm not unhappy with what i've got as its served me well in the past and continues to do so thankfully but I'm not sure curiosity and the idea that bigger than you got naturally is better. I think I might be tempted. It would be interesting to try out owning and using something like a really thick 11" man bat.
Sex God
OK so the title is a bit misleading, I just put it knowing members such as Sassy Seren would look at it and have trouble keeping their lunch down :
Hypothetically if given the chance, Say you could and it was free and available to you would you put your wife husband partner if they were willing and could do the same back, through a lie detector test just for fun/interest? The questions would be unknown by the partner before taking it?
I think i'd be OK with taking the test as I'm not sure if there anything I've held back from J, though there are no doubt things that occurred before we we're together but the subject need or thought hasn't been around to need to do so. On the other hand, would I be offended asking me to do it? Would it be ideal curiosity or a latent thought coming to the fore a mild distrust in me or would it be more?
Hypothetically if given the chance, Say you could and it was free and available to you would you put your wife husband partner if they were willing and could do the same back, through a lie detector test just for fun/interest? The questions would be unknown by the partner before taking it?
I think i'd be OK with taking the test as I'm not sure if there anything I've held back from J, though there are no doubt things that occurred before we we're together but the subject need or thought hasn't been around to need to do so. On the other hand, would I be offended asking me to do it? Would it be ideal curiosity or a latent thought coming to the fore a mild distrust in me or would it be more?
Sex God
Looking for our local room in the chat today (Which is a pain the arse now, the drop down room window from the top of the screen was far better, Though credit where it's due the actual chat bit of the screen is OK)and I came across this room:-
chat about wives pregnant thru swinging or cheatin
Now I know there are rooms i'm not happy with on a purely personal basis but this one is way too left of center for me. I can honestly say that I would be appalled at something like this occurring in my life and i'm not quite sure at what level I'd react but I know it would be not be a happu scenario to say the least. What do others think of this sort of thing?
chat about wives pregnant thru swinging or cheatin
Now I know there are rooms i'm not happy with on a purely personal basis but this one is way too left of center for me. I can honestly say that I would be appalled at something like this occurring in my life and i'm not quite sure at what level I'd react but I know it would be not be a happu scenario to say the least. What do others think of this sort of thing?
Sex God
Quote by wasteman2004
My hubby has used this site, alone, for a long time. I've never shown a lot of interest previously. In truth, Ive still not made up my mind.
Taking it as read that you are the wife of Westman then firstly we;come to forum. The account is 6 years old and costing your old man nothing so how about investing £50 om opening a joint account whereby you could browse the site comment om forum and maybe use the chat rooms in your own right. This would allow you to find out more about how you feel about dipping your toe in, after all this site is run for those just interested as well as those active in swinging.
You should understand that there is a certain amount of suspicion at times with people not being who they say they are, for whatever reasons, why they do this is not for me to guess, only they known themselves.
So m dare for you is....to get your husband to open a joint or even a single account for you and then for you to get on web cam in the chat rooms and start discovering for yourself more about this world called swinging, the people involved and how you feel about it all.
Best of luck
Sex God
I really like reading the CA though I post rarely as I can't be arsed with the almost at times fanatical research and work that goes into it's discussions/debates/arguments/goading. This is certainly not an indictment on the CA more envy I guess at my lack of willing to put the google footwork in before posting and then arguing the toss ad-nauseum over technicalities but a big up for those who do.
In saying this the CA has taken some of the people who posted interesting stuff away from the cafe leaving the cafe wanting and undermanned. The cafe forum needs the mix of all topics for me as i like to spill over from topic to topic without having to leave the room.
I've come to realise new posters will always have to suffer the feelings of having the proverbial shit kicked out of them but there are those that will support and encourage them as well so maybe it's horses for courses in the end./ Those posters who have been banned in recent times are a loss to SH forums as by enlarge their contributions over time have been great and very worthwhile. Although, I can see that at one point on time things were going awry and moods were not in good places the posts became acrimonious childish and petulant and something had to be done. A shame really as I feel the reprisals were too harsh but hey I wasn't privvy to behind the scenes.
Get the cafe back to full strength lets have lively discussions together with silliness sadness and the lame but necessary welcome and happy whatever day threads.
As for moderation? No one says we cant complain or whinge or applaud how it takes place but its done by people who are just that, people. There are rules which must be adhered to and has to be done by interpreting them with their own ideas and opinions, and as such, the way the moderation tales place can appear, especially to those affected at any given point, to be uneven, whether or not it is matters not. They are moderators and have been chosen, by the administration, based on their willingness and integrity to do what is best.
In saying this the CA has taken some of the people who posted interesting stuff away from the cafe leaving the cafe wanting and undermanned. The cafe forum needs the mix of all topics for me as i like to spill over from topic to topic without having to leave the room.
I've come to realise new posters will always have to suffer the feelings of having the proverbial shit kicked out of them but there are those that will support and encourage them as well so maybe it's horses for courses in the end./ Those posters who have been banned in recent times are a loss to SH forums as by enlarge their contributions over time have been great and very worthwhile. Although, I can see that at one point on time things were going awry and moods were not in good places the posts became acrimonious childish and petulant and something had to be done. A shame really as I feel the reprisals were too harsh but hey I wasn't privvy to behind the scenes.
Get the cafe back to full strength lets have lively discussions together with silliness sadness and the lame but necessary welcome and happy whatever day threads.
As for moderation? No one says we cant complain or whinge or applaud how it takes place but its done by people who are just that, people. There are rules which must be adhered to and has to be done by interpreting them with their own ideas and opinions, and as such, the way the moderation tales place can appear, especially to those affected at any given point, to be uneven, whether or not it is matters not. They are moderators and have been chosen, by the administration, based on their willingness and integrity to do what is best.
Sex God
If it was a sex only forum it would be shite. It's nice for people with similar hobby interests to be able to chat about other stuff as well and if i'm with friends in a cafe then we discuss everything and anything bar our 'hobby' unless we're with swingers. It seems tome the forums here reflect that with the added benefit of being able to drop fisting or anal sex type discussions into the mix - Forum should be diverse and inclusive for all subjects and kept in one place.
Sex God
Quote by Dirtygirly
Losts Interesting, knowlegeable and worthwhile post
Do you have any idea how insulting that is? :giggle:
A facilitator???! How rude!
That is as maybe DG. It is not I that makes the rules y'know:small-print:
Indeed not... but I can safely say that I'd never fuck someone who referred to me as a facilitator!
So what your saying is a facilitator might not be helpful? :lol:
Perhaps to you... I'll facilitate my own sexual experiences thanks!
Cor! Yummy DG any chance of pics of you facilitating yourself ;-)
:D
Sex God
Quote by Dirtygirly
Losts Interesting, knowlegeable and worthwhile post
Do you have any idea how insulting that is? :giggle:
A facilitator???! How rude!
That is as maybe DG. It is not I that makes the rules y'know:small-print:
Indeed not... but I can safely say that I'd never fuck someone who referred to me as a facilitator!
So what your saying is a facilitator might not be helpful? :lol:
Sex God
French Basque cake
My daughter is preparing menu's leading up to her mocks in catering and being asked this week to prepare two courses of her own choosing from any country. Well this week she decided on French. So, practicing at home we did a main of 'Confit of Salmon with Hollandaise sauce served with fresh vegetables as a main followed by French Basque cake served with Creme Fraiche.
The Basque cake was simple enough and quite a revelation and something that was new to me. Best I can describe it is that i was reminded of Bakewell tart without the pastry. It was quite lovely which is surprising really as in my mind French Desserts are, bar the odd exception, by and large pretty crap in comparison to British desserts.
My daughter is preparing menu's leading up to her mocks in catering and being asked this week to prepare two courses of her own choosing from any country. Well this week she decided on French. So, practicing at home we did a main of 'Confit of Salmon with Hollandaise sauce served with fresh vegetables as a main followed by French Basque cake served with Creme Fraiche.
The Basque cake was simple enough and quite a revelation and something that was new to me. Best I can describe it is that i was reminded of Bakewell tart without the pastry. It was quite lovely which is surprising really as in my mind French Desserts are, bar the odd exception, by and large pretty crap in comparison to British desserts.
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
These days the models always have an incisive and informed coment on a weighty topic of the day.
Where do they find such intelligent models with great tits?
Yeah i am always impressed with Nikkie's from Essex incisive understanding of the middle east issue. :lol:Yeah Nikki's comment on the Gaza strip was good wasn't it.
"Gazza? The bloke was quite well fit in his day innit. Bit of a minger nar though babe"
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
Losts Interesting, knowlegeable and worthwhile post
Do you have any idea how insulting that is? :giggle:
A facilitator???! How rude!
That is as maybe DG. It is not I that makes the rules y'know:small-print:
Is there a rule about what people can call themselves?
Of course Foxy!
:D
Show me.
Rules of Swinging
In the Lifestyle a few simple guidelines go a long way:
The Golden Rule: "NO, Thanks", means NO! Anyone (yourself included) may say no at any time for any reason, without further explanation. If you're in a situation that makes you uncomfortable Just Say No! Don't jeopardize your joy and satisfaction with the life-style - or that of your partner, by doing anything against your will.
Don't submit to guilt or pressure. Swinging is fun. Keep it that way. Disentangle yourself as quickly as possible with a firm, but gentle response. Be honest, but up-front, in order to avoid misunderstandings.
Always be kind. First and foremost. it's the proper, humane way to behave. Secondly, you may reconsider and want to party later. Keep your options open.
Everyone has been rejected at some time. If you're rejected do NOT take personal offense. Keep the encounter upbeat and light. Who knows? The person who passes up the goodies today, may want to swing with you tomorrow, or may be the key to you meeting another terrific partner!
Know your own likes, dislikes, boundaries and strengths, thoroughly. Encourage and aid others in their own explorations. Keep relationships friendly and pleasant. Always propose, never impose! Swingers feel their way through encounters in more than one way. Open all channels of communication.
Deal with jealousy head-on! It's a normal, human reaction. Learn what triggers jealousy in yourself and in your partner. Then work things out. This may mean modifying certain activities, curtailing others or finding new means of sexual expression. Festering jealousies are destructive. Seek Constructive remedies as soon as possible.
Let your steady partner know he or she is always number one! Take time to stroke their ego. Be generous with a kiss and a smile. Touch bases with each other often, so that you both feel secure. Always arrive together. Honor any and all prior understandings. Then Party, Party Party!! Always leave together.
Use common sense and courtesy. Concentrate on being kind, thoughtful and sensitive and smile. Happiness is contagious!
Respect the guidelines others set, and make your own wishes and desires clear. There should be No Surprises! If you're Bi for example ask if the couple or single you've chosen has a similar interest. Likewise, if you really object to Greek or Bondage, bring it up for discussion. Once you're all comfortable with the format, let the games begin.
Titles. there are required terminologies for people involved in the swinging scene. These are Swinger a couples that have sex with other couples or use a swingle or a facilitator. A Swingle or a facilitator is a single person who is an aid to a swinging couple. It is wise to know this when starting out so as to be able differentiate between couples and singles.
Before, during and after you party, pay close attention to "Body Language." There's more to human interaction than just sexual signals, but that's definitely part of the picture. Enhance your romance by considering the total person. Learn to read the signs and you'll pick up on what makes your partner comfortable, happy, excited, and ultimately satisfied.
DISCRETION IS PARAMOUNT IN THE SWING COMMUNITY! Who you see, what you see and what you and everyone else does, MUST remain private. Never, never discuss details with anyone not intimately involved. Promoting the life-style is wonderful. Publicizing it is unforgivable.
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
Losts Interesting, knowlegeable and worthwhile post
Do you have any idea how insulting that is? :giggle:
A facilitator???! How rude!
That is as maybe DG. It is not I that makes the rules y'know:small-print:
Is there a rule about what people can call themselves?
Of course Foxy!
:D
Sex God
Quote by browning
Some people protest in this way, some by not buying/wearing poppies.
It's a choice issue and thankfully in the UK, there is the right of freedom of expression and peaceful demonstration.
Depends who you are, and what your protesting about.
I think its great that the leaders of the Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Buddhist and Christian all placed wreaths, it shows the unanimity of feeling and common understanding that is spread throughout most of our British community :thumbup:
Our little town had a marvelous town center parade(My kids all dressed in their combat 95's looking proud as punch)I guess about 300 all told from all the services Past and present, it was quite moving.
However, at the service part just prior to the march past a gentleman dressed in suit and tie, all very smart and respectable like, got up to the Minster at the microphone and asked if he might have a few words. The vicar was surprised but willing let the guy speak. What happened next was this guy let out a tirade of words saying how disgusting it and we all were for being there and that it was a disgrace to humanity. The microphone was turned off and he was ushered away. The guy was a prominent member of a local C of E church.
As a proportion of the people there, He was possibly a greater percentage of the people present here than the 35 protesting in Hyde park.
Sex God
Personally dont mind it really. Apart from the odd one or two, in my view, most of the models are attractive and pleasing to look at.I guess there is the point of all erotic art or pornography or glamour photography or or or...etc that the ladies are being used objectively. Maybe that's something that's unconsciously inherent in most of us to a greater or lesser degree
Sex God
Ahh now then if its a third 'single' person invited to play with a swinging couple then some would say that they are a 'swingle' as being single they aint swingers although they are invited into a swinging scenario. I prefer to call them facilitators. This is because they are facilitating the swinging couple to swing. Of course this is not a definitive answer, well,OK it probably is.
Sex God
have lost the desire to be a forumite anymore
Once a Mite always a Mite. Sorry Bouncy its the way things are I'm afraid. I must admit to thinking people should be well less childish in forums though
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Once a Mite always a Mite. Sorry Bouncy its the way things are I'm afraid. I must admit to thinking people should be well less childish in forums though
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