I don't think many people really condone violence. what I would like to know or put to the discussion is. If people's peaceful means of demonstrating go unheeded by government, just brushed aside and ignored, changing nothing. How then after all peaceful protests have failed?
The implementation of the poll tax caused quite a stir when it was brought in but nothing was really done until this sort of thing happened
Did this happen because it had an effect on people from all walks of life and in all sorts of occupations? I think it's worth considering.
Because students are only one section of society then is it possible that a lot of other sections of society are thinking "Who gives a flying f*ck" it doesn't make a difference to my life at this point in time. It hasn't the mass appeal and effect of things such as the poll tax had.
As for any conspiracy I don't think that's the case although maybe the powers that be rubbed their hands together and gurgled in glee at the press opportunity that presented itself and jumped full on the bandwagon.
I don't condone violence although as an end resort... I can see the point.
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Please could admin look into why, on our chat room username, avatar Its a picture from someone else's gallery not even ours 
And while they check it out would it be possible to remove it altogether as we'd rather not have a pic on it although we dont want all our gallery pics private folders.
And while they check it out would it be possible to remove it altogether as we'd rather not have a pic on it although we dont want all our gallery pics private folders. Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
i would vote in a less judgemental pole.
How about.....0 to 5 wannabe forced into it by partner
5 to 10 wants to do it more,but afraid partner might object
10 to 15 cant get a babysitter
20 to 25 no hang ups
25 to 30 knows how to have fun.
Its all a matter of perspective
:lol2: At Judgemental I wuvs you Kaz that did make me chortle
Any ways perspective is never quite as good as real glass now is it :D
Cake and eat it? And why not eh Sex God
Those who pay should have extra stuff compared to those who don't. If there was no money coming into the site then everyone would lose out so the free members should be glad that there are those that pay to support the site. If your concerned and disappointed then fork out the few quid to get the bigger vids and help support the site to boot.
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Oh god you are so not alone. J and I both really like the build up to a meet and then the after meet feelings and experiences. However the few hours leading up to the actual meet can be so fraught as J gets as nervous as can be. Like you Mike, I end up thinking "Is it worth it and an I doing or saying anything that she could think I'm pressurising her into doing this". In the back of my mind I know i'm not though and so does she.
There's a lot of nervous energy and pressure on J in the hours before the meet from picking what she's going to wear, both outer and under clothes, if she'e going to fancy the people we're meeting on the night, even though we've usually met them before hand, and whether she's going to measure up to their, and I guess my, expectations. Mix this with worrying about the kids and the child minder. add all this to the fact that she's as horny as hell puts massive tensions in the air.
Of course during this frought time I am trying to be as supportive as I can be I can often feel as though i'm almost coercing her when both she and I know i'm not. It's a stressful time and I can feel i'm treading on eggshells right up until we get into company. At that point everything usually relaxes and things by and large go swingingly'
I'm sure that if Nikki is anything like J then she would not be doing anything she didn't want to be doing and you'd be made to know if she thought you were pressurising her into doing she wasn't prepared to. swinging for a lot of us is fraught with nervous energy and excitement, let's face it nothing about swinging is like any other leisure time activity is it. Sounds like you both talk about it and thats a major plus in knowing how the other feels and belive me your not alone in how you feel. I'm damn certain that I'd do nothing to risk my relatiionship with my partner, I love her so much, and you probably feel the same towards Nikki. Things do get easier and you both become more confident but the nerves stress and excitement never fully go away. I think if they did then it would be time for us to hang up the condoms and move on to other things.
There's a lot of nervous energy and pressure on J in the hours before the meet from picking what she's going to wear, both outer and under clothes, if she'e going to fancy the people we're meeting on the night, even though we've usually met them before hand, and whether she's going to measure up to their, and I guess my, expectations. Mix this with worrying about the kids and the child minder. add all this to the fact that she's as horny as hell puts massive tensions in the air.
Of course during this frought time I am trying to be as supportive as I can be I can often feel as though i'm almost coercing her when both she and I know i'm not. It's a stressful time and I can feel i'm treading on eggshells right up until we get into company. At that point everything usually relaxes and things by and large go swingingly'
I'm sure that if Nikki is anything like J then she would not be doing anything she didn't want to be doing and you'd be made to know if she thought you were pressurising her into doing she wasn't prepared to. swinging for a lot of us is fraught with nervous energy and excitement, let's face it nothing about swinging is like any other leisure time activity is it. Sounds like you both talk about it and thats a major plus in knowing how the other feels and belive me your not alone in how you feel. I'm damn certain that I'd do nothing to risk my relatiionship with my partner, I love her so much, and you probably feel the same towards Nikki. Things do get easier and you both become more confident but the nerves stress and excitement never fully go away. I think if they did then it would be time for us to hang up the condoms and move on to other things.
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a lot of lesbian porn is designed for the male viewer so panders to those tastes. I'm not suggesting that there are no lesbians that like rough stuff, in fact I've watched a small number with a mate. What i witnessed is these lesbian movies were more story based far more talking and laughing during the sex scenes.
However what I did notice in the small amount I watched was there was maybe less gynecological camera work, but not massively less. no spitting and no bj'ing and/or gagging on a strap-on or a dildo. There are probably loads more differences but i noticed these specifically as spitting i find gross and bj'ing dildos sort of pointless I would of thought to lesbians, unless there are issues specific to some portions of some with gender differences (I don't mean that to sound so euurrgghh but don't know how else to suggest saying what I want to) in some cases I guess.
I've no doubt there are exceptions though, as there are in most things.
However what I did notice in the small amount I watched was there was maybe less gynecological camera work, but not massively less. no spitting and no bj'ing and/or gagging on a strap-on or a dildo. There are probably loads more differences but i noticed these specifically as spitting i find gross and bj'ing dildos sort of pointless I would of thought to lesbians, unless there are issues specific to some portions of some with gender differences (I don't mean that to sound so euurrgghh but don't know how else to suggest saying what I want to) in some cases I guess.
I've no doubt there are exceptions though, as there are in most things.
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I love fireworks. I love displays and I love having them in my garden and letting them off for myself and my family and friends. Long live my right to buy them and use them responsibly. Hurrah for whizz, bang, zoom and phut say I.
Oh and a bonfire is always a great site to behold.
Oh and a bonfire is always a great site to behold.
Sex God
I wish right now too be walking,collar turned, along a wet sandy beach in platinum bright moonlight. A strong sea breeze blowing in my face, salt in the air tangy on my lips. The incessant hypnotic roar and rush of the surf breaking as it clambers and claws towards me, towards it's own demise. I want t be alone really alone i want not to be happy nor do I want to be sad. My want is to be self absorbed to be thoughtful without distraction other than the beauty around me, to feel cold but not disconcertingly so. To be cerebral without confusion or distraction, without the miasma of the world crowding in and seducing me. Freedom to live in my imagination to lift my chin to the sky spread my arms and fly into the night soaring on the trade winds and to unshackle myself from the earth and feel freedom.
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Quote by Sarah
Buy 1 get 2 tubes free in a very well known supermarket at the moment!!!
That'd be 270 thingies of fun then I guess Sarah, and maybe that well known supermarket could open a few tubes in the aisles to make my shopping experience so much more 'fun' as I get to the painful end of the checkout
Sex God
Where's the 'Whole lot of fun' when I open a tube of Pringles I love the little curvy bastards, especially the cream cheese and chive ones with a dip of the same flavour oh yeah! Lovely stuff, although, I have yet to find the fun, and that pisses me off big time. Damn advertisement, damn lies. Even my kids shout "Oh no"! when the advert comes on because they know I'll go off one.
Bloody grrrr!
I love the little curvy bastards, especially the cream cheese and chive ones with a dip of the same flavour oh yeah! Lovely stuff, although, I have yet to find the fun, and that pisses me off big time. Damn advertisement, damn lies. Even my kids shout "Oh no"! when the advert comes on because they know I'll go off one. Bloody grrrr!
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I discovered I could squirt a couple of years ago with someone I was dating. I thought it was a one off but I've found lately I can squirt almost every time I have sex! It's getting to the point that I'm craving a 'normal' orgasm which sounds very weird but true. It's gotten to the stage with my current partner that despite using towels on the bed, we've had to change the sheets and even turn the mattress over at 2am before now.
Not bad for an old bird eh?
Waheyyyyy! Hiya Sassy, Where have you been? You've been missed.
Not bad for an old bird eh?
Waheyyyyy! Hiya Sassy, Where have you been? You've been missed.
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Topic is influenced bu another but, I think, deserves its own space.
The words "people taking responsible for their own decisions" is a well used coined phrase to most. Is that entirely true? Or does the environment they are in have a part to play? I think it most certainly does and I also believe that I cab act or do things, and yes even think things, beauase they are the way others say they are and in itself because I can find good enough arguement with it then that becomes acceptable to me.
For instance. I am a meat eater I enjoy meat. I do however when i think deep and hard enough about it feel that its fundamentally and morally wrong to slaughter animals for food in these days. In my life I can survive and thrive on non meat products easily enough. There is no need for me to be an omnivore. So what do I do about it? Nothing is my answer. I'm quite happy compromising my real feeling for the sake of my own enjoyment. Add this to the fact that its acceptable and approved of to most in society today means I can bury my head, not think about it and go about eating it because others say its OK to do so and i don't question it because it must be OK.
To me that makes me a product of the environment and because its acceptable then it's fine and dandy can ignore what I feel about it deep down because others sau its OK then i'll go with them and make do. am I wrong? Or am not taking responsibility for what deep down I feel I should d?
Bit of a waffle i know I just hope people can see the dilemma through it.
The words "people taking responsible for their own decisions" is a well used coined phrase to most. Is that entirely true? Or does the environment they are in have a part to play? I think it most certainly does and I also believe that I cab act or do things, and yes even think things, beauase they are the way others say they are and in itself because I can find good enough arguement with it then that becomes acceptable to me.
For instance. I am a meat eater I enjoy meat. I do however when i think deep and hard enough about it feel that its fundamentally and morally wrong to slaughter animals for food in these days. In my life I can survive and thrive on non meat products easily enough. There is no need for me to be an omnivore. So what do I do about it? Nothing is my answer. I'm quite happy compromising my real feeling for the sake of my own enjoyment. Add this to the fact that its acceptable and approved of to most in society today means I can bury my head, not think about it and go about eating it because others say its OK to do so and i don't question it because it must be OK.
To me that makes me a product of the environment and because its acceptable then it's fine and dandy can ignore what I feel about it deep down because others sau its OK then i'll go with them and make do. am I wrong? Or am not taking responsibility for what deep down I feel I should d?
Bit of a waffle i know I just hope people can see the dilemma through it.
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Quote by Dave__Notts
It is down to individuals and taking responsibility for their own lives.
It is so much easier to blame others than take responsibility for your own decisions. But thats the way we seem to be moving. Thankfully not everyone but enough for it to seem that lots are like that. Their weakness feeds the retailers who do what retailers do.....retail.
I plan and keep within my budget. When I buy is dependant on many factors but when they put it in the stores is not one of them. That is just a convenience to me.
Dave_Notts
Well all i can say Dave is by and large your in the f*cking minority. Come off it your telling me that no marketing and advertising effects the way you spend? I apologise for being cynical but that's hard to believe. Your telling me that smelling fresh bread in supermarkets has no subliminal effects or that a favourite racing driver advertises a car or car product cant influence you in how you make a purchase or pictures in magazines for holidays or the endless things it could be. Surely we are all victims of consumerism to a lesser or greater degree.
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It's a f*cking good job in a capitalist society that the populace is subject to the persuasions of commerce or else capitalism would be bolloxed and it most certainly isn't, its thriving. If a person has time to analyse everything they purchase or even extol the these things to others then they must live in some sort of million hour day.
Of course its all our own fault that we are subject to these things but hang on a minute. I can be persuaded by a quicker cleverer mind who can argue something better than me so I capitulate and end up agreeing with them but thats not to say they are right just that they are clever and quicker than me. So it is with advertising and business, they pick weaknesses and exploit them.
Who is at fault if one person is more clever or more persuasive than another and sells them something that maybe not needed but have been convinced they do? The quicker witted one for using their skill to advantage or the gullible one for having it happen to them eh? How do you classify the gullible one, in the wrong for not being as clever as the clever one? That smells of nasty to me.
Sometimes the self righteous people of the world should just so thank their lucky stars as its all just so easy and perfect for them. However, in my world we live with our faults and our foibles for good or bad but at least its not so wholesome a sanctimonious not to have come straight out of a bottle of Dettol as to be so clinical that if all of us were that way, Aldous Huxley and a myriad of other people, could not of written the books they did because we'd already be there living in them!
