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Quote by flower411
I hate being a mug but realise I've not got much choice with that much weight of commerce against me unless I want to be a miserable Billy no mates. But hey to those sanctimonious self controlled free thinking un-persuadable people out there. At least I help them feel better about themselves for their own powers of restraint and forebearance at this jolly time of year we call Christmas.

:thumbup: ...Yep thanks for that ...:thumbup:#
Just glad I could help biggrin
OK to business plans and being consumer led, which is bollox really its more a case of the 'consumer being led' business plan. Having the stuff in the shops so early just panics a lot of people into buying so much more than maybe they want. Why do I know this? Because i'm one of those who starts early when the stuff comes into the market place thinking "I'll get it all sorted before the Christmas rush"
Good idea in principle but like most people, or at least most I know, I end up just getting carried along with it all and spending right up to the last minute then regretting it later when the bills come in. And before any smart arse says "That's you being weak" I fu*king know that! But i'm in good company with the majority of households around the country who are normal and bow down to peer pressure and not some of the gifted people who are never influenced by marketing and can brush off the hype without a second thought.
It's a bastard that consumerism and the credit debt that a lot of us end up in is what drives the economy just to let that debt bite us in the arse and get told that we all owe to much on credit and how silly we all are and then when we stop spending then the economy f*cks up. Rock and a hard place come to mind. and the cost is...Miserable/painful f*cking January and February.
As for products being available at Christmas. Its not as if things are not available throughout the year anyway as regards gifts, booze and food, which to my small brain is the average households main cost, it's the peropherals such as cards, lights decorations (although freely available on line 52weeks a year) and trees that are generally seasonal.
Theres a lot of us out there think like 777, for right or wrong, that Christmas trading starting so early is bollox it's talked about on all the mass media its a big talking point and bone of contention with millions of people around the world who like me are easily led by nefarious evil doings of the business market forces. I hate being a mug but realise I've not got much choice with that much weight of commerce against me unless I want to be a miserable Billy no mates. But hey to those sanctimonious self controlled free thinking un-persuadable people out there. At least I help them feel better about themselves for their own powers of restraint and forebearance at this jolly time of year we call Christmas.
F*ck market forces (won't happen in my lifetime unless the balloon goes up) December should be the month where Christmas should appear in the shops and on the streets and middle of January should be when its all done and dusted, including New years celebrating(unless, before anyone points out that other cultures religions etc, Are different)
I'm damned sure if there was a national poll that the government took the information from and implemented then Christmas would indeed be shorter. Won't happen because while we are all held by the balls credit wise we are a malleable docile flock keeping the capitalist dream(nightmare) alive.
Quote by foxylady2209
Maybe the Church should offer a dish of sweets and have the kids go in fancy-dress - it would be more fun than the usual service. biggrin
At least Halloween is something to look forward to as the nights draw in.

rotflmao
Foxy!! You could of just made the whole Catholic church tremble in fear at your suggestion :lol2:
Quote by Dave__Notts
American bollocks.

Originates from Britain...........so it is British bolocks then dunno
Dave_NottsSome Americans do originate from Britain yes Dave although many come from other areas of the globe too biggrin
Our town Christmas street lights, though not lit up yet, have been up for over a month now. Crazy as they were only taken down at the end of March! works out at only six months break. So crazy whoever decided this as it's not as though they're are that many or special in anyway, in fact they are, in comparison to most comparable towns, a locally talked about let down
Quote by duncanlondon
Ho hum up your bum.
There's only one way to deal with this problem.
Start a brand new swinging site that is free and does everything the 'old site' used to do?

Duncan you should know that this goes in the Anal section of the forums biggrin
And no there's more ways to deal with this problem, which is what can someone remind me?
Start a new Swinging site ARE YOU SERIOUS! lol
Quote by Freckledbird
The introduce yourself forum. On page one, 39 posts and think its 22 replies to those posts. The 22 replies are not spread between the threads they are more grouped on only 5-7 threads. I checked a few threads with no replys and the thread starter has a post count of just 1 or 2. So get rid of the non working Introduce yourself forum. Maybe we get less members filtering through as there first experience is being ignored. The introduce yourself forum maybe just two clicks of a mouse away but its still a whole other uninhabited world sad Scrap the crap biggrin

I agree, get rid of it.
That's 4 of us agree then, hoof it out!
And we ought to hoof another one out to you know 25% government cut backs and all that
F*cking zooooooooooooooo..............
There it goes Tweekle did you see it Tweekle TWEEKLE! Oh for gods sake did yo
u see it?
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Are cows that good:shock:

An ex of mine was biggrin
Generally I can get very very close to cumming from a BJ but that last few moments really do need to be a little more frantic. One idea for a good energetic BJ is too slip a catchy heavy metal tune on the stereo for the last few minutes. Also maybe a sweet thing to do for your lady after she's made you a mug of coffee before leaving to go home is to hand her a small gift of a nicely wrapped tube of Ralgex for her morning after neck ache. She's sure to be grateful and remember her night all the more for it :D
Quote by essex34m
reminiscing.

I so remember doing this biggrin
Quote by tweeky

Tweeky - teas are in the cafe round the corner! rolleyes lol
Will

Well now its gone twelve I'll have a Mai tai, cheers smile
How obvious is it that with this statement its not Mrs Tweekle posting :lol2;
Will, please could I have a large Bourbon and would you mind if I turned on some tunes to soothe me through the small hours, Maybe some and
OK maybe if you don't mind could you leave the bottle
Quote by tweeky
Interestingly I seem to have been more active during the lat year to 18 months by far. It took me 4 years to do 1000 posts and I did the other 1300 odd in the last year or so confused??: Partly because when the forum was sooooo busy back then it was impossible for me to do the posting I wanted too. Now its quieter I can reply to every one of five posts lol

rotflmao:laughabove::rotflmao::laughabove::rotflmao::laughabove::rotflmao: I for one love that you post more too :lol::laughabove:
lol I aint been to bed yet 777 4 hours a night at most and last night none - tonight might be manic posting night - Do you believe in Pixies and elves ? biggrin
Thing is if i were that good and someone wanted to pay me that then I'd be a twat to think its wrong Of course it is wrong for him but for me nahhh that'd be bang on biggrin
Thats not called for - you ask to keep it out of forum then bloody well have a dig yourself -
Quote by tweeky
Yes a very akward one Lost. Haven't been there and got that T-shirt for a very long time so now its all a distant memory. Errm it was porn the last time and it was suggested that if we stopped watching it then Mrs Tweeky would take over the entertainment :grin:
At the current moment in time what seems to happen is this. We meet people in social situations. They mail us and say want to meet up again and get busy :grin: We say yes please. They say ok where and when. We say how about here at this time. They vanish never to be seen again. I dont get it its a very nice hotel too lol Seem to have that effect on people dunno

Tweekle, nice you is one thing but come on meeting 10:30 pm Friday night at Mrs Miggins boarding house and dormitory on stapleton road is too others a bit too much of an adventure :lol:
OK so you've talked/met and thought hmmm cool we're all agreed a shags on the cards. How do you move on from the point of finishing a meal or a drink or small talking or whatever to the actual doing the duuuurty? Do you you have the balls to say something like " OK nice meal now lets wanna f*ck"? Or do you pop on a porn video and hope someone gets the idea it's time to 'up it a notch' What do you do?
We joined around the same time as Tweekle and find ourslves tending to agree with all he has said I also happen to think that dividing the forums, though a good idea in principle, has diluted the forum and the forum users. Where the forum was integrated there was a greater diversity of topics and posters who now tend to stay either to the cafe or to the current affairs whereas under the same heading posters would venture into the topics and join in they now stay away from because they are, you could say 'in a different room'. As for the just for fun and welcome rooms ...... :giveup:
SH is still probably the best site for swingers on the net though it's ease of use, for me at least, is not so good as it was but then I'm pretty sh*te at using facebook or any of the other networking sites. In the end Lost like chatting and swinging and for us a simple(very) chat room a lively integrated forum and a fathomable search/meet today facility.
Good luck Wally you have to go with how you feel and we hope that whet ever you decide to do its the right choice for you
Quote by wiggle1
people luv cumming to wiggle towers which is fine by me,im just not into all the sheet washing,and im sure betty my 75y old neighbour must think i s... the bed often as sheets are always on the line.i also like to meet people at there places that adds a bit of excitment to my meets being in a strange place

Wigggle world is already a strange place biggrin Sort of happy and smiley place with rainbows and fluffy white clouds smile
Though i do reside in the "Cant stand soaps" camp I am however only one of five in our family and suffer them on a relatively regular basis. so mt secret fancies are or rather is... A Mff threesome with Janine from Stenders and Tracy Barlow from corrie OMG :lickface:sillyhwoar:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Hopefully there would be a big fookin explosion, wipe them all out and then we can watch something decent

Yup Meaty lol I believe it happened in Emmerdale once... but to no avail sadly sad
Do you or, would you given the choice and opportunity obviously, prefer to swing at home or away from home.
Lost like playing away from home, which is good as playing at home is impossible at the moment, although if it was possible we would like to bring swingers home to play as it would just be so much easier. In saying that there is one couple we really love going to see as it's just such a nice time hanging out with them at their place that we'd just hope that in the future if it was possible we could invite them here and the dynamic would remain the same
Wonder if tweeky knows he flounced off not knowing his skirt was tucked into his knickerssmile
Please please please can the avatars be taken off the in chat room user name lists the picture being used last night wasn't even ours and this morning it has changed to one from our private gallery fgs!! - this surely is a bug that has to be sorted asap