I do not think that there is a swinging gene as such, and I suppose it also depends on the definition of "swinging" and how far people want to go and what they want to do.
However, if you look at chimps, apes etc. they do not have monogomous relationships so maybe it could be argued that the monogomous state is something that society/religion has decreed. There are those though that would argue that we have developed monogomous relationships because humans are able to sustain them.
I think that there is a natural curiosity look at other people and imagining having sex with them and it is then a short step to actually living out the fantasy.
McC
Firstly, apologies for the mongrel Franglais last night - it was a bit late though. I have lived and worked there so yes, I should (and normally do) know better.
Secondly to Colts - when do we start the first tour?
McC
Vous avez un problem avec les person quie parle la Francais ici?
WTF?????
Do we really need this??
McC
When you mention this - yes I have to agree with you ES. I do not think it is being done for any dubious reasons however apart from the fact that some folk have no immagination.
As the old saying goes however, copying one person's work is plagiarism but copying the work of two people is research!
McC
Mr and Mrs Shikukai;
I have looked up Club Pleasure on the usual Dutch sites and had a quick look in the phone book as well but sorry to report that I can find no listings for such a club.
Is the name correct?
McC
Try looking on the Are you a Newbie Looking for Hhelp thread which has been given a sticky at the top of the cafe page.
McC
I know I am going to open a debate up here, BUT I have to answer Aspals.
Why do you complain about Enid Blyton books? They may or may not have been standards in childrens literature but they are now historical - the main arguement against them is that they reflected middle class life in Britain in the 1950s/1960s and the same can be said even for JK Rowling as all her characters are middle Blyton wrote her books (which are all about Britain and in particular England) we did not have a multi racial community so she was representing what was then a British point of view.
Little Black Sambo as a kids' storey is a reflection of British life in India but the book (as far as I can remember) never mentions a white kid and as such is a non racial storey about an Indian boy and a tiger.
Now I do see that the book showed a somewhat paternalistic view and I am of course sorry if anyone has suffered from remarks emanating from ignorant people reading the book and making comments.
However, as people who are British (no matter which football/cricket/rugby team me may support) we should recognise and accept what is part of our history (sorry personstory)
because by trying to hide or ban or rewrite these things I believe we are gong down a dangerous road.
If people - no matter who they are or where they are from - want to be British (or indeed Dutch/French or any other european nationality) then should they not accept that country's values?
We all live in the 21st century and those people that have respecting others views are of course right. The more the do-gooding liberals (note with a small "l") try and enforce change before allowing to happen naturally the more problems we will have. Refer to my earlier post about the NF councillor.
McC
People should also consider the implications of "enforcing" political correctness.
When I lived in London, the local school decided to change Christmas one year - no Christmas tree, Christmas carols, overtly Christian decorations etc. - and change it to something like a Festival of Lights as the traditional ceremony might offend some people. There was a lot of local opposition but it went ahead anyway.
Next local elections in May guess what happened?
The sitting councillor lost his seat and a National Front candidate was duly elected!!!!!
Nobody really wanted or expected this but if the professional education/council do-gooders had left well alone then I doubt the NF man would have had any publicity let alone have been elected which meant that his very wrong views suddenly were given credence.
McC
Well, I consider myself Scottish but I do not think I am a Celt - my family come from Orkney and the East of Scotland so my ancestors were resposible for pushing the Celts out!
This is not to say I do not like the Celtic traditions - music etc. - but over the generations these have become synonymous with Scotland/Ireland, probably because they are good antway! If you listen to Norwegian traditional music, you can hear the same melodies as in Celtic music and indeed the same tunes in Scotland/Ireland are known by different names. The same way that American traditional music/dance (e.g. bluegrass) has links to the old country it is hardly surprising that we all share a common cultural heritage.
As for where the name Scotland comes from, I have heared the Irish/Scottis arguement before and it is an accepted theory but do not forget that the name Alba was also used! You can look at different books/sites and come up with different theories all of which are equally valid.
And yes of course the northern region in Spain also has claims to be Celtic.
Confusing or what?
McC
I will try and answer this!
Just because you think or indeed are Scottish, Irish Welsh etc. does NOT mean that you are a Celt. The Celts were a race of people that were, over the centuries, pushed further and further out of their lands by invading Romans, Vikings, Danes, Angles, Saxons and anyone else you can think of until they were based on the margins of the countries they lived in. I consider myself Scottish certainly, but not specifically a Celt.
The Celtic language is recognised as being split into two distinct groups - Brythonic and (excuse spelling) Gadeilic. The Brythonic Celitic language is the language of the the French Breton people and is almost identical to the Welsh language (my sister in law is Breton French BTW). The Gadeilic language is the Gaellic of Scotland and Ireland and is virtually identical apart from the pronounciation etc. The Manx language also falls into this category.
The Cornish language whiich has almost died out falls into the Breton/Welsh group.
So who are the rest of us? Most of the East coast of Scotland can trace its roots to those nasty folk like the Vikings, Danes etc. that pushed the Celts over to the Western highlands and Islands. In the central belt and West of Scotland, many folk are descened from Irish immigrants. The Orkneys and Shetlands are of course more Norwegian than Scottish and were given to to Scotland as the dowry for Queen Margeret (I think) hundreds of years ago.
Lecture over!
McC