Just to get my golden rule out of the way first, I'm not looking to meet up with anyone who's playing away without consent.

I'm straight, single, somewhat dom and mainly into one-on-one or 3s. (Or ffffffffffm, but I'm realistic enough not to make it a requirement )

I don't want to play with anyone who I don't trust and consider a friend, so don't be offended if I neglect to bend you over the barstool in the pub two minutes after I meet you. Besides, I have barstools at home

I am neither looking for a 'relationship' nor am I ruling it out, but one-nighters are definitely out.

I want to have an intelligent conversation with you, have a laugh with you, then shag you senseless, in that order.

I quit my job on the London Underground and moved to the outskirts of Lincoln. I am now a "gentleman of leisure" - means I can go where I like when I like and do what I like with whom I like!

UPDATE 2023: Since Covid and lockdown and everyone's social life being screwed for ages, I needed a hobby and took up oil painting. Turns out I have a minor talent which I never knew about. I am quite impressionistic and mostly paint landscapes, but I wouldn't mind having a go at some erotic art if anyone fancies modelling for me.