Not to use the title too broadly…’education’ here relates to swing lifestyle. Even today as my wife and I approach 20 years marriage anniversary, and continue to engage in our own, often daring sexual engagements with others (more so…my wife) we do NOT consider ourselves a ‘swing couple.’ However, a good number of years ago…in my mid-20’s…I received an indirect education with swing lifestyle through an older, married fiend. As I reflect, I see the relevance of that education to my marriage and sexual encounters my wife and I conduct that appear gravitating to a more open, swing-like ‘fuck-your-friend’s wife’ appeal…! Daniel was a senior officer at an associate firm…now retired BTW. When he and I ‘experienced’ this retell, he was in his early 50’s…wife quite young though…I’d say about 35. She was his ‘trophy’…quite attractive Italian lady…in turn Daniel was her ‘meal-ticket’ to anything and everything she desired. BUT, it came to her at cost…in fact many physical, sexual costs!! To be clear, Daniel was/is bi-sexual…he played both courts…very judiciously and very much “in-the-closet”…societal issues a bit more prudish a few years back. Gabrielle (Gabby) was aware…and played to her piper whatever his desires of her. Their friends…also some of my older friends…were into sexual engagements usually kept within their circle…guess we’d all agree…swing engaged. However, there was a darker side to Daniel…one in which he believed his wife was required to serve whoever…and in whatever manner he chose to ‘offer’ her to his friends…colleagues…and even some clients! That became part of my ‘early sex education’… It most likely set my interest level with older women…that to this day remains a formidable, sexual enthusiasm. Remember, Gabby was about 10 years my senior. I still relish the opportunity to fuck a friend’s or colleague’s wife…with OR without his approval…!! Of course, at 48...I now enjoy some variety…and can afford to reach out to younger ladies at proper opportunities… Back then, I wasn’t “refusing” a good offer…!! Daniel, one evening, wanted his wife occupied. He arranged to have 3 of his colleagues group bang her while Daniel pursued another ‘interest.’ There had been a slight glitch in timing. Each of the gents was present with their wife…and could only engage mid-evening. I was to be his ‘late night’ surrogate…coordinating to meet his wife where the associates were group fucking her…and basically continue the party. Daniel gave me ‘signature rights’ to whatever cost for the evening if I chose to take Gabby out before OR after our link-up. As it turned out…it was a “cheap date”…never a need to entertain Gabby beyond the hotel suite where Dan’s colleagues had engaged her earlier in the evening… Gabby was sloshed. Not only inebriated, but ‘sloshed’ sexually…;) I didn’t know Dan’s associates…however I learned what swing sex meant to married men when taken to the extreme… Gabby was ‘attached’ to the bed when I arrived…secured by expensive toweling. Her breasts still heaving…her body clearly used by the men… While only the husbands were in the room when I arrived, I suspected one or two of the wives had participated…there was more than one discarded panty/thong/bra ensemble. I didn’t inquire…I was focused on Gabby’s beautiful, sensual and accepting figure. Not even ready to engage her, my cock was growing hard…I needed to ‘calm’ myself…pace and prolong my own satisfaction the next few hours with her. Dan’s friends told me Gabby “approved” her bondage…I wasn’t so sure, but decided early on to keep her restrained…she wasn’t objecting or fighting her tie-down… I had a bigger problem…a personal one. Her cunny was so filled with the men’s jizz…No way I would perform cunnilingus on her. Back then, I wasn’t overly thrilled with “2nd’s” “3rd’s”…whatever. Even today, If I play my lady for cunnilingus, I make sure I’m first up!! Screwing Gabby…a whole different thing…pre-lubed…stretched…and at that time of evening she had little awareness of whoever was going to fuck her next… I massaged and stroked her vaginal area…finger probing her entry and canal…God, was she drenched…! No one used a condom…everyone stuffed their cream into her cunt…and likely two rounds of jizz at that… I decided to release her hands and legs…positioned her tummy down…with large, over-size pillow under her torso, elevating her derriere. Normally, I’d want her in a doggy position…but she wasn’t able under her own power…or will. I then pushed my cock into her cunny. Good for me…(as I do today)…from that angle of entry, I’m able to prolong length of time screwing. PLUS, there solo, I didn’t have to deal with the usual hoot calls from other guys to fuck her hard and fast. I was able to play Gabby’s vagina at will…slowly pumping…exiting…entry…at leisure. Good for me…Gabby was reacting with ‘automated passion.’ Her body reacted instinctively to my penetration. Wasn’t sure at the time…whether she had an orgasm OR more…I was simply interested in banging her as long as possible before I deposited my cream… Once finished fucking her, I tuned her over…began to work her breasts. I could tell…the women earlier had already pleasured themselves with Gabby’s titties. Men usually didn’t (NOW, a different story) manipulate or aggressively work breasts. Over the years, I’ve found many women take out their frustrations on another woman’s tits…especially if their object is attractive and may be in a relationship with their husband or male lover. I know my wife clearly satisfies herself on a girl’s tits…feeling, kneading, sucking, biting, pulling…sometimes to the extreme… Clearly, Gabby had been used in that manner earlier in the evening. I wanted my share of her breasts… I sucked Gabby’s tits…while biting on one…finger-kneading the other. It affected Gabby…she moaned and struggled. My presence over her body too controlling…I had leverage…and wasn’t yielding. I was with Gabby from about 10:30 to nearly 1:30 am…when Daniel returned to the suite. To my surprise, Dan had his ‘date’ with him… As he observed his wife on the sofa chair…where I had positioned and spread her legs for some pussy “activity”…he was excited his wife still oblivious to all around her. He thanked me for my ‘contribution’…asked if I enjoyed her. Clearly in the affirmative, I hadn’t planned this to be a ‘single date.’ I asked Dan to invite me again…next time…before the other men…;);) We shared a laugh…he agreed to invite me at a future ‘date.’ Then Dan invited his friend to gaze at his wife. Used as she was by that time, Dan offered his friend…”take her…fuck her…let her be your partner tonight…you deserve her…you earned her...! I’ll watch as you play with my wife…she won’t refuse you…seems she hasn’t refused anyone tonight…!” Both men laughed…as I respectfully smiled. Daniel was right…though slightly warped in observation. Gabby never had an opportunity to “refuse anybody…” She was so partied earlier that evening, there could have been six guys and six wives working her…she wouldn’t be aware…!! I had my first lesson and education in what it means to enjoy a “swing lifestyle.” I’m sure variations abound…but to this day, that experience frames my sexual enthusiasm to play and group fuck ‘mature’ ladies. Of course, as I remarked earlier in this posting, I’m NOW just as much at ease playing and group fucking a younger wife…as the opportunity arises. It’s also given me the understanding to appreciate, or at minimum understand, why and how my wife enjoys being the fuck object of several men on a scheduled tryst OR even unplanned party...!