Looking for our local room in the chat today (Which is a pain the arse now, the drop down room window from the top of the screen was far better, Though credit where it's due the actual chat bit of the screen is OK)and I came across this room:-
chat about wives pregnant thru swinging or cheatin
Now I know there are rooms i'm not happy with on a purely personal basis but this one is way too left of center for me. I can honestly say that I would be appalled at something like this occurring in my life and i'm not quite sure at what level I'd react but I know it would be not be a happu scenario to say the least. What do others think of this sort of thing?
There was a similar thread in the distant past. It had my eyes opening very wide on some of the carry-ons that occur within the scene.
One of the posts was about a couple who deliberately went to get pregnant so trawled the bareback adverts looking for their sperm donor. That was quite shocking for me.......I think it then led to a thread about CSA payments if this happened to you.
Dave_Notts
oooo interesting
well it has not happened to us or anyone we know but it is something we have kinda talked about as hubby is snipped so i don't take the pill but we do play safe with anyone we play with but as we all know there is a very small percentage of fail rate with condoms so we did discuss what we would do if this situation ever arose
we decided that if there was a split i would get the morning after pill if there was a failure we didn't know about till too late then i would have to have a termination as how would we explain a baby away when our family know hubby is snipped plus our kids are adults now so have absolutly no desire to have a baby in our lives again plus i really we thought it would make for a very complicated situation with the guy that fathered it and can't be doing with complications so as difficult i feel a termination would be it would also be the simplist solution
I think you probably think along the same lines as we do Bouncy. I'm almost sure as the guy in our relationship I'd find it incredibly difficult to accommodate another guy fathering an unasked for child in J and I's relationship. Though, as a rule, I'm anti termination in all but extreme cases I'd probably think selfish;y and offer up that solution.
