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Mrs gets turned off by certain things i enjoy
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Just got to sit down and thrash out between you what is acceptable and what isn't. No one should have to do anything they don't really want to do. If its so important to you these 'specific' things then depending how 'specific' and necessary they are my advice would be to forget it and enjoy what your both happy with or seek professional help. Really hope your Mrs is OK and knows about you having had a single account on here for the last nine years!
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Quote by cannockpair
Thanks for the reply. We need to sit down and talk it out. We used to share an account but she lost interest. She is way more important to me than a night of passion. I am pretty sure it will be ok.
You know what mate I fucking love that reply. Good on you and hope you talk things out really positively for you :thumbup:
Talk to your partner every time. We joined years ago. Mrs G's over active imagination kicked in and took her places she didn't want to go and our involvement never went further. Not sure how we kicked back into the site again a few weeks ago, but we discuss every everything we do to make sure we don't exceed each others boundaries and we are both comfortable with what we are doing. Some doubts / issues have kicked in which we have talked through. If nothing else it has got us talking to each and I think has brought us closer together.
I'm sure MrsG would agree .. Accept she is gently snoring next to me now !
I'm sure MrsG would agree .. Accept she is gently snoring next to me now !
The solution is
Compromise, Prioritise, Initialise.
You have to discuss it and try to come up with a scenario you both feel comfortable with, now without knowing of which you speak it is hard to advise.
Seriously, I mean if you want to dress as a woman around the house, then for example compromise and only do it when she is not there.
If you want to dress as a woman when you go out together then compromise would be difficult so then you would have to Prioritise what is more important to you, your upcoming marriage or your desire to dress as a woman when out. She may for instance be ok with you doing it round the house when she is not there but not be prepared to witness it or partake with it.
Initialise after rational discussion and having worked out an option your both comfortable with, do it and do it within the parameters you set yourselves.
As I said without knowing what it is you want to do that she doesn't I can only give an example and it is hard to give any really good advice
Compromise, Prioritise, Initialise.
You have to discuss it and try to come up with a scenario you both feel comfortable with, now without knowing of which you speak it is hard to advise.
Seriously, I mean if you want to dress as a woman around the house, then for example compromise and only do it when she is not there.
If you want to dress as a woman when you go out together then compromise would be difficult so then you would have to Prioritise what is more important to you, your upcoming marriage or your desire to dress as a woman when out. She may for instance be ok with you doing it round the house when she is not there but not be prepared to witness it or partake with it.
Initialise after rational discussion and having worked out an option your both comfortable with, do it and do it within the parameters you set yourselves.
As I said without knowing what it is you want to do that she doesn't I can only give an example and it is hard to give any really good advice
Thank you everyone. & for the record i dont really xdress anymore. She has never liked that so i stopped. I really only do things that i think will make her happy. Or turn her on, when she tells me it does nothing for her we dont try it again. Her happiness is the most important things for me so i dont want to upset her just for the sake of a sexy session
