If im in a chatroom, feal free to whisper to me if you want if you are shy, im not though (well yes i am but dont tell anyone). If I dont answer its prob because i am lurking on different rooms at the same time or someone is taking my attention away from you.

Ask if you want to know more.

And if you get to this point reading you have done something that many have not, give yourself a pat on the back.