Hi. We're 2 very nervous newcomers to this. Absolute beginners. Very curious though. We'd like to get responses from similar to ourselves which is F36 M41 both not too grim we hope, been together 20 years and hope to spice things up a little. Be gentle (at first at least)! Maybe just watch each other at first? Break us in gently!!! Please send a decent pic in your reply. Thanks for looking!!