First things first ... - We don’t accept random friend requests. Members who repeatedly send random friend requests without having chatted to us will be blocked. - The cliched automated introductory message is lazy and won’t get a response. - Don’t get in touch if your photos are more than a few years old. - Don’t get in touch if you’re a couple with only pictures of the female half on your profile. ‘L’ ultimately dictates who we meet and she likes to see who she’s meeting - If we suspect that y...