First of all, yes, I am a single male. I was widowed last year and after 16 months, I've joined here. Even though I'm not embarrassed about being naked, I am a shy guy. I find it hard to read the subtle hints in voice and face that most take for granted. I'm told is called Aspergers Syndrome. I'm think I am an average type of guy, but people who know me, do say I'm more than that. I value honesty, I offer it and expect it in return. I list myself as Bi-Sexual, though that should really be Pan-Sexual, although I am predominantly hetro. This means I find the person attractive, male, female, androgynous, the gender is not important. The thing I find most attractive, the personality and the mind. I don't find everybody attractive, I am not intent on just marking a score card with how many I can bed. I'm a kinky person, into a very wide range of 'alternative' activities, from sensation play through to bondage. BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Massochism) is a major part of my life. Those of you who like the sound of me, get in touch, I'll like as not be looking for you as well.