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Aliena77
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 48
Straight Male, 63
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Quote by rogerthedragon
Uhuru I agree with you when you say its up to people to weigh up the risk etc, I weigh them up and dont use Paypal, simple lol
Oh and frecklenbird re:the microchips, if by 'perspective' you want to convince yourself something isnt happening and ongoing right now because you dont know about it then fine, it doesnt however change the fact that the plan is for the electronic society to be the standard (you can actually pay $50 to have one put in now, the company is called Applied Digital solutions and they will gladly 'give you one', Prince Charles and his lads have them)
The companies behind this technology have over the last 2 years started trying to market this stuff as 'cool' etc by targetting clubgoers at nighclubs (vip clubs) that to gain entry you have to have a microchip in your arm, again it is being sold via the 'its cool, its convienient' methodology
As for chips in your groceries etc?, well again companies from Benetton to Gillette have all started to put these things in their products, they have faced some opposition from groups but it is only a matter of time before they are in everything, it is what the multinationals want and it will happen, they have even been caught putting them in US dollars too
The sad thing is we have shelf stackers at various stores whom will be putting these products onto the shelves not realising they are actually setting themselves up to be fired...who will need shop assistants when you can just walk in, take it off the shelf and walk right out with it, the money is debitted from your bank account via the micro chip in your arm and hey presto its all great isnt it?, all 'convienient'?
On a separate note, does anyone else find it amusing that Ebay wontlet you sell used panties etc? lol :shock:

Some good points and I'm not going to argue with you as you are probably right but what is the alternative - society 50 years ago was fine if you fitted in where you were but hell if like most people on here you had alternative views on things.
The electronic society allows people to do their own thing anonymously and without having to face people who will whisper and gossip. Most people worry more about their kids school teacher or their neighbour knowing their business than a faceless computer.
All things have their upsides and downsides only time will tell - maybe 2084? :shock:
Roger the Dragon cool
The problem is that computers aren't faceless. There is always going to be someone who can access your password or PIN number. Simple answer is if you want to keep it private keep it in your head. Till they microchip that too.
I agree that we are doing people aout of a job with electronics - me probably included. I don't agree with microchips in your arm and the rest of the Big Brother stuff. But I think it is upto us to decide what we want to use and what we don't. I would far rather speak to a person on the phone so i refuse to deal with electronic answering services. I will use the net to buy stuff but I want a PERSON not a computer to answer emails or phone calls if I have problem.
As for used panties, why can't we sell them surely whoever buys them should have calculated the risk?? lol
Quote by luv2lick
ok sorry wrong advice,
just be yourself....dont let a confidence knock set you back, get out and about ....you must talk with strange assistants ? so why be any different ?

Yep I agree... whatever you do, be yourself...no point trying to be someting you are not. I was talking to a girl about this sort of thing the other day.. she is the sort of person that can pull within about 5 mins of being in a room.... she does have a great body and her looks are not bad..but her real appeal is her personality... I have watched her in action many times.... she never tries to pull anyone...she just says hi or asks someone to pass her drink and looks for a little eye contact..if she gets it and there is a little attraction... then some non intrusive chat, perhaps being a little cheeky but not offensive.... I asked her what she looked for in a bloke (as she has had bluddy loads of them...) and she said..if a bloke can make her laugh without trying too hard, he has a good chance!
Might be the same for other girls too....?

Agreed. I like a guy who will talk to me, with no silly chat up lines, and who can make me laugh. I've been chatted up in the past just by looks and eye contact, no words involved!

Really? :shock:
Look into my eyes, look into my my eyes.....dont look around the eyes...you're under. when you come round you will think i am the funniest guy around...and handsome too.....oh and a bluddy good shag....3,2,1 your back in the room!
lol Wasn't quite like that. More of a case that the music was so loud we couldn't communicate any other way!
Dont you just love that.....the look that you give each other...the nod to the quiet place...the passion of just giving yourselves to each other...not giving a damn that you dont even know their name...or that you have not spoken ......then the lust...Can be very naughty...so right yet so wrong biggrin
Oh yes. Stop bringing back the memories or I'll have to go to bed with my rabbit!
Quote by freckledbird
OOOOOOOOOOOO slow down for heaven's sake :shock: I only use it for odd bits, as do most people, I expect. I'm not going looking for a chip implanted in my arm :shock: I think you're over reacting, just a tad. confused

Exactly. Calculated risk. If you pay for a skirt for a fiver, postage and you never get it, is it a disaster? Not unless you are on the breadline. If you pay £250 for a mobile phone it might well be depending on your income!
Quote by luv2lick
ok sorry wrong advice,
just be yourself....dont let a confidence knock set you back, get out and about ....you must talk with strange assistants ? so why be any different ?

Yep I agree... whatever you do, be yourself...no point trying to be someting you are not. I was talking to a girl about this sort of thing the other day.. she is the sort of person that can pull within about 5 mins of being in a room.... she does have a great body and her looks are not bad..but her real appeal is her personality... I have watched her in action many times.... she never tries to pull anyone...she just says hi or asks someone to pass her drink and looks for a little eye contact..if she gets it and there is a little attraction... then some non intrusive chat, perhaps being a little cheeky but not offensive.... I asked her what she looked for in a bloke (as she has had bluddy loads of them...) and she said..if a bloke can make her laugh without trying too hard, he has a good chance!
Might be the same for other girls too....?

Agreed. I like a guy who will talk to me, with no silly chat up lines, and who can make me laugh. I've been chatted up in the past just by looks and eye contact, no words involved!

Really? :shock:
Look into my eyes, look into my my eyes.....dont look around the eyes...you're under. when you come round you will think i am the funniest guy around...and handsome too.....oh and a bluddy good shag....3,2,1 your back in the room!
lol Wasn't quite like that. More of a case that the music was so loud we couldn't communicate any other way!
Quote by bollocks
I only use it to pay for stuff anyway. Surely paypal can't be that bad or people would stop using it?

No, my point is that for the millions of people that use it most will not have a problem with it BUT if ever you do caught and fucked over through Paypal you should not complain about it, it is hardly a suprise and as I said whether you are a con man or the one being conned the mechanism is in pkace to allow it to happen
The scandal is no-one seems to give a fuck for doing anything about it, probably because Paypal/Ebay is more than likely being used as one of many trogan horses being used to get society accustomed to an electronic society under the guise of 'convenience'
As long as people are happy using 'electronic' currency that doesnt esixt and as long as the 'con rate' is low enough so that most people are happy with it then when the time comes that you are conned no-one will give a fuck and life goes on lol
The trouble will come when the people running the electrronic systems decide to con you all at the same time leavbing everyone with no money yet at the same time you will have all of the 'convienient' micro chips in everything you have bought, probably in your arms too and as such you will instantly become a penniless slave herd, that is what the big gameplan is about, quite clever really, but then agin who care as long as you can buty a fake Von Dutch hat at a fiver from Ebay? lol
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Well you could argue that this chip and pin rubbish comes under the same category. And cash machines. Apparently noone but the computer knows your number. Rubbish.
Apart from the fact that people can and do watch you key in the number (I refuse to use chip and pin if anyone is too close to me) I am convinced that there are ways for Bank staff to get the number. Maybe not the ordinary counter clerk but someone there can if they want to.
Everything in life is risky. You just have to calculate whether the risk is worth taking. Doesn't matter whether we are talking about Ebay/paypal, chip and pin, sex with a stranger or anything else.
I think it makes sense to transfer money regularly and not leave it too long in your Paypal account - apart from anything else, as far as I know, Paypal don't pay interest!
I don't think any transaction should be made over Ebay or Paypal involving money or goods you can't afford to lose. In essence it is a great idea to buy or sell over the net but as with any transaction there are risks. More so because you don't even see they person you are buying from / selling to.
It's all a question of weighing up the risk and deciding if you are prepared to take it.
Quote by Horous
Thank you, Katien_n_John.
Now I can have tomorrow off too. He don't like big words, anyone any idea of the weather forecast for tomorrow?
John
lol

It'd better be good! I used the 'childminder isn't working' excuse, Just need good weather so the kids can disappear to play in the park so I get some peace. biggrin
Quote by luv2lick
ok sorry wrong advice,
just be yourself....dont let a confidence knock set you back, get out and about ....you must talk with strange assistants ? so why be any different ?

Yep I agree... whatever you do, be yourself...no point trying to be someting you are not. I was talking to a girl about this sort of thing the other day.. she is the sort of person that can pull within about 5 mins of being in a room.... she does have a great body and her looks are not bad..but her real appeal is her personality... I have watched her in action many times.... she never tries to pull anyone...she just says hi or asks someone to pass her drink and looks for a little eye contact..if she gets it and there is a little attraction... then some non intrusive chat, perhaps being a little cheeky but not offensive.... I asked her what she looked for in a bloke (as she has had bluddy loads of them...) and she said..if a bloke can make her laugh without trying too hard, he has a good chance!
Might be the same for other girls too....?

Agreed. I like a guy who will talk to me, with no silly chat up lines, and who can make me laugh. I've been chatted up in the past just by looks and eye contact, no words involved!
I think it'd have to be a bum reduction. As even when I get back to the weight I'm happy at it's still too big. The other option would be a boob job to sort of even it out. lol
Quote by gummy
When you've driven for miles holding a pee in because there aren't any toilets, then you finally get to one and let it flow........I always tell her that's better than sex. redface

Being a bus driver you cant just get off and go when you to the end of a run when your busting it is better than you I've forgotten what sex is. wink
You should be in the car with Tool when he's bursting and there are no toilets.. He doesn't half get moody.
The other thing he always says is better than sex is letting his stomach out of his trousers. (He may kill me for that one!)
For me, the only thing that comes close to being better than sex is getting rid of my kids for a few days.
I guess these things take time. And if they've got a lot on their minds the forum might be a way down their list of priorities. I just hope they know people on here are thinking of them.
Quote by Tool
It's not easy lying on your back like you're doing the Dying Fly on Tiswas, running a razor up your bollocks.
It's also scary running the blade up the veins on your cock.
Still preferable to cream, though. lol

Might be a pain but youre more likely to get a BJ when you shave! I definitely prefer it that way.
Quote by LordZenx
I think there may be some confusion here, I thought it was that men thought about sex more, that’s not the same as having a bigger sex drive.
Its that old problem of a mans wants, and a mans actually getting his lazy arse off the settee wink
My wife has a much higher sex drive than me (I now await the many offers to help me alleviate the problem lol )

Very true. Tool thinks about sex, reads about sex or talks about sex almost all the time. But he only gets his arse off the sofa and does something about it 3 times a year.
If I left Tool to make a move I'd probably wait months rather than weeks! lol
I have a much higher sex drive than him so it's lucky he gets turned on watching me with other men!
Quote by morbiusUK
hmmmmmm 90% :shock:
The only one i answered no to was mile high club..... thats not through lack of desire, just its not that easy to achieve when you have 2 kids in tow confused redface

I have two kids in tow too. Perhaps we could leave them to look after each other and achieve 100%
Quote by luv2lick
Was with T mobile
Changed to O2 to tget a nokia6230 (because it wasnt available with Tmobile).
Used nearly all my free minutes on hold trying to get through to O2 to try and get my account working properly mad for 2 months!!
Their whole thing is to be able to use their web site to solve problems.... which wasnt working either :x :x
Fucking hate O2...cant wait to be able to get away from the money grabbing useless sacks of shit !!!!
Sorry T-Mobile...... I have learnt my lesson... will be back soon :cry:
Thats all I have to say about that

When you do leave o2 be careful about disconnection. They try every trick in the book to stop you from disconnecting - starting with the computers are down through to anything else you can think of. We ended up sending a recorded delivery letter telling them we'd see them in court.
Being able to flash more because I can wear less clothes is always a turn on. Being looked at because I'm wearing less clothes is even more of a turn on. I just wish being cold didn't turn me off, then I could wear less clothes all year round.
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Right i know i'm going to get a right b*****ing off all the white guys for saying this but here goes lol
Personally >>I<< find in >>MY EXPERIENCE<< that black guys are more caring lovers than while men, they seem to be more giving and not just after a bj and a shag, so i have to admit i'd sooner meet black guys and theres my reasons lol
Alison

I agree but I have also met white men who are caring an considerate lovers. The difference is ALL the black men I have slept with have been caring whilst it is only a percentage of the white men. Again, just based on experience!
Quote by luv2lick
Man has cup of tea....no problem
Woman has cup of tea...the rest of the day gravitates around venues where there is a loo so that the ensuing 5 pisses can take place.....every half hour rolleyes

Definite roll reversal in my relationship on this one. If Tool and I have a day out it has to be planned, with military precision, around cafes with toilets. So he can use the toilet then refill with tea. Usually 72 cafes are just about sufficient.
Quote by marmalaid
A man in a car starts to feel a little cold, he modifies the heating up just a little until he is comfortable.
Woman in a car starts to feel a little cold, she turns the heating up full, she starts to get hot after a while so she turns the heating down to 1/4, gets cold again so she turns it up to 3/4 and so on.

That's me!
Tool has been known to finger me while driving down country lanes at some ridiculous speed. I'm not usually interested enough to look at the speedo at the time. lol
Come to think of it I'm not sure I've ever returned the favour and given him a BJ on the move. Must remedy that.
Hi, I wasn't here last time you used the site so nice to meet you!
I'd have a go if I were you. If for no other reason that you should try everything once!
I was with a guy once who had his nipple pierced. He wore a T-Shirt every time we had sex in case I caught it. Sort of ruined the moment.
As Tool has dragged me into this I guess I’d better comment!
I love sex, whatever the guys skin colour, all that matters is he knows what to do with it. But I’ve always fantasised more about black than white. It’s more to do with it being ‘exotic’ as someone mentioned rather than size.
However that was before I’d actually had a black cock. Now it’s not to do with size, skin colour against mine, ‘forbidden fruit’ or anything similar. It’s to do with the fact that the black guys I’ve met have been far more laid back, far more relaxed and far less self concious. I haven’t yet met one who didn’t know what to do with it. They also in general seem to have been more concerned with my pleasure than their own, I can't say I've met a selfish one yet.
I think I’d better qualify that by saying that I have met lots of white men who are equally laid back, concerned with my pleasure and who are good at it! Up to now I’ve never had the pleasure of an Asian guy so I’m not able to comment (yet). wink
Sunbunny’s comments earlier in the thread obviously totally contradict my own opinions though which I think sums it up. Personal preference!
I'd go back to where you had it done and ask for their advice. Hopefully they should re-pierce it for free. I've had mine in for over 4 years now no problems at all. I think you may be right about the depth of the piercing being the cause though, don't think titanium is anything to do with as it's supposed to be the best to use. Only other thing is I know you are supposed to wear loose clothing for a few weeks while it heals. I had it done in summer and wore either floaty dresses or hipsters for a few weeks. I'm sure others on here will be more knowledgable than me though!
Quote by zootle
Not long ago on the bus to work, i overheard the woman behind me saying on her mobile " i've just sent you a text message!" :shock:
What's that all about then i ask you??? LOL
G & D x

In that case it depends on the convo, the text message could have contained something you didn't want to say in public.
Then don't make the call in a public place! confused rolleyes
My mum always phones me to tell me she's sent me an email. Drives me mad!