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Biundydogger
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 71
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Quote by horneyrc
Normally the guy thats watching , should tell the others that we/they only want 1 /2 or however many , some people just don't know how to play .

#True! They don't know and their lust gets the better of them.
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Mods Edit - post removed. Please read our policy on NOT putting exact details of dogging locations on the open forums and keep these details for private messages only.
Sorry, thought I was sending him a private message, must have clicked the wrong button
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You could try xxx layby on A xxxxxxxx just east of Maidstone or xxxxxxxxnear Dartford. Calfstock is good if you want it quiet. Detling is busier. Let me know how you get on
Noel
Mods Edit - please keep these details for private messages only and not the open forums
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I shall be visiting Warwickshire dogging spots Thursday March 29th. Any tips from doggers or couples welcome.
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Quote by AlanStone
I have seen some blokes nearly come to blows when fem/cpls have shown up at dogging spots over the years. :boxing::boxing:

I got a very nasty black eye from some big bruiser who successfully stopped me from dogging a couple who had invited me to dog them, because he wanted to barge in and monopolize them on his own.
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The police have spoken to me there and assured me they are not interested in the sex that goes on there but they are interested in stopping yobbish behaviour from boy racers there. I have recently witnessed them arresting boy racers. One idiot was so careless he bumped into a police car as he raced around the car park lol
Credit must go to a guy who can often be found of an evening parked up around there usually in the layby on the opposite side of the A3 from the main car park. He has helped negotiate agreement between cops and car park users (whatever their sexual proclivities). Any trouble there & you should talk to him. He helped me deal with the cops when I had a spot of trouble there. He has a hot line to the cops.
It would be silly to expose bare flesh in front of Joe Public but flashing and dogging people who make it clear they are interested is OK if you take care.
Have fun.
Mods edit: name and make of vehicle removed.
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I have sent you a private message re locations. Hope you had fun last night. I hope to tonight. :twisted: lol
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Non-demanding voyeur would love to be there if u can message me where & when. Cold night for it! lol
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While I agree that spontaneous dogging is most fun, I find prearranged dogging is better than countless visits to dogging spots, with very few results. I understand why couples feel that prearranging implies they are committed to some kind of sex before they meet.
That's one reason why I like to make dates for strictly no touching but voyeuristic/exhibitionist fun, my kink I suppose lol . The other reason is that I am so turned on by the fact I'm having sex with no touching. As well as watching couples get dirty with each other in their cars, I love to show off my stiff 7" cock to them when I'm dogging. So I'm looking for couples who want that kind of dogging meet in London & Southeast.
I would like to meet a couple who would make a date to meet at a specified dogging spot strictly for no touching voyeuristic/exhibitionist sex. I love to show off my stiff 7" cock when I'm dogging.
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I'd be up for dogging around Heathrow if I knew where to go. I'm into watching couples having sex in their cars, but I don't think I'd try with a plane. lol
I would like to meet a couple who would make a date to meet at a specified dogging spot strictly for no touching voyeuristic/exhibitionist fun. I love to show off my stiff 7" cock when I'm dogging, as well as watching.
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Hi Helen and Jon.
I shall be out on a dogging prowl tonight, probably in Surrey. I would like to meet you. I'm non pushy but keen and content to do no more than watch if that's what you want.
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Quote by steveandher
hi there is a place on the a20.
Mod edit: Please don't be specific with details... save that for a PM.
:eeek:

I know a good quiet place near M25-A20 junction and a rather busy one just east of Maidstone.
The quiet one is good for meeting doggers by appointment. The busy one is good for taking pot luck and getting dogged if you don't mind numbers of doggers watching you. It's always worth remembering that dogging carries some risk of trouble and that doggers as well as doggees sometimes find it scary, but for some scariness is part of the fun lol
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Quote by funcouple05
sevenoakes is a good area

If Sevenoaks is a good area I'd love to know where exactly.
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It's your call, Ms Bankhead, Fri or Saturday night somewhere in Surrey. You specify.
Noel
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People who like to be dogged, MF couples or CDs wanted this weekend Fri Sat nights. Anyone interested?
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not been there for ages but would be interested to know if it's still worth a visit.
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Dogging has for long meant "following someone around". So that soon became following couples around and peering into their cars to watch them have sex. So the men standing around and peering, often while wanking themselves, are the doggers. The couples being watched are therefore "dogees". Used more losely "dogging" at some stage came to be used generally for any kind of outdoor sex in public places.
What's in a name, so long as people treat each other with respect and don't get greedy about their wants?
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What a pity I've only seen your post now at What a lovely sexy couple you look! Would have loved to watch you earlier in the evening. Maybe another time. I'm non-pushy, polite and happy just to watch.
Take care
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Quote by s1dthesexist
Ok, granted it may have been error to refer to a location and I would seek to raise that the location mentioned is recorded in the guide to dogging sites on here.
Perhaps I was wrong to think that puting the location with the specific issue might allow those people reading it to understand that they are ruining it. This was particularly as Serendity had suggested that moving closer was the right thing to do.
Sorry for any offence caused.

The same problem keeps coming up on this forum. People are told off or moderated off for mentioning the specific locations of dogging venues while the excact location of hundreds of dogging sites all over the UK are listed in the dogging section of this website. Swining Heaven needs a consistent policy on this. At the moment the attitude appears to be: "Don't do as we do. That's aginst the rules. Do as we say and don't give exact locations of any dogging sites or your account may be suspended."
Bizarre?
Hypocritical?
If we want to make dogging a more private affair, the lists of locations in the dogging section of this website should be deleted by management.
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Quote by dippergt750
The locations are all well known.........The idiocy comes in naming locations along with times.
ie. We are dogging at THIS car park in THAT location this very night....we will be there from 10pm
Or any similar permutation as in when a couple say they are going out in a certain area on a particular day at a certain time, when some moron then posts "do you mean you are going to THIS car park".
This tells the boy racers, police, perverts etc., EXACTLY where and when to go to cause the most consternation! Most of these idiots can't be bothered to wait days or weeks otherwise.

There's nothing new in idiocy. The idiotic are always with us so we have to protect ourselves from idiocy by establishing good dogging netiquette.
Quote by dippergt750
Bearing in mind that the public en-mass seem to have minimal intelligence, it seems sensible to ban ANY mention of location on open forum, to pr0tect those of us who wish to use dogging sites. Then there are the selfish, self opinionated, know it all types who feel the need to do it "their" way, and name sites for all to see and damn the consequences, just so it doesn't affect them directly!!!!!!!

Agreed! So it would be resonable to write, for example, "We'll be dogging in Cambridgeshire on Saturday evening" then anyone interested can contact the poster to ask the exact location, the time and what kind of activity is wanted. It's fairly easy to sort out who the idiots are when they've written to you. They can be ignored, while the interesting sounding ones can be given the essential details. lol
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Well if he's seriously suspected of food poisoning the car park users a complaint should be made either to the police or to the local council who, he told me, granted him planning permission for the mobile cafe. I don't know if the council is Bath or Avon but someone local should know. If it is an obligation when selling food to display your heigine certificate he should be asked to display his.
If he's being offensive to people he thinks may be doggers or may be gay, then I suggest the car park users boycott his cafe. His choice of name for the cafe to my mind implies that he knows very well what goes on there and has a humerous accepting attitude towards it, probably wanting a bit of the action for himself.
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Quote by AlanStone
I could understand the reasoning why admin remove exact locations named in forum for obvious reasons but seems a bit hypocritical when most popular dogging sites in the country are named under the dogging tab on the home page.:doh:

I agree with Alan. If we want to avoid cops, boy racers, vigilantes and general busybodies who enjoy spoiling other people's enjoyment, surely the directions to numerous locations listed in this website's dogging section should be removed as well as censoring naming exact locations from the forum. People can send private messages to each other about exact locations.
It seems to me that some joined-up thinking is needed here.
I know one site where the local residents have started a campaign called "Friends of xxx xxxx" with the objective of stopping people having sex there, even in the dark.
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Quote by s1dthesexist
There is something of a problem at the Dyke of people (this is mainly single males) moving their cars closer to a couple and preventing them settling.

So long as we all realise that "the Dyke" is a solitary lesbian who moves around Sussex, discussing The Dyke will not give the game away to cops and boy racers about what is going on where.