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Chaotic_Spirit
Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 40
0 miles · Derbyshire

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Don't worry stripe, i promise i'm lovely in real life.
Madchick, i will stick your name down, shall i plus one????
Quote by easycome2003_1
well cock didnt say that on saturday xxxxxx, it dont matter anyhow leave it at that if u think ur are right

Well maybe she doesn't remember, either way if you wish to discuss this more i think a private mail should be more acceptable then on a public forum. I would also like to ask you to refrain from using my name on the forums, nothing personal, it's just you can never be sure who is reading these things.
I'm sorry if i have offended anyone arranging this social, it wasn't my intention, but as others have clearly stated i'm well within my rights.
If your still unable to make the social then you will be truely missed. It should be a good evening all in all.
Chaos x
Quote by easycome2003_1
yes thats true anyone can arrange a social meet , but i think its rather unfair to take all the credit for the hard work that myself and cock slut as undertaken to ensure that derby was put on the map , we will arrange separate dates then if u feel that way . we wouldnt wanna spoil the fun .

I would like to point out that i did actually ask cockslut out of respect if i could arrange september's social and she happliy said yes.
Never mind, He is a bit of a dosey mare isn't he. Have a great time are your munch, and enjoy the Derby social which is happening tonight. Sorry i wont be making this one xxxxxx
i dont find a problem with the 30 second rule......apart from when im drunk, and it usually takes me 5 mins anyways to realise i have been kicked out the server... lol :lol: :lol:
If more people voice the same opinion as yourself, im sure it can be written in the OP guidelines that you should be given a minute in future, but this is only if people do speak up the same opinon.
I've noticed this happen to me a few times before. Sometimes the server kicks random members or rooms off for some unknown reason, i think it's simply because the servers are full and the system is struggling to correspond with you computer. Keep your head up, im sure admin are going the best they can!
You have to remember flower that the people who have to close the room down are very busy people making sure everyone is polite, no one is breaking the rules and the policy is upheld, as well as other admin duties.
I'm not sure how long it takes you but i think 20 seconds is more then enough time to vacant to another room.
Quote by Sarah
Silly Hats
I know someone who goes on cam who has a whole dressing up box of them
:evil2:

I wonder if were thinking of the same person lol :lol: :lol:
Hi Dee, will stick you down as possiblies.
Hope you enjoy tomorrow Derby Social, sorry i couldn't make it.
Quote by hotandwet
Hi Chaotic,
I’m a really shy, very inexperienced newbie, and i dont know many people in Derby as I only move here last year after being brought up in a convent school. Yes i know my profile says i'm 38, but i'm a slow starter. :angel:
Do you think it would be Ok for me and my chaperone to come alone to your meeting. My chaperone is my 87 year old maiden aunt, she’s a little bit deaf but still quiet alert for her age.
I understand it’s a social gathering; shall I bring a selection of my needle point and home made jams to share? Do we all sing hymns at these meeting??
Oh I do hope you let me attend. I promise that I will not get in the way. :happy:
Regards
HnW

Oh deary me, it's a good job i know and love you or i would have to sue you for making me choke on my sandwich lol Newbie my grand white bottom! Your on the list as always babes!
Quote by Sarah
Can you put us down as 'possible maybes' please, as this is the same day as Mids and Newt get married, and we are off to the reception bit, ( it would seem I am responsible for introducing them to each other via this site!) so depending on timings / locations, we might be able to pop in for a short while, or the other hand we might not be able to!

Sure thing! Wish them look for me!
Quote by craigeanita
hi chaotic, can you send us an invite, craigeanita

Your Down Sweet hearts!
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:happy: :happy: :happy: Derby Social :happy: :happy: :happy:
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Due to the grand success of our last few social nights, I have been asked to organise another one for Saturday 23rd September 2006. Depending on numbers and costs, a function room might be arranged for this night; but if this option is unavailable, we shall keep the night as traditional as our last socials and spend the night in a easy to find, friendly and welcoming bar.
As I have stated above, our last socials have been a grand success. Beaming results of high attendance and great laughs. It is the perfect situation to met new people, chat and giggle to other users and be able to put faces to names, whilst being in a safe and non-judgemental environment.
The bar/function room that we will most likely be using will be vanilla. This means we can’t all go dressed up as the domatrix/gimp in our favourite porn movie, though I’m sure some of the locals won’t mind! Please dress sensibly though (but not as sensibly as your grandmother!), I would suggest keeping in with the ‘Saturday night, painting the town Red’ dress code!
If you wish to come along to this particular Derby Social, then please feel free to post asking for an invite, or to mail me.
The Location, Time, etc will be mailed to each of you a week before the Event.

The Current Invite List
Single Fems
Chaotic_Spirit -Confirmed
Darkfire - Confirmed
HotandWet - Confirmed
Sarah-Joy and Lenny - Confirmed
DizzyTart - Confirmed
Single Males
bLEEp - Confirmed
Farkuen - Confirmed
gentlemanfor2 - Confirmed
Kajman - Confirmed
quotes - Confirmed
RogerTheDragon - Confirmed
Shnukle - Confirmed
Still - Confirmed
Will_32 - Confirmed
Couples
Clitfondler - Confirmed
HorneyOldTart n Mr_D - Confirmed
PaulandSue123 - Confirmed
RammyRam n DollyMinx - Confirmed
Sarah n Mal - Confirmed
Sleazy n NaughtyNymphos - Confirmed
Slightly Sinful - Confirmed
steandnik - Confirmed
tonylisa2006 - Confirmed
mike183 - Confirmed
WRATS - Confirmed
Due to a Large amount of single males wishing to attend, i think it wise to accept that amount and set up a sub list. That way if any single males on the orginal list decide to drop out, it gives the single males on the waiting list a chance to attend!
Waiting List
CrowMaster
Spannerman
Update
- We now have a private function room booked for this event.
-We also need everyone prepared to attend to confirm their places on the invite list so badges can be made (anyone who has a problem with having a badge made then please notify me!)
Can we leave this now, and leave the thread for nice loving words for Naughty Uncle. I'm fed up of politics!
Quote by markandnicky
i think the reason that this thread was created has been missconstrewed..
no one is launching an attack upon anyone,
no=one has said NU is not the right person to become an op.
people have stated, that someone with a position such as NU has been given should have a less provocotive nickname, from an outsider looking in this might give a bad impression. I have seen a few addys i dont like the sound of
but they are not policing and ronting the sites AUP and making sure everyone behaves in a way which is respectable and people do not cause insult...
i think NU should keep his addy the same way shazandtony have and have a 2nd addy for when he has his ops cap on.
then all can be kept happy NU keeps his name his ops star and noone else can have a go about his name
this is something that can be easily rectified.

The reason this Thread was developed was to show how much some of us really loved Naughty Uncle, and we support and wish him well with what he does.
Naughty Uncle has been a member since 2005 using the same name. No one has complained of it, until he was seeked out to become an op. I would like to point out that if members of this site were so against his name, then they wouldn't have borthered seeking him out for this position.
I just generally feel, along with many others, that people were generally nit picking to find something bad to say about this person and since discretion is top priority on this site they had nothing to work with but a Username! I mean why slander a Username? A Username is simply an alias!
This man is a genuine and loving person, like i'm sure most of us are. But to be refered to as somethings that people have been mentioning is enough to break ones spirit. In My eyes being an OP is a hard job, as no matter what you do no one is happy and they is always something going on. Give the man a break and prove how good he can be, without people slandering something as stupid as a Username!
Quote by Darkfire
I do hope that was tongue in cheek.
but just in case, you're down for mine in 2 weeks time, and it wont be happening there, or any other Munch wink Just thought I'd clarify :thumbup:

lol, i can sleep so much easier now biggrin
Quote by markandnicky
how did u do that???????????
thats a good trick

I would tell but i know many people will use this tool to take people unaware, so i perfer not to say.
After much talk with friends i have decided to risk being kicked, despised and prob being hounded at the next munch or social, by setting up a fan club to someone i know many do actually care for. He's recently been hounded and picked on for any niggling little thing just because he's agreed to do a trial on being an op for this site. I think it's really bad what people can say about someone they have never met, so hopefully this should pick his, and his friends' spirits up. Here we have the making of...........
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The Naughty Uncle Fan Club!
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
A club that will hopefully be full of supporting friends and who knows, possibly lovers! If you support NaughtyUncle in all he's done, then please post away and allow him and his friends too know it!
To become a member, you need not enroll, you can become a member if your heart desires it!
NaughtyUncle was not involved in the making of this Fan Club!
Can i put my male partner name down too please, PKrams65, then i have both boyrfirend and girlfriend there, god im a greedy girl!