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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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Right then, the Birthday Afters-Party ! :bounce: :bounce:
I’ve had a word with a good friend of mine, and he is letting me use his house, (as its local and my bday present from him) to hold a house party after the Birthday Munch on 2nd September.
He is well-known on the swing scene, but I must stress that this is my afters-party, all info and invites etc will come solely from me. This is not an open invite party and only those on the Munch guest list are eligible to attend – no exceptions. As the venue is also someone’s home, I reserve the right to not release address details until very last minute.
A few nibbles will be laid on for you but you will need to bring your own bottle/beer/drinks. Weather depending, there may be additional covered room in the garden. There will be music (although not too loud as there are neighbours :scared
and you are welcome to bring your own CD’s too to ensure something for everyone :thumbup:
Eating, drinking and merriment will continue until whenever people drift off back to hotels/ home – you will need to pre-book taxi’s if you’re needing one after 2am, ( taxi numbers will be in the final details pm) but if anyone coming can offer lifts, that’d be fantastic! (again, pm me please
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I stress that this will primarily be a social party and there is no expectation or obligation on anyone to play or be involved in anything more than a social drink/ chat with others. ....There will be playroom open upstairs if people want to play, but downstairs is TOTALLY social. Anyone breaking this rule or deemed to be making a pest of themselves will be asked to leave, again, no exceptions.
House Rules: No means No
No illegal drugs
No play downstairs
If you’re interested in coming, so I can gauge numbers for food, let me know in this thread or pm me. I will not be publishing a list of attendees.
If you need to drop anything off ie. booze, for the afters party before the main event, you may do so after 3pm & drop in for pre-munch drinkies, just PM me and I’ll send you the details . There are no charges for this party.
Dark xx
I’ve had a word with a good friend of mine, and he is letting me use his house, (as its local and my bday present from him) to hold a house party after the Birthday Munch on 2nd September.
He is well-known on the swing scene, but I must stress that this is my afters-party, all info and invites etc will come solely from me. This is not an open invite party and only those on the Munch guest list are eligible to attend – no exceptions. As the venue is also someone’s home, I reserve the right to not release address details until very last minute. A few nibbles will be laid on for you but you will need to bring your own bottle/beer/drinks. Weather depending, there may be additional covered room in the garden. There will be music (although not too loud as there are neighbours :scared
and you are welcome to bring your own CD’s too to ensure something for everyone :thumbup: Eating, drinking and merriment will continue until whenever people drift off back to hotels/ home – you will need to pre-book taxi’s if you’re needing one after 2am, ( taxi numbers will be in the final details pm) but if anyone coming can offer lifts, that’d be fantastic! (again, pm me please
) I stress that this will primarily be a social party and there is no expectation or obligation on anyone to play or be involved in anything more than a social drink/ chat with others. ....There will be playroom open upstairs if people want to play, but downstairs is TOTALLY social. Anyone breaking this rule or deemed to be making a pest of themselves will be asked to leave, again, no exceptions.
House Rules: No means No
No illegal drugs
No play downstairs
If you’re interested in coming, so I can gauge numbers for food, let me know in this thread or pm me. I will not be publishing a list of attendees.
If you need to drop anything off ie. booze, for the afters party before the main event, you may do so after 3pm & drop in for pre-munch drinkies, just PM me and I’ll send you the details . There are no charges for this party.
Dark xx
Quote by lavabubble
Right, this whole outfit thing!
Neither me or the missus do girly, so trousers are deffo the order of the day. We both plan on wearing smart trousers and shirts (NOT blouses) and although we are aware that the Decadence and Debauchery is only a theme, we would like to state that we will be found in 'Underdressed Corner' (sic) should anyone else who doesn't look like Ginger Rogers or Fred Astaire care to come and join us
That'll be me then
time's running out and i have no dress - even if I 'did' dresses :giggle:
Quote by mollyandchris
Hi we don't know if we are about to double book but can we come please and we will let you know if we can't make it but we are pretty sure that we haven't got any plans.
Thanks
Molly and Chris xx
hiya you two
I'll put you on provisionally hun but need confirmations by tomorrow please
the list is full and up to capacity awaiting confirmations from the last stragglers so it is very definately first come first served :thumbup:
ok, ideas for blokes - and this is where charity shop curtains and wonderweb come in handy :giggle: on top of the rumoured tuxedo's (remember this is not compulsory dress, its just a theme )
Think...... dapper....... :twisted: - think colour, and feel of material - and above all, cost! you can 'do' decadent in a fun way with cigarette holders, brylcream and accessories without spending a fortune :thumbup:
and these are just ideas - dont go out hiring a full tux and top hat ffs!
:inlove:
) Think...... dapper....... :twisted: - think colour, and feel of material - and above all, cost! you can 'do' decadent in a fun way with cigarette holders, brylcream and accessories without spending a fortune :thumbup:
and these are just ideas - dont go out hiring a full tux and top hat ffs!
:inlove:
Alleyson hun you dont have to dress up - the theme is entirely optional!
why not treat yourself to a lovely long candlelit soak in the bath with bubbles, wine and a big fluffy warm towel before/ after the Munch? its all about being a bit indulgent - so, indulge! you may even find someone willing to oblige you with massage and body oils :twisted:
why not treat yourself to a lovely long candlelit soak in the bath with bubbles, wine and a big fluffy warm towel before/ after the Munch? its all about being a bit indulgent - so, indulge! you may even find someone willing to oblige you with massage and body oils :twisted:
Can anyone who knows Dlep help him out with floorspace?
I'm posting this on his behalf as he cannot access SH at the mo due to having to use a public pc so please pm ME with details otherwise it'll sit in his inbox unread :thumbup:
It is Dlep's birthday too so if anyone who Dlep knowshas a space he can bunk in on a no expectations basis of course, rather than staying sober and driving home, I and he will be most grateful 
I'm posting this on his behalf as he cannot access SH at the mo due to having to use a public pc so please pm ME with details otherwise it'll sit in his inbox unread :thumbup:
It is Dlep's birthday too
so if anyone who Dlep knowshas a space he can bunk in on a no expectations basis of course, rather than staying sober and driving home, I and he will be most grateful Quote by Dawnie
I am reading down this thread and getting more and more excited and we have too many sleeps and I have too many ands :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
I'll be pissing my knickers by next Saturday
I'd best tell you about the ......
nah, bad idea, you'll have to wait til Saturday :twisted:
:giggle:
Quote by Calista
Well I have 2 hours left on the skirt I want on ebay ....
I have the top all I need is the skirt to match.
Think it'll look a bit vampireish (well i will if i can get the fangs :twisted
Just need to know where I can get some goth makeup in Derby now :shock:
Cx
what a bloody (pardon the pun :giggle
good idea! :bounce: :bounce: I like 'that' skirt though!
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
HLB's handy hints for decadence on the cheap. :idea:
Accessorise - it doesn't have to be expensive
Velvet ribbon chokers
Costume Jewelry
Gloves
Feather Boa
DIY
It's amazing what you can do with a bit of glue, some glitter/beads.
Glue them onto an old pair of shoes or a piece of ribbon to be worn round the wrist or neck
Buy a couple of metres of luscious fabric, fold in half and secure with wonderweb to make a wrap.
Well know on line auction sites
Great for picking up a new dress/shoes/handbag/jewelry
Alternatively if you do wish to buy something expensive, I've found it's preferable to use your partner's credit card.
Darkfire - Will you recommend me for that Blue Peter job now? :giggle:
Always
I am loving the Blue Peter ideas and cheap tack 'bling' :thumbup: I reckon even I can knock up a shoulder wrap from a bit or organza fabric 
I'm actually getting a bit worried about folk spending a fortune on stuff - please dont!
Remember - anything with a train will get trodden on when people start wobbling, pints get spilt when wobbling/ oogling/ barrel-dancing :giggle: and with the number of people coming its going to get a bit warm
I'm off to raid my daughters craft box for PVA glue and feathers
