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Dlep
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
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I think that because of Xmas, the night shift has separated for now.....
How ever, Im sure well all be back together soon
I must admit, although Ive enjoyed talking to all the new people that have turned up on the nightshift, I have missed all the NS regulars....Come back soon....please...! lol
How ever, Im sure well all be back together soon
I must admit, although Ive enjoyed talking to all the new people that have turned up on the nightshift, I have missed all the NS regulars....Come back soon....please...! lol
Quote by single_tulip
hmmm.
i posted on this thread and now it has dissapeared...
i dont like this new site :-( i want the old one back! :cry:
There, there ..... :therethere: :rascal: Me too, tulip...oh well...
Hi Handy, Ive seen ya around on chat..hope I spoke to ya....(My memory is getting worse....lol)
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I have just got a pm from Fabio, clicked on reply and then got a message to say that the user is not recognised???????
Also got pm's going back to when I first joined, think I need to book a day off work just to delete them!
I dont know much about how forums work but its probably cos fabio had to reregister (like everybody else) and you pm'd before he did that. I'll bet if you try again now, be'll get it (well hopefully...).
Quote by Lissa
Well everyone knows WWF stands for the World Wildlife Fund obviously Lissa likes her man to be a bit of an animal
DD
OH GOD!!
You had to do it..............you had to put that link on. I've just spent an hour perving over the Big Red Machine..............WITH mask.
WWF is now known as WWE because the World Wildife Fund put an injunction in to claim sole right over the moniker....I must admit that Lita and Stacey Kiebler do it for me.....mmmmmm!
But to answer the question properly......
Sophie Aldred (Ace in Doctor Who) and Bananrama!!!!!!! lol
Fooking hell! 
I thought there was something amiss a few times when you've been on chat hun, but I didnt think that you had this on your plate! Ive got me fingers and every other limb and appendage crossed....I'll also be thinking about ya at 2pm....
We're all there for you joanne-ish, and will give ya a cyber hug on chat come what may on chat when I see you.....
I thought there was something amiss a few times when you've been on chat hun, but I didnt think that you had this on your plate! Ive got me fingers and every other limb and appendage crossed....I'll also be thinking about ya at 2pm....We're all there for you joanne-ish, and will give ya a cyber hug on chat come what may on chat when I see you.....
As another single male, just thought I'd add my 10p's worth....
I have some success in meeting people on this site and will be in the future through "munches" etc....but its taken a lot of perseverance and hardwork. But its been worth it...especially when I enter the chatroom and atleast 10 people there welcome me like an old friend
If you really want to be able to reap the full benefit of this site do as many of the following as possible:
Read the rules of the site. (VERY IMPORTANT!!!!!!)
Make an ad - this should have a bit about yourself, what you are after, what people can expect from you and at least 1 picture.
Register for the chat room - I did this first before I registered for the forum (hence why I have 2 names...lol). Introduce yourself, and join in the banter....(again READ THE RULES!!!!)
Read as many of the threads as possible....even some of the older ones, as they could have the answers to questions you might have. There is one thread that is "stickied" for new members about requesting a "mentor"... a person that would help you get the most of this site. Also post to some..this way people get to learn about who you are.....
Remember that a lot of people here DONT want a single male. That is their perogative and you should respect it.....It means that if we want people to notice us, it means we have to work harder....dont complain about it....it gives us all a bad name....
And above all remember...we are all here for one common aim...to have fun and to try new things out...if it stops being fun then there is no point what so ever.....
Right, I know that some of this stuff is obvious and that I can talk as Im a relative newbie myself, but I hope that all the new members can get as much out of this site as I have....
Okay?
See ya in the chat room (my second home.... :shock: )
I have some success in meeting people on this site and will be in the future through "munches" etc....but its taken a lot of perseverance and hardwork. But its been worth it...especially when I enter the chatroom and atleast 10 people there welcome me like an old friend
If you really want to be able to reap the full benefit of this site do as many of the following as possible:
Read the rules of the site. (VERY IMPORTANT!!!!!!)
Make an ad - this should have a bit about yourself, what you are after, what people can expect from you and at least 1 picture.
Register for the chat room - I did this first before I registered for the forum (hence why I have 2 names...lol). Introduce yourself, and join in the banter....(again READ THE RULES!!!!)
Read as many of the threads as possible....even some of the older ones, as they could have the answers to questions you might have. There is one thread that is "stickied" for new members about requesting a "mentor"... a person that would help you get the most of this site. Also post to some..this way people get to learn about who you are.....
Remember that a lot of people here DONT want a single male. That is their perogative and you should respect it.....It means that if we want people to notice us, it means we have to work harder....dont complain about it....it gives us all a bad name....
And above all remember...we are all here for one common aim...to have fun and to try new things out...if it stops being fun then there is no point what so ever.....
Right, I know that some of this stuff is obvious and that I can talk as Im a relative newbie myself, but I hope that all the new members can get as much out of this site as I have....
Okay?
See ya in the chat room (my second home.... :shock: )
I was five and just getting settled in primary school.....from what my mum tells me causing havok, and coming home with more paint, dirt, oil and god knows what on me uniform.... 
I havent changed that much in that I still cause havok....only this time due to me being totally clumsy and out of sorts with my environment.... :shock:
I havent changed that much in that I still cause havok....only this time due to me being totally clumsy and out of sorts with my environment.... :shock:
Quote by MikeNorth
Up above the streets and houses rainbow climbing high!
This is about nine times this link has been put up in here, but I'm sure there are still some who haven't seen it. Unfortunately it seems to have been removed!
My favourite line is: "Jane: I've been banging away all night with Rod and Roger!"
mike.
Lol...I have the whole episode on my phone...still makes me laugh even now...
Quote by Him'nHer
Well to become a Mod or OP, you need the following:
GCSE English...... so you know how to spell ......
A calm temperament, with a balanced outlook
A sense of humour
A mean right hook.........
Skin so thick it makes a Rhino's bum look positively baby soft
A computer with an internet connection........ no tin cans and bits of string here ya see...
Oh and the mod buttons....... sometimes come up on online aution sites if you look
Hope this helps
Have all the above (except for the mod butons lol) plus a hard head (for nutting, lol) and a katana sword...anybody wanna piece of me.!...lol...come get some lol
Quote by LilMissGullable
Hi, for those of you that dont know me Im called PLUM, although on the chat everbody knows me as Dlep.
Over the last couple of nights a few of us on the "nightshift" have noticed that there are certain people who dont follow the rules or are generally a pain in the bum...
When this is the case there arent any mods or ops around to sort things out....which is understandable as even Mods and ops need to sleep....But it is becoming distracting when there are a few disruptive elements spoiling the fun for everybody else...
There fore I was wondering if it was possible to apply to become a mod or op so that the "nightshift" is covered too. I realise that it is a big responsiblity and that the fact that Ive only been here a while might go against me, but it would be great if the organisers of the site or the senior mods/ops would consider it. There are other members on the "nightshift" who would consider it too...that way chat is monitored (nearly, if not) all the time.
Hopefully Ive gone about this the right way, as I wasnt sure how to go about this....
Hope to hear something to resolve this.
PLUM
aka
Dlep
Never mind they don't follow the rules late at nite....... They don't at anytime of the day!!!
Oh and back of...... I asked 1st :sparring:
Choose your weapon! lol (adopts the matrix style stance) Bring it! lol
Hi, for those of you that dont know me Im called PLUM, although on the chat everbody knows me as Dlep.
Over the last couple of nights a few of us on the "nightshift" have noticed that there are certain people who dont follow the rules or are generally a pain in the bum...
When this is the case there arent any mods or ops around to sort things out....which is understandable as even Mods and ops need to sleep....But it is becoming distracting when there are a few disruptive elements spoiling the fun for everybody else...
There fore I was wondering if it was possible to apply to become a mod or op so that the "nightshift" is covered too. I realise that it is a big responsiblity and that the fact that Ive only been here a while might go against me, but it would be great if the organisers of the site or the senior mods/ops would consider it. There are other members on the "nightshift" who would consider it too...that way chat is monitored (nearly, if not) all the time.
Hopefully Ive gone about this the right way, as I wasnt sure how to go about this....
Hope to hear something to resolve this.
PLUM
aka
Dlep
Over the last couple of nights a few of us on the "nightshift" have noticed that there are certain people who dont follow the rules or are generally a pain in the bum...
When this is the case there arent any mods or ops around to sort things out....which is understandable as even Mods and ops need to sleep....But it is becoming distracting when there are a few disruptive elements spoiling the fun for everybody else...
There fore I was wondering if it was possible to apply to become a mod or op so that the "nightshift" is covered too. I realise that it is a big responsiblity and that the fact that Ive only been here a while might go against me, but it would be great if the organisers of the site or the senior mods/ops would consider it. There are other members on the "nightshift" who would consider it too...that way chat is monitored (nearly, if not) all the time.
Hopefully Ive gone about this the right way, as I wasnt sure how to go about this....
Hope to hear something to resolve this.
PLUM
aka
Dlep
Quote by loveblock
were all sex addicts if were offered sex we usally accept it, why do you think we subscribe to this website to find sex if we can thats an addict. :twisted:
I dont think Im addicted...just dont get any! lol
But Im not here just for getting me leg over...I want to meet people who have similar interests and way of life....
Well, I enjoy reading, Films (western and Japanese/Hong Kong), Japanese culture including learning the Language, Music (rock), American Football (I support Baltimore Ravens), Travel (been to Japan, NYC, parts of Europe including Prague, Spain, and Greece)....all ways open to suggestions....lol
Hi, my names Plum (Dlep in chat), and although I'll probably say something that is naive (after all Im a newbie too...), I thought I should comment.
Im a shy person, so its taken time to get to know people here...in fact I was using Chat a fair bit before I started using the forum....
Im also aware that as a single male, it'll be more difficult to mingle with people here because they arent necessarily looking for someone like me. Thats disappointing (from my point of view) but understandable...I would love to go to munches right now but, realise I have to wait. Meeting people in circumstances like this is about trust. People have to feel comfortable and I do too. I have made a few friends here (they know who they are..I wont mention names...it'll take a while for a start...lol) but I have felt nothing but encouragement from them...in fact 3 gals on chat really helped me on Sunday night come to terms with the fact that Im bi-curious or what ever term you feel is appropriate... That wouldnt have happened anywhere else...and they all always acknowledge me when I come on chat...
Ive also been fortunate to have the following happen in a very short space of time....
Been put on reserve for Mids 2006..thanks DreamerHelen...
Been invited to Notts in January 06 by Claire and Steve,,,again thanks
And finally through one of the threads I have been in contact with someone by phone (again name withheldtout of respect to them...)
I honestly didnt think ANY of this was going to happen so soon...I am glad that they have happened, but I WOULD have waited longer for them to happen. Patience is whats needed...and believe me, at times I am NOT a patient person.
:shock:
Any way, I HONESTLY hope that you do find what you are looking for, whether or not it is on this site....okay?
Hope to see you ALL soon....this year, next year...when ever.
Im a shy person, so its taken time to get to know people here...in fact I was using Chat a fair bit before I started using the forum....
Im also aware that as a single male, it'll be more difficult to mingle with people here because they arent necessarily looking for someone like me. Thats disappointing (from my point of view) but understandable...I would love to go to munches right now but, realise I have to wait. Meeting people in circumstances like this is about trust. People have to feel comfortable and I do too. I have made a few friends here (they know who they are..I wont mention names...it'll take a while for a start...lol) but I have felt nothing but encouragement from them...in fact 3 gals on chat really helped me on Sunday night come to terms with the fact that Im bi-curious or what ever term you feel is appropriate... That wouldnt have happened anywhere else...and they all always acknowledge me when I come on chat...
Ive also been fortunate to have the following happen in a very short space of time....
Been put on reserve for Mids 2006..thanks DreamerHelen...
Been invited to Notts in January 06 by Claire and Steve,,,again thanks
And finally through one of the threads I have been in contact with someone by phone (again name withheldtout of respect to them...)
I honestly didnt think ANY of this was going to happen so soon...I am glad that they have happened, but I WOULD have waited longer for them to happen. Patience is whats needed...and believe me, at times I am NOT a patient person.
:shock: Any way, I HONESTLY hope that you do find what you are looking for, whether or not it is on this site....okay?
Hope to see you ALL soon....this year, next year...when ever.
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I had a really big problem in partner a while back with a single guy who just would not leave me alone, even when saying no he still kept coming back, at the end of the night i was getting changed and there i was bloody naked bent over my locker, getting my clothes out when next thing i know this guy came in the chamging room and grabbed me, he was fully dressed and i was naked which made me feel uncomfy for a start, he unzipped his trousers and forced my hand down his pants
Im sorry that's happened to you NN. Im a single male and Ive always been respectful of other peoples "comfort zone" or what ever you want to call it...I know that NO means NO and I although I havent had that experience myself, its becoming more and more clear to me why I find it hard to get to know couples and single females in the club I occasionally got to...its because the minority (perhaps more than that, who knows for sure) dont understand the word....its a pity as I would really like to get to know people more. But its understandable if single women and couples are suspicious of a single man if there are idiots like that....
Quote by equi-princess
Just been in chat room and someone asked what a walton was...... welll
for those that dont know its a
sexual aid that alllows groups to have fun
and like yorks_dave said it comes from the same shop which you get net when diving for muffs.......
MikeC
A Walton is the male version of a Walther.......
equi-princess xxx
And theres me thinking a Walther was a type of gun.... :shock:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Why does MrGHC drain the colander upside down?
Coz he is a bloke doing the washing up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
excuse me :shock:
say that again?? :shock: :shock:
bloke doing the washing up you say? :shock:
and your moaning cause of the way he puts stuff on the draining board? :lol2:
I always do my washing up.....there again i have to, as my flatmate is a slob and will leave his stuff all over the bloody place....lol
