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Firelizard
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 61
Straight Male, 64
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Quote by winchwench
Oh dear....dear oh dear... gosh.... How do you tell your wife you've just been looking at tinternet, and have just seen a bloke with better boobs and bum than she has?
On second thoughts, lets not tell her.... shush!
S'allright Stormy- just had a PM from Fire telling me she'd just seen a woman with better boobs than you :thumbup:
Not you then...
Clearly. Fire & I have a pact- I'm getting my boobs out in front of her, and she promises not to look. :smug:
Well not so as you'd notice anyway
Quote by splendid_
I don't know what it is called.....
I am bent over being fucked... whilst going down on wor lass and she has a woman on her face.... I quite like the woman to be facing me.. but if she has a nice ass then her facing away too. I aint fussy about the gender of the person fucking me.. but like them to be doing it anally.
ermmmmm yup I think I like that one.
I'm sorry but that's just plain greedy
Ere there's loads going on in Bude!!!
There's erm beaches , trees 
, fields 
, aqua centre..well more of a swimming pool with a slide really :undecided: , shops...actually there's a great fish and chip shop :thumbup: , oh yeah and bowling :silly: and erm well loads of stuff!!!! 
When are ya down ere then matey!!!!!
There's erm beaches
, trees , fields , aqua centre..well more of a swimming pool with a slide really :undecided: , shops...actually there's a great fish and chip shop :thumbup: , oh yeah and bowling :silly: and erm well loads of stuff!!!! When are ya down ere then matey!!!!!
This has so reminded me of when I did my first ever (and only 
) home wax when I was about 19. I didnt know you had to put a strip on your leg and then pull it straight off so I plastered both legs with the damn things and then wondered why I was still up 4 hours later at midnight sitting in a bath of boiling hot water trying to shave the feckers off with a razor. I still have the war wounds now in places :shock: I havn't read every post on here in depth but have read enough to want to state our case.
At the moment we have a profile picture only and it is of part of me. There are photo's of me in the private gallery for anyone we feel like sending them to. We did used to have more photo's on the profile and again they were of me.
It's our profile, our photo's and OUR choice what we want to show and what we don't want to show. It makes me really aggravated when I read "I wish photo's of both the couple were on profile" or "I'm never interested if there are not photo's of both" or even worse "SH should make it a rule that the photo's are 50 50". Yeah it's nice to see photo's of both but if not and it irritates you that much...move on.
Stormy hates his photo being taken with a passion and I on the other hand quite like having mine done and don't mind having them shown from time to time. We are different in our likes and dislikes and we both have a choice and are excercising our right to act on that choice.
I don't personally give a toss about other folk being irritated, put out or put off by Stormy's photo not being there because if they can't be bothered to get to know us as people joining in the things we like Forums/Socials etc and are only interested in what we look like then we can't be bothered to have sex with them anyway.
Love
Fire xx
At the moment we have a profile picture only and it is of part of me. There are photo's of me in the private gallery for anyone we feel like sending them to. We did used to have more photo's on the profile and again they were of me.
It's our profile, our photo's and OUR choice what we want to show and what we don't want to show. It makes me really aggravated when I read "I wish photo's of both the couple were on profile" or "I'm never interested if there are not photo's of both" or even worse "SH should make it a rule that the photo's are 50 50". Yeah it's nice to see photo's of both but if not and it irritates you that much...move on.
Stormy hates his photo being taken with a passion and I on the other hand quite like having mine done and don't mind having them shown from time to time. We are different in our likes and dislikes and we both have a choice and are excercising our right to act on that choice.
I don't personally give a toss about other folk being irritated, put out or put off by Stormy's photo not being there because if they can't be bothered to get to know us as people joining in the things we like Forums/Socials etc and are only interested in what we look like then we can't be bothered to have sex with them anyway.
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Fire xx
Just to let folk know if they want to know. I only received 1 vote by PM and it has not affected the score at all.
Can I just say congratulations too to Lady Feebs
and obviously Lairdy for err well just pointing the camera at her really it's not as if she's capable of doing a bad photo is it :giggle:
Well done everyone who posted their pics, I know it took effort and your time so it's much appreciated.
As you all know Whips has offered to paint for the winner so I want to say thank you to her too as it is a very generous thing to do and will no doubt take up time and effort on her part too :kiss:
Loads of love
Fire xxx
Can I just say congratulations too to Lady Feebs
and obviously Lairdy for err well just pointing the camera at her really it's not as if she's capable of doing a bad photo is it :giggle: Well done everyone who posted their pics, I know it took effort and your time so it's much appreciated.
As you all know Whips has offered to paint for the winner so I want to say thank you to her too as it is a very generous thing to do and will no doubt take up time and effort on her part too :kiss:
Loads of love
Fire xxx
Quote by splendid_
Adultery is any sexual/other behaviour that happens outside the bounds of the agreements we have made as a couple.
For us that is pretty hard to explain. When I use the word fuck it means kissing/flirting etc as well as more intimate acts.
We do fuck people seperately. Anything goes for us personally.
We can fuck anyone who knows that we are in a relationship and respects that.
We can't fuck people we work with.
We can't fuck exes either our own or each other's
If we are due to meet as a couple and it doesn't work out then the other can't meet that person or people as a single.
I think that is it... it looks quite Bizarre written down.
No it doesn't Splen, it makes perfect sense to me
Oh I forgot to say I class it as ANY sexual act that happens outside of our relationship that hasn't been agreed to by both of us first.
Quote by anais
For anyone having trouble voting. This is what you should be considering when you make your choice........
"The object of the exercise is to find interesting and imaginative ways of portraying the human body in an erotic and artistic way"
The above was taken from the original remit on the other thread. It's all about how much thought and effort has gone into the photo/s not how much you like the person
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Fire xx
Before I vote on one of the beautiful photographs here on the above criteria. Can I ask participant (if they don't mind answering)the following:
Are the photographs recent? (last 6mths say) Were they taken by an amateur (do it as a pastime)a professional or yourself?
Some I can guess at...
Thank you
I know Im a pain in the arris... Id like to ask more questions but I think I'll shurrup while the goings good
My answer is yes and yes an amateur (very amateur
sorry Stormy :giggle: ) Quote by splendid_
oh gosh you are almost funny tan
weeeeeelllllll, the gay couple icon thing is a teeny weeny bit of a bug bear for me.
The site plan is for the new chatrooms to have the new icon in. The particular 'contributions' that I have made on this subject have been noted and I have been assured that this is something that will be happening.
It would seem from Tan's post that my 'contribution's' have been noted by more than just the site admin team.
Everything you say is noted :notes:
err, what did you say?
Quote by poshkate
I guess I used to be a lot more trusting of people than I am now. After trusting a number of people that I shouldn't have done I've learnt that you need to be very careful who you can and can't trust, i guess I just learn it the hard way
When I first joined here I was very trusting of a couple who I thought understood the importance of not gossiping about some of the things I told them. Unfortunately this was not the case and as soon as the realised that I wasn't going to shag them they went off telling all and sundry about my private life. The knock on effect of what they did was massive and made me have to make some major changes in my life. At the time I was devastated by what had happened and although I didn't find out immediately that it was them who had breeched my trust, when I did I was even more upset. After I'd calmed down more about the situation I did try to discuss it with the people involved but they have refused to discus it. For about 6 months after it happened I was very angry and upset that the thoughtlessness and idle gossip had caused me to change my life so dramatically......now when I think about it I just think that it's changed my life rather than ruined it and to a certain extend made my life better as I wouldn't be where it is now without what happened.
Whilst I do now trust far fewer people to the level that I had done previously, I'm also a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and if I hadn't have placed my trust in someone I shouldn't have done then I wouldn't be where I am and to be honest, lifes looking pretty rosey right now
Not sure if that really answers you question Mar but that's my rambling for the day :)
It's not what happens Kate it's how you deal with it. It's all about attitude and yours I bet was to get on and deal with stuff. What has happened to you shows more about their faults than anything you may have or may not have done
