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HJ
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 121
0 miles · West Midlands

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There does seem to be a disconnect between the dates/times shown on the friends/favourites icons and those shown on the profile. Perhaps the data comes from different databases which are not always in step. One for admin I think -- I'll consider raising a ticket if admin doesn't spot this and explain.
Yes of course age is a factor, both at your end of the scale and at mine. Being “Over 50” seems to be just as much a barrier as being under 30, however much you look and act older and I look and act younger. You of course have the advantage that you will grow out of it!
Do not despair – there are lovely ladies here who will be attracted to you just as there are a few who are attracted to older men, and lets face it if the chemistry isn’t there its not really going to work.
So I wish you lots of luck in your search and I’m sure someone nice will come your way. And in the meantime remember that there are an awful lot of us single guys and only a limited number of lovely ladies -- make yourself stand out from the rest by forum posts, chatroom (with camera if possible) and by visiting socials.
Yes its very good and it sounds as if it will get better as its developed. however we do seem to have lost the ability to distinguish premium members from "free" ones, which means that 80-90% of the people it finds won't be able to message back.
Thank you try for another great night, and also thanks to Johntina for the food, DJDell, and to Minxy for the entertainment. Thanks also to the peeps who attended and helped to make my night a good one.
I wonder if the millionth member got a free lollypop ??
If you are REALLY interested in someone, the search facility is the ONLY part of the site which can distinguish between "Standard" and "Premium" members. But you have to enter everything you know about that person to limit the number of "hits" you get, enter "premium" as one of the parameters, hit "search" and then troll through the list of people who fit your description to see if the person you want is there. Its very time consuming and probably only worthwhile for someone who's profile you really fancy.
Slightly belated Happy Birthday Sweetie --- and I know you had a good one .... xxxxxxxxxxx
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Would be great to join you. Dovedale is beautiful but will go with the flowsmile

I think that would land you somewhere near Hull or Grimsby corrie
Count me in too, if you can pick a warm day lol
Glad to hear you're getting better Dawnie -- hope you are soon back on top form xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Happy Birthday mrs News - have a great one xxxxxxxxx
Yeah it lets you get into chatrooms 2,3&4 when server 1 is bust. can't think of any other use though - its usually empty....
Thanks Dean it was a very good night out
Great night Minxie - as always it was great to meet old friends again and to make some new ones. Thanks for all the effort.
Yes mine are back too. Well done with the support ticket !!
Is anyone else having problems with sound in the chatroom. By that, I'm referring to the "click" when someone sends a new message. I always have mine turned on so that I can tell if there is any activity even when I'm doing something else such as browsing ads or the forum. Mine seems to have disappeared however many times I hit the "enable sound" button. has anyone else got the same problem or is it just me ??
Please put my name down -- I'll have to order some more cream eggs lol
I'm going to confirm, but my ex has a hospital appointment that day and if they decide to keep her in ( it has happened before) I'll be looking after my daughter.
Don’t let it throw you off course drummerman. I’ve spent some beautiful times with lovely ladies from this site with ages from 26 to 65 ( I love you all – you know who you are ) so just keep trying.
And it’s lovely to hear cherrytree and jaymar express appreciation for older guys – you both know where to find my inbox.
Put my name down too please dean
(and happy birthday Aliexxx)
A belated happy birthday Mr Nylons -- i hope you had a really good one !!
I think I can make it this time so if you still have room can you add me please
Happy birthday Si -- have a good one mate
Have a great birthday Nat xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Yes !! Two moves
I'd moved into parents house when I separated, and had to sell it after they died and split the proceeds with my brother. It had been on the market for over a year, but we sold it earlier this month, and my stuff is in storage and I'm in a bedsit with limited internet access. But I've just made an offer on a house which I'm hoping to move into within the next month, so I hope I can arrange a swinging housewarming soon lol